Week 6 - Ch. 12 Flashcards
accommodating
a lose-win conflict style in which the communicator submits to a situation rather than attempting to have her or her needs met.
avoiding
a lose-lose conflict style in which the parties ignore the problem at hand
collaborating
a conflict management style that seeks win-win solutions
competing
a win-lose approach to conflicts that seeks to resolve them in one’s own way.
complementary conflict style
a relational conflict style in which partners use different but mutually reinforcing behaviors.
compromising
an approach to conflict resolution in which both parties attain at least part of what they wanted through self-sacrifice
conflict
an expressed struggle between at least two interdependent parties who perceive incompatible goals, scarce resources, and interference from the other party in achieving their goals.
conflict ritual
an unacknowledged repeating pattern of interlocking behavior used by participants in a conflict
crazymaking
an indirect expression of aggression delivered in a way that allows the sender to maintain a facade of kindness.
direct aggression
a criticism or demand that threatens the face of the person at whom it is directed.
parallel conflict style
a relational conflict style in which the approach of the partners varies from one situation to another.
passive aggression
an indirect expression of aggression delivered in a way that allows the sender to maintain a facade of kindness. same as crazy making.
relational conflict style
a pattern of managing disagreements that repeats itself over time in a relationship
symmetrical conflict style
a relational conflict style in which both partners use the same tactics.