Attraction Flashcards
the more we see and interact with people, the more likely we are to start a relationship with them
Propinquity effect
the closeness between places in terms of interaction opportunities
functional distance
the tendency for novel stimuli to be liked more or rated more positively after being repeatedly exposed to a person
Mere exposure effect
the tendency to choose as partners those who are a match in attractiveness and other qualities
Matching hypothesis
we seek the most attractive partners possible, leading to matching through the process of elimination
Maximization hypothesis
if we are exposed to a very attractive person, we begin to view others (and even ourselves) as less attractive
contrast effects
we seek partners who are about as attractive as we are
Equalization hypothesis
the belief that physically attractive people have a wide range of positive characteristics
- More kind, sensitive, sexually warm and responsive, likable
Halo effect
- We like those who like us
- Aronson and Linder (1965)- the “I overheard you” study
- All positive
- All negative
- Start positive, got negative
- Start negative, got positive
Reciprocal liking
Sex differences in attraction and mate selection
women: desire slightly above average for a date, and want more with increasing commitment and for long term mates
men: have similar criteria for dates, men’s criteria are considerably lower for sexual partners, and the differences are even more pronounced for one-night stands