Unit 1: Building Blocks of Relationships Flashcards
Intimate Relationships
involve knowledge, interdependence, caring, trust, responsiveness, mutuality, and commitment
Knowledge
intimate partners have extensive personal, often confidential, knowledge about each other
Interdependence
is frequent (they often affect each other), strong (they have meaningful impact on each other), diverse (they influence each other in many different ways), and enduring (they influence each other over long periods of time)
when relationships are interdependent, one’s behavior affects one’s partner as well as oneself
Caring
intimate partners care about each other
they feel more affection for one another than they do for most others
Trust
people in intimate relationships trust one another, expecting to be treated fairly and honorably
Responsiveness
intimacy increases when people believe that their partners understand, respect, and appreciate them, being attentively and effectively responsive to their needs and concerned for their welfare
Mutuality
people in intimate relationships exhibits a high degree of mutuality, which means that they recognize their close connection and think of themselves as “us” instead of “me” and “him” (or “her”)
Commitment
people in intimate relationships expect their partnerships to continue indefinitely, and they invest the time, effort, and resources that are needed to realize that goal
Need To Belong
we need frequent, pleasant interactions with intimate partners in lasting, caring relationships if we’re to function normally
Singlism
refers to prejudice and discrimination against those who choose to remain single and opt not to devote themselves to a primary romantic relationship
Technoference
the frequent interruptions of interactions of couples that are caused by their various technological devices
Phubbing
occurs when one partner snubs another by focusing on a phone
Sex Ratio
a simple count of the number of men for every 100 women in a specific population
when the sex ratio is high, there are more men than women
when it is low, there are fewer men than women
Attachment Styles
global orientations towards relationships
Secure Attachment
children happily bonded with others and relied on them comfortably, and they readily developed relationships characterized by relaxed trust
Anxious-Ambivalent Attachment
being uncertain of when (or if) a departing caregiver would return, children became clingy, nervous, and needy in their relationships with others
Avoidant Attachment
children were often suspicious of others, and they did not easily form trusting, close relationships
Batholomew’s Four Attachment Styles
secure, preoccupied, fearful, dismissing
Avoidance of Intimacy
affects the ease and trust with which people accept interdependent intimacy with others
Anxiety About Abandonment
the dread that others will find them unworthy and leave them