Unit 6: Interdependency Flashcards
Interdependency
exists when we need others and they need us in order to obtain valuable interpersonal rewards
Social Exchange
process in which they each provide to the other benefits and rewards that the other wants
Outcome
describes the net profit or loss a person encounters, all things considered
Comparison Level (CL)
describes the value of the outcomes that we’re come to expect and believe that we deserve in our dealings with others
Comparison Level (CLalt)
determine whether we could be doing even better somewhere else
Investments
the things one would lose if the relationship were to end
Principles of Lesser Intent
suggests that the partner who depends less on a relationship has more power in that relationship
5-to-1
to stay satisfied in a close relationship, we may need to maintain a rewards-to-cost ratio of at least 5:1
Approach Motivation
we pursue pleasure and our motivation for doing something is to feel good, and when we draw near to, or approach, desired experiences, we feel positive emotions such as enthusiasm and excitement
Avoidance Motivation
we seek to elude or escape punishment and pain, so we strive to avoid undesired experiences and to reduce negative feelings such as anxiety and fear
Boredom
characterized by tedium, disinterest, and a lack of energy, and it occurs when nothing enticing, intriguing, or new is occurring in an intimate relationship
Self-Expansion Model
holds that we are attracted to partnership that expand the range of our interests, skills, and experience
Relational Turbulence
we should expect a period of adjustment and turmoil as new partners become accustomed to their increasing interdependence
Unanticipated Costs
lack of effort, interdependency is a magnifying glass, access to weaponry, unwelcome surprises, unrealistic expectations
Exchange Relationships
people do favours for others expecting to be repaid by receiving comparable benefits in return
Communal Relationships
the partners feel a special concern for the other’s well-being, and they provide favors and support to one another without expecting repayment
Equity
assert that people are most satisfied in relationships in which there is proportional justice, which means that each partner gain benefits from the relationship that are proportional to his or her contributions to it
Overbenefited
receiving better outcomes than he or she deserves
Underbenefited
receiving less than he or she should
Maximizers
don’t want to just be happy, they want to optimize their outcomes and enjoy maximum satisfaction, so they keep evaluating their options
Commitment
a desire for the relationship to continue and the willingness to work to maintain it
Investment Model
commitment emerges from all of the elements of social exchange that are associated with peoples CLs and CLalts
Commitment Readiness
a sense of whether or not an individual is ready to be in a romantic relationship
Personal Commitment
occurs when people want to continue a relationship because they are attracted to their partners and the relationship is satisfying