Week 12 - Emotional Regulation Flashcards
Emotional regulation
set of conscious and unconscious processes used to
both monitor and modulate emotional experiences and expressions
Develops gradually and paves the way for success in relationships
Down-regulate
Attenuate emotion - not wanting to feel the emotion so try to diminish it
Up-regulate
Amplify emotion - want to feel it more
Emotion regulation strategies
Appraisal theory - gross 2015
Situation selection - avoid the situation
Situation modification - change the situation
Attentional deployment - refocus attention
Cognitive change - change perception
Response modulation - shift reaction
distressed vs happy infants
Parents help regulate by soothing (holding/rocking,
distracting, talking, singing, “shushing”)
Upregulate happiness by showing happiness
themselves or repeating act that caused the emotion
Co-regulation
caregiver provides the needed
comfort and/or distraction to help a child reduce
their distress
Rudimentary emotional regulation
5 months old: show signs of rudimentary emotion
regulation
Self-comforting behaviours: repetitive actions that
regulate arousal by providing a positive physical
sensation
• Self-distraction: looking away from the upsetting
stimulus in order to regulate one’s level of arousal
Marshmallow test
• Strategies were important for regulating
• Those who covered eyes and distracted themselves did better
• Some distractions effective, some not
• Delay of gratification longitudinally predicted:
• Attention, intelligence, and use of strategy 10 years later
• Better performance in high school
• Higher education, self-esteem, and better coping with stress at age 30
Causes of change in emotional regulation
- Development of the frontal lobes
(managing attention and inhibiting
thoughts/behaviours) - Understanding expectations
a. With increased mobility, parents
expect children to manage behaviour
b. With increases in language ability,
parents negotiate and discuss
emotional situations
c. Attending to social norms
Why is emotion regulation important
ER abilities -> Social Competence (ability to achieve personal goals
in social settings while maintaining positive relationships with others)
Ways that families influence emotional development
Indirect (implicit) emotion socialization
Direct (explicit) emotion socialization
Emotion socialization: direct and indirect influence that parents have on their children’s emotions
Indirect emotion socialization
• Parents’ expression of emotion (modeling)
• Affects children’s understanding of what types of
emotional expressions are appropriate to
experience when
• Low emotional expressiveness in the family =
message that emotions should be avoided
• Affects children’s own distress and ability to
process important info about the others’
interactions (emotion contagion)
Still faced paradigm
Still-Face Paradigm (Tronick et al.,
1978)
• Control group: play with your
children for 10 minutes
• Experimental group:
• Interact normally for 2 mins
• Still face (sit back in chair and
maintain a neutral expression)
• Interact normally for 2 mins
• Still face
• Interact normally
Still faced paradigm results
Infants look away to regulate stress
Still face leads to an increase in distress
Emotional expression in the home
Happiness - Children express and experience higher levels of happiness and are more socially skilled, better able to understand others’ emotions, display rules, and have high self-esteems
Anger - Children experience and express negative emotions, exhibit low levels of social competence, at risk for depression and anxiety, inability to regulate
Universal emotion characteristics
Some general themes of what triggers each emotion
Debated
- 7 emotions - happiness, sadness, anger, fear, surprise, disgust, contempt
- facial expressions of the 7 emotions
Cultural specifics and emotions
Interdependence vs independence
- interdependence less likely to express happy emotions
Display rules: guidelines we learn about how and when to express our emotions
Language used to describe emotion and specific words for emotion
Specific events that are likely to call forth an emotion
Attitudes about emotions
Direct emotion socialization strategies
Supportive
• Validating
• Magnifying
• Rewarding
• Problem-solving
Unsupportive
• Dismissing (minimizing)
• Neglecting
• Criticizing
• Punishing
Parents’ discussions about emotions
Parent-child conversations are critical for shaping children’s emotions and emotion
regulation abilities
Through conversations, parents teach
children about:
* The meaning of emotions
* Contexts in which the emotions should (not) be expressed
* Consequences of expressing emotions
* Practice regulation skills (emotion coaching) - discuss emotions, help them to learn to cope and express them appropriately
How do discussions impact emotional development
Rich conversations that involve discussions about thoughts and emotions early in development Children’s emotion language and understanding
Childs own characteristics impact
Temperament
Individual differences in children’s emotion, activity level, and
attention exhibited across contexts
• Broader than personality traits
• “Building blocks of personality”
• Represent the innate biological structures of personality + influence of early environment
Three characteristics of temperament
- Activity level = overall amount of energy and of behavior a person
exhibits - Emotionality = The intensity of emotional reactions
- Attention = attending and focusing on an object and a task for an
extended period of time. - Sociability = general tendency to affiliate with others
Temperament categorizations
Easy Babies 40%
• Readily adjust to new
situations
• Establish daily routines
easily
• Cheerful in mood and
easy to calm
Difficult Babies 10%
• Slow to adjust to new
experiences
• React negatively and
intensely to novel
situations
• Irregular in daily routines
Slow-to-warm-up babies 15%
• Difficult at first but
become easier over time
with repeated contact