Butter - Deepen Emotional Gold Veins Flashcards
1.
List some great deepening questions?
PART 1
1.
Why is <____> important to you?
What do you mean by <____>?
Where do you feel the drive to <____> comes from?
Tell me more about that?
2.
List some more great deepening questions?
PART 2
2.
Do you feel like that’d impact <____> at all?
How so?
Why is it important for you to <____>?
How do you feel that <____> would impact <____>?
3.
What does it mean to mirror their emotions?
- MIRROR MIRROR MIRROR
Repeating what they say with curiosity makes them expand on it.
IE
“I wanna retire my mother and buy her a house”
Reply - “O I see, I love that, so you don’t want mom to have to work anymore, and you wanna give her a house”
If they don’t expand - ask deeper - “Do you have an idea of the type of place that would make her super happy?”
4.
At what point do you move onto attaching emotional reasons to income goal?
- Once they have felt the emotion behind their vision.