7: Attraction Flashcards
Basic principles of attraction.
We like people:
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- Who like us.
- Who satisfy out needs.
- Who rewards of knowing outweighs the costs.
When social rewards outweighs the costs, this is known as:
Hint: SAT
Social Exchange Theory
What was the results of Festinger, Schachter and Back (1950) study on proximity?
The closer people lived, the more friendly they were.
Why does proximity have an effect?
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(Hint: LACE)
- Lower cost.
- Anticipation of interaction increases liking,
- Cognitive dissonance.
- Ease of availability.
Being exposed to a stimulus increases our liking of it. This is known as the:
(Hint: MEE)
Mere Exposure Effect
Why does familiarity promote liking?
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(Hint: APIE)
- Assumed to be similar.
- Predictable.
- Improve recognition.
- Evolutionary adaptive.
Familiarity is effective at promoting liking if social interactions are initially _______ or ______. Liking will not occur if pre-existing _______ are intensified.
Familiarity is effective at promoting liking if social interactions are initially positive or neutral. Liking will not occur if pre-existing conflicts are intensified.
What is the main limit of the Mere Exposure Effect?
Too much exposure can lead to boredom.
What 4 types of similarities between individuals promote liking?
(Hint: AIBP)
- Attitudes
- Interests
- Background
- Personality
What was the result of Newbomb (1961) study on similarity influencing liking?
Similar roommates liked each others, dissimilar roommates dislike each other.
Choosing similar others is known as the:
Hint: MP
Matching Principle.
What were the results of Hill and Peplau (1998) study on similarity?
People match on a variety of attributes, but, friendship and love can transcend differences.
What are the 3 main reasons people prefer others who are similar to themselves?
- More rewarding.
- Less cognitive dissonance.
- More successful with similar others.
What are the 3 main limitations to choosing others who are similar to us?
- Differences can be rewarding.
- Differences allow people to pool knowledge.
- Can lead to echo chambers and bad decisions.
Evidence indicates that attractive people may be more:
socially skilled.
The most attractive faces are:
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- average
2. symmetrical
What are the 3 main benefits of online dating?
- Aggregates a large number of profiles.
- Proves opportunities for computer-mediated communication.
- Matches users based on analyses of compatibility.
Is online dating more or less successful than ‘old fashioned’ methods?
Success rates are the same.
What is the main pitfall of online dating?
People providing inaccurate information on their profile.
What percentage of people provide inaccurate information on their profile in at least one characteristic?
81%
Who are more likely to provide inaccurate or misleading information on their online dating profile, men or women?
Both are equally likely.
According to Berscheid and Walter, what type of love strikes suddenly but fades quickly?
Passionate love.
According to Berscheid and Walter, what type of love develops slowly, forming the basis for an enduring relationship?
Companionate love.
According to Berscheid and Walter, what are the 5 qualities of passionate love?
(Hint: EUAPI)
- Emotional.
- Uncontrollable.
- Arousing.
- Preoccupying.
- Idealised.
According to Berscheid and Walter, what are the 4 qualities of companionate love?
(Hint: ACTT)
- Affection.
- Caring.
- Trust.
- Tolerance
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, the 3 components that make up all relationships is:
- Intimacy.
- Commitment.
- Passion.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that only has passion is called:
infatuation.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has only commitment is called:
empty love.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has only intimacy is called:
liking.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has intimacy and commitment is called:
Companionate love.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has passion and commitment is called:
fatuous love.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has passion and intimacy is called:
romantic love.
According to Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love, a relationship that has intimacy, passion and commitment is called:
consummate love.
In infants, the primary goal of attachment is:
protection.
According to Ainsworth (1978), the 3 styles of attachment are:
- Secure
- Anxious/ambivalent
- Avoidant