Unit 9 Flashcards
What is a friendship?
a close, mutual, reciprocal, voluntary relationship
- 1 to 1 relationship -smallest unit of peer relationships
- exist across development
What do friendships look look like in early childhood? Age 3-4
- friends with those who live nearby, have nice toys, like to play
- can verbally identify who
- rewards vs. costs - ex. won’t be friends w/ someone who hits
- physical closeness
When do friendships start?
-infancy -can see them gravitating towards certain peers over others
What do friendships look like in middle childhood? elementary age
- shared interests
- take care of/support each other
- mutual trust
What do friendships in adolescence look like?
- shared interests
- shared values
- engage in self-disclosure, intimacy
- psychological closeness -loyalty -abstract
How does time spent with peers change over development?
- increases over development
- *
- (more for girls than boys)
How do perspective taking abilities change over development?
-increases over time -at first egocentric (not good ToM) and then think about what other person is thinking about/values more -shape what we want out of friendships
What are the functions of friendships?
- emotional support
- buffer in stressful times (cortisol lower when best friend is present in positive/negative situations)
- development of social skills & cognitive skills (better on projects w/ friends)
- conflict & resolution (don’t fight as much as siblings -more likely to make up & fight in functional way)
- model and reinforce behaviour (neg. ex. deviancy training)
What is deviancy training?
-can encourage youth to engage in antisocial behaviours (aggression, bullying, drugs, alcohol, etc) -so modelling can be negative
What are cliques?
- smaller, voluntary, friendship-based groups
- shared interests and attitudes
- tend to ahve shared bg (@ first same gender, then mixed) (@ first mixed race, then same)
- flexible - can eb a part of many cliques
What percent of teens are members of a clique?
-50-75%
What are crowds?
- reputation-based groups
- less voluntary
- seen w/in environment as belonging to a group (ex. jocks, nerds, druggies, etc.)
What can crows be associated w/?
- lower self esteem
- can feel stuck b/c not as voluntary
What are functions of cliques?
- same as friends
- emotional support, buffer to stress, social & cognitive skills, modelling & reinforcement, conflict resolution
- sense of belonging
- context of friendship
- social group
- for straight teens - can support/guide interest in romantic relationships
How do cliques guide romantic relationships (for straight teens)(LGB)?
- at first cliques are same gender – then mixed gender – then romantic couples often form w/in the clique
- for LGB - find ppl outside of cliques
What are the functions of crowds?
- sense of belongingness
- locate individuals w/in social environment
- contribute to sense of identity & self-concept
- establish social norms
What is the sociometric status?
-kids list who they like and dislike etc.
-controversial, rejected, popular neglected, or average
-how we are regarded by our peers
(-peers get more important over middle childhood & adolescence)
What is the controversial status? % of pop?
lots of likes & lots of dislikes
- 6-12%
- rare
- can be helpful/cooperative but also disruptive/aggressive
What is the rejected status? %?
- few likes -lots of dislikes
- 12-20%
- rejected-aggressive
- rejected-withdrawn
- ^ can have a mix of both at same time
What is the popular status? %? Caveat?
- lots of likes & few dislikes
- 12-20%
- different than perceived popular status
- skilled at initiating & maintaining positive interactions
- good at recognizing & regulating emotions
- good @ perspective taking -ToM
- rated by teachers as cooperative, friendly, helpful, leaders
- assertive, but not pushy
What is the neglected status? %? Outcomes?
- few dislikes and few likes
- 6-20%
- don’t really show up on lists
- timid, shy, lack of social skills
- not linked w/ negative outcomes
- often not bothered by classification/indifferent
What is the average status? %?
- mix of likes & dislikes -not a lot- not too few
- most common
- 30-60%
- moderately sociable, average cognitive skills
- (can have some movement)