When relationships go wrong Flashcards
interactions with close partners involving negativity or hostility have been linked to:
- disrupted physiological stress responses
- elevated blood pressure
- cortisol reactivity
- poorer immune responses
- chronic pain
- slower wound healing
- obesity
examples of couples health concordance. (2)
- couples mutually influence each other’s mental and physical health trajectories (Hoppmann et al, 2011)
- people typically choose a partner who is similar in terms of attitudes, demographics, and health-related behaviours: diet, physical activity, smoking, alcohol consumption (Jackson et al,2015)
external factors that can be seen as threat to a relationship
eg birth of child, loss of job, extra job responsibilities
stresses from social norms that can be seen as threat to a relationship
expectations that men and women enact specific roles
suspected infidelity that can be seen as threat to a relationship
potential rivals may elicit feelings of jealously
interdependance theory
contagion of depressive symptoms and distress (one partner’s depression feeding the other partner emotions)
the investment model (Rusbult, 1980, 1983, 1998)
an extension of interdependence theory, has been used to predict and explain infidelity in dating relationships
- with relationship satisfaction, investments and the perceived quality of alternatives to the relationship predicting levels off relationship commitment
what two ways can conflicts be handled
constructively or destructively
constructive accommodations
a couple’s patterns of accommodation can influence their relationship satisfaction and the relationship longevity
constructive accommodation examples of resources partners have two bring into the maintenance of their relationship (3)
- couples with secure attachment styles tend to experience less jealously
- couples with secure attachment styles tend to experience less jealously
- preoccupied or fearful attachments are more likely to show strong, negative emotions
bereavement - Kubler-Ross (1969) five stages to the adjustment of dying
- denial
- anger, loss of control
3.bargaining (an attempt to postpone the inevitable) - depresison
- acceptance
behavioural convergence
coupes who share a lifestyle as well as common stressors, eg common living environment, pool resources eat together, share social networks
cortisol
a hormone that regulates a wide range of processes throughout the body
- elevated cortisol can interfere with learning and memory
- elevated cortisol levels are associated with lower immune function, increased weight gain, higher blood pressure, cholesterol and risk of heart disease