The Art of Listening and Communicating Flashcards

1
Q

Most travel professionals spend more time listening than speaking or writing. True or False

A

True

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
2
Q

Words, meaning, and tone of voice are all essential characteristics of

a. verbal communication
b. non-verbal communication
c. active listening
d. body language

A

a. verbal communication

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
3
Q

Which of the following is an effective listening strategy?

a. Turn slightly away from the speaker.
b. Politely interrupt to avoid wasting time,
c. Prepare your response while the speaker is talking.
d. Provide feedback by asking questions and nodding.

A

d. Provide feedback by asking questions and nodding.

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
4
Q

Part of being a good interpersonal communicator is appreciating and responding to cultural differences in communication. True of False

A

True

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
5
Q

Which of the following is not an element of the basic communication process?

a. sender
b. noise
c. feedback
d. time

A

d. time

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
6
Q

Nonverbal communication accounts for about what percent of the meaning we share in a normal face-to-face, two-person communication.

a. 14%
b. 38%
c. 55%
d. 76%

A

c. 55%

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
7
Q

It’s generally a good idea to use travel industry terminology with your clients to demonstrate your knowledge and competence. True or False

A

False

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
8
Q

Listening and hearing involve essentially the same communication processes. True or False

A

False

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
9
Q

Interpersonal communication describes the messages that your brain sends to your body to achieve desired behaviors. True or False

A

False

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
10
Q

Travel professionals use active listening when they

a. focus on the facts their clients discussed.
b. empathize with their clients’ feelings
c. remember what their clients say.
d. decide between two suppliers

A

b. empathize with their clients’ feelings.

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
11
Q

What is the exchange of messages and meaning between two people.

A

Interpersonal communication

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
12
Q

_____ is the setting in which the communication occurs.

A

Environment

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
13
Q

_____ is the method in which the message, or the idea to be conveyed, is transmitted.

A

Channel

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
14
Q

The ____ initiates the message by ____ the idea into a format that will be understood by the ____.

A

Sender, encoding, receiver

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
15
Q

The receiver in turn ____ the message by interpreting it and assigning meaning.

A

decoding

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
16
Q

Senders and receivers possess personal ____, such as attitudes, biases, beliefs, and values, which affect how a message is received.

A

filters

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
17
Q

_____ refers to any physical or psychological factor that can interfere with communication.

A

noise

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
18
Q

_____ is how objective data is interpreted by individuals

A

Perception

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
19
Q

______ is when we see what we want to see and hear what we want to hear.

A

Selective perception

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
20
Q

There is a multitude of sensory data surrounding us. We could not process all of the data our senses receive. We create a more limited but more meaningful picture of our world through _______.

A

Selective perception

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
21
Q

4 steps to improving the effectiveness of your communication.

A

Recognize the role your communication skills play in the perceptual process.

Realize that your clients’ perceptual processes are biased.

Take your time.

Be willing to review, revise, and update your interpersonal skills.

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
22
Q

To build lasting relationships with your clients, you must establish a level of _____ with them.

A

trust

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
23
Q

Too often in business settings we are so accustomed to going through the motions of booking travel that we forget traveling is a very ______ experience for our clients.

A

emotional

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
24
Q

Name the 4 communication styles

A
  1. The driver
  2. The expressive
  3. The analytic
  4. The amiable
How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
25
Q

The ____ communicator is decisive, intense, independent, deliberate, efficient, and achieving.

A

Driver

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
26
Q

Key Behaviors of the ______ are:

Direct eye contact
Purposeful and quick movements
Forceful and fast-paced speech
Direct, bottom-line language

A

Driver

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
27
Q

The ____ communicator is outgoing, humorous, enthusiastic, gregarious, persuasive, and lively.

A

Expressive

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
28
Q

Key behaviors of the ______ are:

Rapid hand and arm gestures
Quick, animated speech
Wide range of facial expressions
Persuasive language

A

Expressive

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
29
Q

The ____ communicator is serious, logical, well-organized, factual, systematic, and reserved.

A

Analytic

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
30
Q

Key behaviors of the _____ are:

Little facial expression
Controlled movements with slow gestures
Little inflection in voice
Precise and detailed language

A

Analytic

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
31
Q

The ____ communicator is cooperative, patient, friendly, relaxed, supportive, and trusting.

