Week 18: Interacting with Tough Content, Self-care, and Wellness Flashcards
Three questions for happiness
What makes us happy?
Why be happy?
Why is it hard to stay happy?
Can/should you be happy all the time
NO.
- toxic positivity
*We should be more positive though
Types of subjective wellbeing
- life satisfaction
- frequent positive feelings
- Rare negative feelings
*Tends to be consistent across life span
Inborn temperament
basis of one’s personality
*Biologically rooted
Greater wellbeing
How well our Inborn temperament fit with out environment
Personality and temperament
Personality results from interaction between inborn temperament and environment
Extroversion
Positive affect
Neuroticism
negative feelings
Cognition on “Outlook”
Optimism, hope, gratitude, and positivity linked with positive well-being
Hope correlated with subjective well-being
Internal causes of wellbeing
Resilience
- mediated relationship between hope/resilience and wellbeing
- Hope/resilience associated with happiness
5 resilience factors
- coping
- control and self-efficacy
- social relationships
- disposition and emotions
- stress management
coping - problem focused
addresses actual event
- outcomes under our control
coping - emotion focused
not as productive as problem focused
Control & Self efficacy
PERCEPTION of control is what’s beneficial
*improve immune function
*reduces stress
- self efficacy = believing you can do what is needed to achieve the goal
Social Support
Correlated with
- good mental health
- good physical health
Loneliness: leads to drug disorder
- lack of connection more dangerous than obesity, smoking, high blood pressure
More social support = less depression
Disposition and emotions
Type A
- more likely to get heart disease
Type B
Type A Type B
Competitive Relaxed
Ambitious Laid-back
Time urgency Flexible
Controlling Tolerant
Impatient Even-tempered
Stress management
high stress = High cortosal
- focus on controlling how we respond to stress
We can control:
Heart rate
brain waves
Kahneman & Deaton (2010)
- Large survey of > 450 000 Americans
- Emotional wellbeing doesn’t benefit from
more money after $75 000
▪ This is ~ $140 500 CAD in 2024
*Closer to $140,000 today
Relationship between money and happiness is
Killingsworth et al., (2022)
linear.
Killingsworth et al., (2022)
- Happiness does go up with income –
until $500 000
- BUT, not very many ppl make this much,
so data is lacking
- ~15% in the “unhappy” group didn’t
show this pattern after $100 000
- Some ppl may be more/less sensitive to
external factors
External causes of wellbeing
WIFI???
1. Sufficient material needs
- we need enough to meet our basic needs
- Sufficient Social Recources
- relationships and belonging a fundamental human need
* happily married vs just married
3.
Sufficient Social Resources
Helliwell & Huang (2013)
Virtual friends are not as beneficial as IRL friends
Study:
- N = 5000
- IRL vs. online friends
- More IRL friends =
subjective well-being
- Double your IRL friends = like
making 50% more $ in terms
of
- subjective well-being
- More important for those
w/o romantic partner
- Online friends unrelated to
subjective well-being
Is it just having money or how we spend it?
Dunn et al. (2008)
Experiences vs. things?
Spending money on others has a better effect than on ourselves.
- After receiving a ~$5000 bonus
- Happiness: Prosocial > personal
spending - E.g. donating to charity, buying items for
someone else - Similar results in the survey study of
>600 Americans
External Cause on well being - Desirable society
The environment in which we live will influence our daily lives
E.g. developed countries
- Most people have enough food, shelter,
safety i.e. sufficient material resources
- War & Conflict
- Negatively impacts subjective wellbeing,
particularly for those directly impacted
e.g. displaced
Finland - Happy
- low income inequality
- Public health system with short wait times
- cheap and reliable public transportation
- excellent education system
- social housing - low homelessness rates
WHY be happy
- lowers morbidity and mortality
*live longer, feel fine living longer - more preventative health behaviours
*More complacent with COVID measures
-Higher number and quality of social relationships
*highly satisfied marriage, more open, less stressful
Greater work productivity and income
Adaptation to circumstances
Hedonic set point of happiness
- affective forecasting, overestimate impact of life events
E.g.
- Major lottery winners are not happier than
controls
- The impact of marriage on happiness lasts
about 2 yrs for most people
- Adaptation to losing a spouse after ~ 8yrs
IS NOT INEVITABLE*
people who idealize past
E.g. Lucas (2007)
* 2 studies of nearly 80 000
- Followed for up to 7 yrs before/after
acquiring a disability
▪ “officially certified as having a reduced capacity
to work or being severely handicapped”
Disability = significant reduction in
happiness that did not rebound over
observed time
How to increase wellbeing?
- Exercise
- frequent = better
- Social media detox
- IRL social interaction