UM 05 Negotiating Flashcards
Negotiation Defined:
Process involving two or more people or groups who hold different positions, interests, goals, values, or beliefs yet wish to reach an agreement on an issue or course of action.
Before you negotiate consider:
Who is the conflict with? What is the risk? What is the severity?
Conflict Management Styles:
Compete Collaborate Accommodate Avoid Compromise
COMPETE
I WIN / YOU LOSE
COLLABORATE
I WIN / YOU WIN
ACCOMMODATE
I LOSE/ YOU WIN
AVOID
I LOSE/ YOU LOSE
COMPROMISE
I WIN/LOSE YOU WIN/LOSE
There are TWO Negotiating Categories
Distributive and Integrative
Distributive
Assumes resources are limited, divide up a fixed set of resources. Known as “value claiming”
Distributive Negotiations Commonly run into Hardball Tactics.
Good Cop-Bad Cop Highball-Lowball Exploding Offer Lying Intimidation/Aggressive Behavior Snow Job Nibble
Intergrative
Want both parities to win, not valued as opponent, more of a partner.
Active Listening
Minimal Encouragements Paraphrasing Emotion Labeling Mirroring (or Reflecting) Open-Enderd Questions "I" Message Effective Pauses
5 Step CNS Negotiation Process
- Positions
- Interests
- BATNA (Best alternative to a negotiated agreement)
- Brainstorming
- Solution