A

Amiable

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
32
Q

Key behaviors of the _____ are:

Friendly facial expression
Frequent eye contact
Slow, soft speech with moderate inflection
Supportive and encouraging language

A

Amiable

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
33
Q

Expressing oneself in words

A

Verbal communication

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
34
Q

____ meanings are objective and abstract, the definitions that exist in the dictionary.

A

Denotative

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
35
Q

____ meanings are subjective and emotional, the definitions that exist in the perceptions of the listener.

A

Connotative

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
36
Q

A common type of ______ occurs when people use the same word or phrase but give it different meanings.

A

bypassing

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
37
Q

_____ is the term that describes a specialized vocabulary used by people who share a similar profession.

A

Jargon

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
38
Q

A _______ occurs when you fill the natural pauses in your speech patterns with sound.

A

verbalized pause

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
39
Q

______ usually are tacked on to the end of statements and disrupt the flow from one thought to the next, you know?

A

Verbal disrupters

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
40
Q

A classic communication study conducted several years ago determined that, in a normal two-person conversation, words accounted for only about _____ of the meaning of the messages exchanged.

A

7 %

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
41
Q

Our nonverbal behaviors account for about _____ of the meaning, and a surprising 38 percent of the meaning we communicate in person is through our vocal qualities or tone of voice.

A

55 %

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
42
Q

Our nonverbal behaviors account for about 55 percent of the meaning, and a surprising ____ of the meaning we communicate in person is through our vocal qualities or tone of voice.

A

38%

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
43
Q

Over the telephone, words carry greater meaning than face to face, increasing from 7 to ______ of the meaning we communicate.

A

14%

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
44
Q

Vocal cues represent _______ of the messages we send on the phone.

A

86%

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
45
Q

_______, or the loudness or softness of your voice, can affect how we communicate, and even distort the meaning of your messages if not used appropriately.

A

Volume

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
46
Q

_____ refers to the highness or lowness of your voice.

A

Pitch

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
47
Q

_____ happens when we end our sentences in a higher pitch, as if we were asking a question.

A

Uptalking

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
48
Q

_______, like the hills and valleys on a scenic road, is the up-and-down quality of your voice. If pitch describes the note at which you speak, _______ is all of the notes put together on your vocal page.

A

Inflection

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
49
Q

Speak at a ____ that will keep your listener’s interest but will not impede your listener’s ability to accurately perceive your meaning.

A

rate

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
50
Q

Human responses not expressed in words.

A

Non-verbal communication

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
51
Q

Nonverbal communication is pervasive, perpetual, and often ______.

A

involuntary

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
52
Q

______ specifically describes nonverbal body actions such as gestures, body movements, facial expressions, eye behavior, and posture.

A

Body language

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
53
Q

The expression of understanding another person’s feelings.

A

Empathy

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
54
Q

What facial cues would you look for to determine if someone is being honest?

A

Direct eye contact, normal blinking, forward glance, open posture, leaning in forward, relaxed posture.

How well did you know this?
1
Not at all
2
3
4
5
Perfectly
55
Q

The intimate distance for personal space is ___ to ___ inches.

A

0 to 18

56
Q

The personal distance for personal space is ____ to ____ feet. This is the most common and comfortable workplace settings.

A

18 inches to 4 feet

57
Q

The social distance for personal space is ____ to ___ feet. This is a more formal spacing but it makes serious conversations difficult.

A

4 to 12 feet.

58
Q

The public distance for personal space is _____ or more. Interpersonal communication is not likely to occur.

A

12 feet

59
Q

The best way to improve listening is through _____.

A

training

60
Q

Of the 80 of our waking hours we spend communicating, ____ percent is spent listening.

A

45%

61
Q

Nearly ____ percent of oral communication is either ignored or quickly forgotten.

A

75%

62
Q

A psychological process in which meaning is assigned to what is heard.

A

Listening

63
Q

A physical process in which sound waves are received by the eardrum.

A

Hearing

64
Q

Name the 4 stages of listening.

A
  1. Sensing
  2. Interpreting
  3. Evaluating
  4. Responding
65
Q

This occurs when sound waves reach our ears and we become aware that someone is trying to communicate with us

A

Sensing

66
Q

We assign meaning and importance to the sounds we hear. This is ______.

A

interpreting

67
Q

____ is when the listener weighs the content of the message, sorts fact from opinion, and renders a judgment of the value of the message.

A

Evaluating

68
Q

The listening process must result in _______, helping, or otherwise taking action as a result of the message.

A

responding

69
Q

Name the characteristics and skills of active listening.

A
  • Be alert
  • Lean forward slightly
  • Face your client squarely
  • Maintain an open position
  • Stay in the personal distance zone
  • Communicate actively
  • Make eye contact
70
Q

The ____ model is another name for the 4 stages of listening.

