6. Attachment and Intimacy Flashcards
For our ancestors, mutual attachments enabled ____.
group survival
The act of excluding or ignoring someone from a group or society as a form of social control or social rejection
ostracism
Factors that lead to friendship
- Proximity
- Physical Attractiveness
- Similarity
- Feeling liked nurtures
liking and loving.
refers to geographical nearness or more precisely, “functional distance” that powerfully predicts liking.
Proximity
contributes to the wariness of the unfamiliar, explaining the automatic and unconscious prejudice experienced towards those who are different.
mere exposure effect
The tendency for novel stimuli to be
liked more or rated more positively
after the rater has been repeatedly
exposed to them
mere exposure effect
is important in dating, particularly on first impressions. However, as relationships develop over time, people prioritize personality traits and shared interests over physical appearance.
Physical attractiveness
The tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a “good match” in attractiveness and other traits.
matching phenomenon
The presumption that physically
attractive people possess other
socially desirable traits as well: What is beautiful is good.
physical attractiveness stereotype
perceived promptly and primes positive processing.
physical attractiveness
mostly affects first impressions and it doesn’t always outrank other qualities.
physical attractiveness
is whatever the people of any given place and time find attractive.
attractiveness
Perception of attractiveness is influenced by exposure
to idealized images and standards.
social comparison
tends to make us see
those we like as being like us.
false consensus bias
The use of strategies, such as
flattery, by which people seek to gain another’s favor.
ingratiation
The theory that we like those whose behavior is rewarding to us or whom we associate with rewarding events.
reward theory of attraction
the closeness each partner feels to the other and the strength of the bond that binds them together.
intimacy
based on romantic feelings, physical attraction, and sexual intimacy with the partner.
passion
represents cognitive factors such as
acknowledging that one is in love and committed to maintaining the
relationship.
commitment
A state of intense longing for union with another.
passionate love
is emotional, exciting, and intense.
passionate love