6. Attachment and Intimacy Flashcards

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1
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For our ancestors, mutual attachments enabled ____.

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group survival

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The act of excluding or ignoring someone from a group or society as a form of social control or social rejection

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ostracism

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3
Q

Factors that lead to friendship

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  1. Proximity
  2. Physical Attractiveness
  3. Similarity
  4. Feeling liked nurtures
    liking and loving.
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4
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refers to geographical nearness or more precisely, “functional distance” that powerfully predicts liking.

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Proximity

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contributes to the wariness of the unfamiliar, explaining the automatic and unconscious prejudice experienced towards those who are different.

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mere exposure effect

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6
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The tendency for novel stimuli to be
liked more or rated more positively
after the rater has been repeatedly
exposed to them

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mere exposure effect

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7
Q

is important in dating, particularly on first impressions. However, as relationships develop over time, people prioritize personality traits and shared interests over physical appearance.

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Physical attractiveness

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The tendency for men and women to choose as partners those who are a “good match” in attractiveness and other traits.

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matching phenomenon

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9
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The presumption that physically
attractive people possess other
socially desirable traits as well: What is beautiful is good.

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physical attractiveness stereotype

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10
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perceived promptly and primes positive processing.

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physical attractiveness

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11
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mostly affects first impressions and it doesn’t always outrank other qualities.

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physical attractiveness

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12
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is whatever the people of any given place and time find attractive.

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attractiveness

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13
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Perception of attractiveness is influenced by exposure
to idealized images and standards.

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social comparison

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14
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tends to make us see
those we like as being like us.

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false consensus bias

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15
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The use of strategies, such as
flattery, by which people seek to gain another’s favor.

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ingratiation

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16
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The theory that we like those whose behavior is rewarding to us or whom we associate with rewarding events.

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reward theory of attraction

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17
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the closeness each partner feels to the other and the strength of the bond that binds them together.

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intimacy

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18
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based on romantic feelings, physical attraction, and sexual intimacy with the partner.

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passion

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19
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represents cognitive factors such as
acknowledging that one is in love and committed to maintaining the
relationship.

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commitment

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20
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A state of intense longing for union with another.

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passionate love

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21
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is emotional, exciting, and intense.

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passionate love

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22
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it often involves an idealization of the other person and a need to maintain constant physical closeness.

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passionate love

23
Q

An emotional arousal caused by an
exciting experience such as an
amusement park ride may be confused for sexual attraction.

a theory of passionate love

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Two-factor theory of emotion

24
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makes the heart grow fonder

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adrenaline

25
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is the affection we feel for those with whom our lives are deeply intertwined.

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companionate love

26
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is a powerful survival impulse.

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attachment

27
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refer to the way our primary caregivers interacted with us as infants, and how those interactions affect our relationships in adulthood

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attachment styles

28
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Attachments rooted in trust and marked by intimacy

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secure attachment

29
Q

Attachments marked by discomfort over, or resistance to, being close to others.

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avoidant attachment

30
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Attachments marked by anxiety or ambivalence. An insecure attachment style.

A

Anxious attachment

31
Q

is a condition in which the outcomes people receive
from a relationship are proportional to what they
contribute to it.

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equity

32
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refers to revealing intimate aspects of oneself to others.

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self-disclosure

33
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tendency for one person’s intimacy of self-disclosure to match that of a conversational partner

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disclosure reciprocy

34
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A motive to increase another’s welfare without conscious regard for one’s self-interests.

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altruism

35
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The theory that human interactions are transactions that aim to maximize one’s rewards and minimize one’s costs.

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social exchange theory

36
Q

An expectation that people will help, not hurt, those who have helped them

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reciprocity norm

37
Q

An expectation that people will help those needing help.

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social-responsibility

38
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If you carry my genes, I’ll favor you. The idea that evolution has selected altruism toward one’s close relatives to enhance the survival of mutually shared genes.

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kin selection

39
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We scratch each other’s backs. Genetic self-interest
also predicts reciprocity. An organism helps another because it expects help in return

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Direct reciprocity:

40
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I’ll scratch your back, you scratch someone’s, and someone will scratch mine.

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Indirect reciprocity:

41
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Back-scratching groups survive. When groups are in competition, groups of mutually supportive altruists outlast groups of nonaltruists

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Group selection:

42
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The vicarious experience of another’s feelings; putting oneself in another’s shoes.

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Empathy

43
Q

People are more likely to help someone if no one sees him helping someone else.

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bystaders

44
Q

People are more likely to help someone if no one sees him helping someone else.

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bystander effect

45
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People are more likely to help someone if no one sees him helping someone else.

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Bystanders

46
Q

Indicative of someone who highly values getting along with others.

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agreeableness

47
Q

a personality trait that refers to an individual’s ability to regulate their behavior to fit different social
situations.

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self-monitoring

48
Q

more often help when
strangers who need help
are faced with potentially
dangerous situations.

A

men

49
Q

are slightly more
likely to help in safer
situations.

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women

50
Q

predicts altruism, as reflected in volunteerism and charitable contributions

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religious faith

51
Q

how to promote altruism?

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reverse those factors that
inhibit it.

52
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refers to observing and
learning from the actions of others.

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Real-life modeling

53
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refers to the idea that
prosocial media can positively influence viewers’ behavior, promoting altruism.

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Media Modeling