WoB Men Vs Women Quotes Flashcards
Saying that men can counsel women but not command
Men may conseille a womman to been oon,
But counseilling is no comandement.
He putte it in oure owne juggement
She’s got the power
I have the power duringe al my lyf
Upon his propre body, and noght he. As the Apostel told unto me; And bad oure housbondes for to love us weel.
The wife points out that women’s virtue is attacked based on their looks - if they are ugly or if they are beautiful. Similar to Celia and Lady Would-be in Volpone
Thou seist men may nat kepe a castel wal,
It may so longe assailled been overal.
And if that she be foul, thou seist that she
Coveiteth every man that she may se,
For as a spaynel she wol on him lepe
How is Argus mentioned in relation to spying men?
Sire olde fool, what helpeth thee to spyen?
Thogh thou preye Argus with his hundred yen
To be my wards-cors, as he kan best,
In feith, he shal nat kepe me but me lest;
Yet koude I make his berd, so moot I thee! (She suggests he spied on her, but also keeps guard - yet even if she were married to Argus, she could still outwit him)
She makes the point that wives in parables are almost always bad
Thou likest eek wommenes love to helle,
To bareyne lond, ther water may nat dwelle.
Thou liknest it also to wilde fyr;
The moore it brenneth, the moore it hath desir (…)
Thou seyest, right as wormes shende a tree,
Right so a wyf destroyeth hire housbonde
The wife makes appoint about of women had written the stories instead of men
By God! If wommen hadde writen stories,
As clerkes han withinne hire oratories,
They wolde han writen of men moore wikkednesse
Than al the mark of Adam may redresse.
Her example of Mercury and Venus as opposites
The children of Mercurie and of Venus Been in hir wirking ful contrarius; Mercurie loveth wisdam and science, And Venus loveth riot and dispence. (...) Ech falleth in otheres exaltacioun
Jankin’s belief about women and the loss of mankind
“Of Eva first, that for hir wikkednesse
Was al mankinde broght to wrecchednesse,
For which that Jhesu Crist himself was slain (…)
Womman was the los of al mankinde
Who are some of the people that Jankin read to the wife, regarding wicked wives?
Sampson (his lover cut his hair and eyes), Hercules and Dianire (she caused Hercules to set himself on fire), Socrates and Xantippa, Phasipha the queen of Crete, Clitermystra, Thebes, Eriphalem, Livia, Lucie
What does Jankin say is better than living with an angry wife?
"Bet is" quod he, "thyn habitacioun Be with a leon or a foul dragoun, Than with a womman usinge for to chide Bet is hye in the roof abide, Than with an angry wyf doun in the hous (like that quote 'hell hath no wrath like a woman scorned')
Tale: some of the things that people said women most desired on the knight’s quest
Somme seyde wommen loven best richesse,
Somme seyde honour, some seyde jolinesse,
Somme riche array, somme seyden lust abedde,
And oftetime to be widwe and wedde. (…)
And somme seyen that we loven best
For to be free, and do right as us lest
Tale: women like to be thought of as clean of sin
For, be we never so vicious withinne,
We wol been holden wise and clene of sinne.
The wife uses what tale to display how women can’t keep secrets?
Midas - his ears turned into ass’s ears, so “Doun to a mareys faste by she ran” and “leyde her mouth into the water doun” to let out the secret into the water
Tale: what do women desire?
Knight: Wommen desiren to have sovereinetee
As wel over hir housbond as hir love,
And for to been in maistrie him above.
This is your mooste desir, thogh ye me kille.
Dooth as yow list; I am heer at youre wille.