A

SIER

71
Q

A client comes in concerned that the resort you booked for her is too family oriented. You know the hotel has traditionally catered to families, with plenty of activities for young active families. But the hotel has just started a special promotion to attract older guests and you receive bonus commission for every room you book with a senior citizen’s discount. You convince the client that she will love the resort., a decision you later regret when she sends a complaint letter upon her return.

At what stage did the listening error occur?

A

Evaluating

72
Q

Consider the following exchange:

Client: That’s more expensive than I thought it would be.
You: Actually, it is a very good rate for that hotel.
Client: It still seems high to me.
You: The price I quoted you is the same price you will find by calling the hotel directly or from any of our competitors.
Client: who are your competitors?

At what stage did the listening error occur?

A

Interpreting

The agent assumed the client’s statement was an objection. Because of the assumption, the agent comes off as defensive. A better response would be “I hope that won’t be a problem. It is an excellent hotel. May I reserve the room for you?”

73
Q

These listeners hear remarks only of obvious interest to them and filter out those messages that are not of instant relevance.

A

Selective listeners

74
Q

Tips for selective listeners.

A

Try to relate the message you are hearing to your experiences.
Taking notes and asking questions also will help you focus on the key points of what the speaker is saying.

75
Q

Tips for talking with selective listeners.

A

Try saying the word “you” or the listener’s name throughout your conversation to provide the personal relevance your selective listener craves.

Or, if the situation is appropriate, involve your listener by asking for feedback; remember to use close-ended questions, though, or you may lose control of the conversation.

76
Q

These listeners hear only those messages that are pleasant, while blocking out messages that are negative or unpleasant.

A

Insulated listeners

77
Q

Tips for delivering bad-news messages

A
  • Good news/bad news: You sometimes can help soften the blow by first sharing a positive message, then following it up with the bad news.
  • Bad news/good news: In this technique, you say you have some bad news, tell it, then quickly indicate there is a more pleasant side to the story. Of course, truly insulated listeners may tune you out before the good news reaches their ears.
  • Sandwich: Sandwiching the negative news between two pieces of positive news is a combination of the first two techniques and often proves effective.
  • Lunchtime deliveries: Knowing the best time to deliver bad news is helpful, too. The optimum time is during the process of postprandial dip. After a meal, there is a drop in blood pressure as people digest their meals. Because their energy is elsewhere, they don’t get as upset as they normally would. So aim to make all your bad-news calls after lunch!
78
Q

These listeners take practically everything someone else says as a personal attack.

A

Defensive listeners

79
Q

Tips for dealing with defensive listeners.

A

As a speaker, you should be sensitive to words, tone of voice, and situations that could cause defensive reactions in your listeners. When you do sense a defensive response, plan your message to bring the person out of a threatened frame of mind.

80
Q

These listeners can’t wait to jump into the conversation to disagree with you.

A

Ambushers

81
Q

These listeners take everything they hear literally and ignore the tone of voice used by the speaker.

A

Insensitive listeners

82
Q

Name some behaviors that act as a barrier to effective listening.

A

Avoiding difficult or uninteresting material.

Avoiding negative information.

Reacting to words that evoke a defensive response.

Arguing with the speaker rather than listening to the message.

Listening only for facts and disregarding emotions.

Dismissing the message too quickly.

Criticizing the speaker and delivery.

Responding to biases and prejudices.

Interrupting or finishing sentences.

Daydreaming.

Providing little or no feedback.

Faking attention.

Yielding to distractions.

Not taking notes, or trying to write down everything.

Jumping to conclusions.

83
Q

What are the qualities of good feedback?

A
  • Specific, not general
  • Descriptive, not evaluative
  • Directed toward behaviors that the listener can change
  • Solicited rather than imposed
  • Well-timed
  • Checked for clear understanding
84
Q

___ is to say something in other words or to reword the meaning of what was said

A

paraphrasing

85
Q

Give an appropriate paraphrase for the following statement:

“Why don’t you clean off your desk? It looks like a dump.”

A

“What you’re really saying is that you would like the office to appear neater, correct?”

“It sounds as if you’re frustrated by all the clutter around here, is that right?”

86
Q

Give an appropriate paraphrase for the following statement:

“That was the worst flight I ever took. I’ll never fly that airline again.”

A

“Are you saying the airline didn’t meet your expectations?”

“It sounds like you may have had a bad experience with an employee of that airline, did you?”

