W8 Self-compasion Flashcards
What is positive psychology
is the scientific study of what makes life most worth living. It is the scientific approach of focusing on positive experiences and positive states/traits.
Covers topics: optimism, life satisfaction, happiness, wellbeing, gratitude, compassion, self-esteem/confidence, hope
How is self-compassion defined?
Self-compassion is a healthy way to respond to the self during times of suffering.
Self-compassion Gilbert, 2014
Based on social mentality theory (emotion/cognition/behaviour)
Compassionate mind: caregivign motivation guided by Parasympathetic safeness system (elicits thougths/feeling/behaviours), sympathetic threat edfense system (prompts thougths/feeling/behaviours) reduce threat.
The forms of criticizing/attacking the self-reassuring Scale (FSCRS)
Developed as a measure of the amount to which individuals utilize each of these systems during times of struggle.
22 item self-report questionnaire, two components of self-compassion: self-criticism (inadequacy, hated self) and the ability to self-reassure. 5 point-scale
Self-compassion Neff, 2003, 2018
Most common model. Being in a self-compassionate mind state includes:
1- holding one’s emotional or cognitive pain in mindful awareness rather than avoiding the experience or over identifying with it,
2- being kind and understanding towards the self rather than being judgmental or critical,
3-seeing one’s imperfection as part of a shared common humanity rather than as isolating.
Independent but don’t function on their own.
Self-kindness
involves responding to all actions, thoughts, feelings and impulses during times of difficulty with understanding, warmth and patience.
Self-judgement
Involves hostile, demeaning and critical reactions towards the self that can influence further pain in already painful situations.
Overidentiifcation
: ruminating about one’s limitations and painful experiences and over-identifying these experiences as a part of the person
Mindfulness
a non-judgmental mind state that requires an attentive, balanced and accepting perspective of an experience.
Isolation
feeling alone in suffering failure adn inadequacy
Common humanity
a person’s ability to recognize the shared imperfections, weaknesses, sorrow, confusion and struggles that all humans experience.
Self-esteem
Evaluative component of the self-concept (subjective apprailsal of oneself as intrinsicallly positive or negative)
High self-esteem
confidence, feeling loved and respected, resilience
Low self-esteem
low confidence, unsure about value to others
Self-esteem is often built through comparisons with others. Self-esteem can change over time.
Self compassion is
being self-aware, supporting yourself to meet your own goals, building resilience to setbacks and obstacles