Chapter 1: Successful Helping

Question 1

First-order orientation

Answer 1

Avoiding potholes (avoiding problems)

Question 2

3 principle goals of helping (p8-12)

Answer 2

1. Life enhancing outcomes for the client
2. Learning how to help oneself
3. Developing a prevention mentality

Question 3

Second order orientation

Answer 3

Finding a better road (finding solutions)

Question 4

Why do people seek help?

Answer 4

Crises
Developmental problems
Problems in living
Missed opportunities or unused potential

Question 5

Common themes among help-seekers

Answer 5

Self-concept (esteem/discouragement)
Relationships
Control/ responsibilities/ choices
Existential/ developmental worries

Question 6

How do I become a good helper?

Answer 6

Knowledge
Skills
Person

Question 7

Shadow side of helping

Answer 7

Things that adversely affect the helping relationship, process, and outcomes in substantive ways

Question 8

What is helping?

Answer 8

Helping has to do with change or a decision
Assisting someone in finding their own solutions
Helping takes place in many settings