87
Q

____ questions attempt to evoke a complex response that draws on the knowledge and experience of the person answering

A

Open

88
Q

___ questions imit the role of the person answering by seeking a brief answer such as “yes” or “no.”

A

Closed

89
Q

When are the three times you should ask questions?

A
  • To seek information
  • To check an interpretation
  • To clarify something
90
Q

Name the type of question and the reason why you would ask this question.

How would you describe your ideal vacation?

A

Open, to seek information

91
Q

Name the type of question and the reason why you would ask this question.

How would you define “luxury” in the vacation you’ve just described?

A

Open, to clarify something

92
Q

Name the type of question and the reason why you would ask this question.

So you’re looking for a deluxe suite and gourmet meals, is that right?

A

Closed, to check interpretation

93
Q

Name 6 strategies for effective listening.

A

Get more involved by asking questions. Use your knowledge of open and closed questioning techniques to show your interest and increase your understanding.

Give appropriate feedback. Paraphrase, ask questions, use door-openers, check for understanding, and use supportive nonverbal signals to let your clients and coworkers know you’re listening, you understand them, and you care about their message.

Listen actively. That is, listen for the emotions and feelings of speakers and respond appropriately with supportive verbal and nonverbal feedback.

Don’t allow emotional words to throw you off track. If you don’t control your emotional hot buttons, you will find it difficult to break out of the ineffective style of defensive listening.

Don’t prepare rebuttals to the speaker’s points until you have heard the entire message. In other words, don’t be an ambusher.

Listen for an organized understanding of the message. Speakers usually don’t deliver their messages to us in neat, organized packages. Keep an ongoing mental outline of the speaker’s key points to help keep you focused and on track.

94
Q

What is netiquette?

A

The principles, i.e., rules governing the proper, professional, and polite way to communicate with people online.

95
Q

On a rather slow morning in the office, a fashionably dressed woman in her late fifties approaches your desk for assistance. You say in a pleasant voice, “Good morning. How may I help you?” She quickly answers, “Yes, I’d like to go to Paris for two weeks next month.” Having some time to spend on a thorough consultation with this client, you invite her to take a seat at your desk. She refuses, saying she prefers to stand because she is in a hurry. Before you ask her specific travel dates, you try to get a feel for other needs she may have, such as additional sightseeing that may affect her travel itinerary. Tapping her fingers on your desk, she looks you directly in the eye and decisively explains that she will be staying in Paris and asks you what other information she needs to provide you so you can determine the best airfare.

Questions:

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

A

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The Driver

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

Body language - tapping fingers, won’t sit down
Pacing - hurried, abrupt
Decisive, independent

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

Get the information I need to complete the transaction efficiently.

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Match her pace, be clear and direct.

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Return eye contact, stay attentive, communicate efficiency and competence through hand gestures, posture, neatness.

Maintain social distance.

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Clarify with closed questions when necessary, listen to understand, provide simple and direct feedback, paraphrase at the end for efficiency.

96
Q

Just before lunch, you receive a call from a client for whom you booked a tour package to Orlando about two months ago. You remember him as a good-natured father of two teenage children who was very pleasant during all of your previous interactions. In his soft voice, he apologizes for bothering you but slowly tells you of his concern that he hasn’t yet received his travel documents with just two weeks left before he is scheduled to depart. You express your appreciation for his concern and promise to look into the matter and call him back that afternoon. He calmly assures you there is no rush and warmly thanks you for your assistance.

Questions:

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

A

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The Amiable

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

Slower speech, laid back, soft voice, apologizes for calling, pleasant demeanor

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

Set his mind at ease & resolve his issue

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Show empathy, cooperation and support. Keep volume and rate of speech subdued to match his.

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Smile (this is a phone conversation. if in person, open posture, lean in, maintain personal distance)

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Active listening with empathy, friendly and supportive feedback.

97
Q

The owners of your agency have decided that a newsletter is just the marketing tool needed to help attract new customers and retain existing clients. They have appointed you and one of your coworkers to design and develop the newsletter. Your coworker has been easy to work with in the past and you look forward to working with him on this joint venture. At your first planning meeting, he comes armed with article and design ideas that he shares in rapid succession, emphasizing each idea with animated arm movements and facial expressions. He seems intent on persuading you to adopt his creative ideas.

Questions:

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

A

The coworker’s primary communication style is:

The Expressive

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

rapid ideas, emphasis with animation, persuasive

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

Partner with coworker to collaborate equally on this project.

