Week 10 - The Self Flashcards
The self
- Physical characteristics
- Personality traits
- Personal preferences
- Social and familial relationships
- Details of ethnicity, culture, national origin
Self concept
Conceptual system made up of one’s thoughts and attitudes about oneself
Physical being, social roles and relationships, and internal characteristics
Understanding of how the self changes or remains the same over time
Emergence of the self concept
Emerges early and continues to develop into adulthood
* More complex with increased emotional and cognitive
development
* Is enhanced when adults provide descriptive information about the child
Development of self 0-18 months
○ Rudimentary understanding of one’s physical self
○ Begin to appreciate that they are different from
others (self-other differentiation)
Development of self 18-20 months
Know reflection in mirror is themselves Tested via the “Rouge Test”
Cross-cultural differences
Development of self 2 years
Recognize themselves in photographs (life story)
Show embarrassment and shame
Self-awareness (via self-assertion)
Development of self in childhood
Sense of self is largely a social construction based on observations and
evaluations from others, as well as how they are treated by others
At age 3 to 4
Understand concrete, observable characteristics related to physical attributes, physical activities and abilities, psychological traits, and preferences Self-evaluations unrealistically positive
Self concept in elementary school
Increasingly based on relationships with
others (namely peers)
Care about others’ evaluations of them
(consider popularity and performance)
self
social comparison
coordinates opposing self representations - smart in math, bad at science
social comparison
process of comparing aspects of one’s own psychological, behavioral, or physical functioning to that of others in order to evaluate oneself
development of self in early adolescence
Abstract thinking leads to abstract characteristics to describe themselves
Multiple selves (e.g., self with parents vs. with friends vs. at their job) and lack the ability to integrate these into a coherent whole (which resolves over time)
development of self in early adolescence is characterized by
ego centrism
Personal fable - a story that adolescents tell about themselves that involves beliefs in the uniqueness of their own feelings and their
immortality - nobody else understands
Imaginary audience - refers to the belief that everyone is focused on the adolescent’s appearance and behavior
development of self in middle adolesence
Are better than younger adolescents at identifying contradictions in themselves
BUT begin to agonize over the contradictions in their behavior and
characteristics
* Introspective: “Who am I?”
* Most do not have the cognitive skills
needed to integrate contradictions into a coherent conception of self
development of self in late adolescence and early adulthood
The conception of self becomes more integrated and less determined by what others think
Conceptions of self frequently reflect internalized personal values, beliefs, and standards - am I a good person?
Able to integrate opposing facets of self with…
Support from parents, teachers, and others is important in helping adolescents understand the complexity of personalities.
self esteem
overall subjective evaluation of their worth and the feelings they have about that evaluation
costs of high self-esteem - arrogance, narcissism, aggression, overestimate capabilities may not ask for help
Low self esteem associated with anxiety, depression, and bullying
sources of self esteem
Changes in self-esteem over time
* High in childhood, drops in -
adolescence, and high in adulthood
- Gender - males have higher self esteem overall and in athletics, appearance, and self satisfaction - females have lower overall, but higher in behavioural conduct and moral-ethical esteem
Parents and self esteem
- Approval and support
- Self-esteem is grounded in the quality of our relationships
being - If children are loved = they believe are worthy of love as adolescents and adults
- Discipline:
- Firm but loving = potential for high self-esteem
- Consistent belittlement or rejection and social comparison= low self-
~ low support esteem (“why can’t you be more like your sister?”)
inflated praise
less challenge seeking behaviour - less motivation
avoid using inflated praise on kids with low self esteem especially - set realistic standards - if bar is too high - they dont wanna fail
peers and self esteem
Feelings of competence depend, in part, on how peers evaluate them
* At the same time, children’s self-esteem likely affects how peers
respond to them
schools/neighbourhoods and self esteem
- Switch from elementary/middle school to high school is difficult * New group of peers and new social order
- Violent neighborhoods→low self-esteem
culture and self esteem
Western societies→individual accomplishments
* Asian societies→collective welfare
* Self-criticism and efforts at self-improvement are the norm
collective
* More comfortable with acknowledging good and bad traits
which theory considers influences of self esteem
bioecological theory
identity
an individual’s sense of self defined by (a) a set of physical, psychological, and interpersonal characteristics that is not wholly shared with any other person and (b) a range of affiliations (e.g., ethnicity) and social roles
We each have multiple identities.
Adolescence is a period in which children get to know their multiple identities and forge new identities that are separate from their parents and childhood friends.
difference between identity and self concept
Identity = label - broader
Self-concept = ingredients + internal knowledge
theories of identity development
During adolescence…
- There is an identity crisis
- Re-evaluation of commitments
- Outcome:
- 1) Renewed commitment to previously held beliefs
- 2) Total rejection of them
identity development design
moratorium - exploring with no commitment
identity achievement - explored and committed
identity diffusion - no progress toward exploring or committing
identity foreclosures - committed with low exploration, takes on parents values
most typical sequence
Diffusion → foreclosure → achievement
Diffusion → moratorium → foreclosure → achievement
identity sequence depends on
Warmth and support of parents
* Child’s own interests
* Socioeconomic status (only so many resources
available for exploration)
* Can be bound by historical context
* In the past, identity for girls was focused on marriage
and family
* Today: family + career