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Match his enthusiasm and pacing. Choose bold words to resist his persuasive techniques

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Lean in, use quick meaningful gestures, relax, smile, maintain direct eye contact

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

listen to understand and evaluate the new ideas, suspend judgement

98
Q

You’ve been working for several months with a young woman to help her plan her honeymoon trip to Bermuda. After many consultations, you’ve finally booked a package that you believe suits all her needs. It has been difficult to determine what travel experiences really appeal to her because she never appears excited or enthusiastic about anything you mention. Her main concern all along has been the specific costs of the trip, right down to how much she can expect to pay in tips. Now, her final payment is due in full or her reservation will be canceled. You need to call her this afternoon to remind her to provide payment today.

Questions:

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

A

The customer’s primary communication style is:

The Analytic

The verbal and nonverbal cues I read to determine communication style include:

Emphasis on details, serious demeanor, lack of display of enthusiasm

My objective of this interpersonal interaction is:

Secure final payment

The verbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

Plan conversation and information before calling, bring details (how much, when, method of payment, what is the payment for, etc) be direct, ask for the final payment.

The nonverbal skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

maintain upright posture, exhibit control and competence even on the phone.

The listening skills I will use to achieve my objective include:

listen to analyze the financial details, provide specific precise feedback.

99
Q

The level of listening that requires our highest degree of involvement; listening to help others by using verbal and nonverbal responses to express empathy for the speaker; listening for feelings and emotions.

A

Active Listening

100
Q

Ineffective listeners who cannot wait to jump into the conversation to disagree with the speaker.

A

Ambushers

101
Q

A communication style characterized by friendliness, cooperation, and patience.

A

Amiable

102
Q

A communication style characterized by seriousness, logic, and precision.

A

Analytic

103
Q

Nonverbal body actions such as gestures, body movements, facial expressions, eye behavior, and posture.

A

Body Language

104
Q

A communication error that occurs when people interpret words or phrases differently.

A

Bypassing

105
Q

Questions that limit the role of the person answering by seeking a brief answer such as “yes” or “no.”

A

Closed Questions

106
Q

Meaning that is subjective and emotional, like the definitions that exist in the perceptions of our listeners.

A

Connotative

107
Q

Ineffective listeners who take practically everything someone else says as a personal attack.

A

Defensive Listeners

108
Q

Meaning that is objective and abstract, like the definitions that exist in the dictionary.

A

Denotative

109
Q

A communication style characterized by independence, efficiency, and decisiveness.

A

Driver

110
Q

The ability to imagine another person’s point of view, to project yourself into another person’s situation in an effort to understand his or her thoughts and feelings.

A

Empathy

111
Q

The third stage in the listening process, in which we weigh the content of the message, sort fact from opinion, and render a judgment of the value of the message.

A

Evaluating

112
Q

A communication style characterized by enthusiasm, humor, and liveliness.

A

Expressive

113
Q

All the verbal and nonverbal messages that we send out in response to our partners’ communication; any message, intentional or unintentional, sent by the listener to the speaker.

A

Feedback

114
Q

A purely physical phenomenon in which sound waves are received by the eardrum.

A

Hearing

115
Q

Ineffective listeners who take everything they hear literally and ignore the tone of voice used by the speaker.

A

Insensitive Listeners

116
Q

Ineffective listeners who hear only those messages that are pleasant, while blocking out messages that are negative or unpleasant.

A

Insulated Listeners

117
Q

The exchange of messages and meaning between two people.

A

Interpersonal Communication

118
Q

The second stage in the listening process, in which we assign meaning and importance to the sounds that we hear.

A

Interpreting

119
Q

A speaker-to-receiver zone from 0 to 18 inches that is typically reserved for those whom we know well.

A

Intimate Distance

120
Q

Specialized vocabulary used by people who share a similar profession.

A

Jargon

121
Q

A deliberate, mental process in which the physical messages are interpreted and understood by the person who receives them; psychological process in which meaning is assigned to what is heard.

A

Listening

122
Q

Rules governing the proper, professional, and polite way to communicate with people online.

A

Netiquette

123
Q

All the kinds of human responses not expressed in words.

A

Nonverbal Communication

124
Q

Questions that attempt to evoke a complex response that draws on the knowledge and experience of the person answering.

A

Open Questions

125
Q

Restating for the speaker what you believe is the essence of what has just been said; to reword the meaning of what was said.

A

Paraphrasing

126
Q

The way in which objective data are interpreted by individuals.

A

Perception

127
Q

A speaker-to-receiver zone of 18 inches to 4 feet that represents the most common distance for communication in the workplace.

A

Personal Distance

128
Q

A speaker-to-receiver zone of 12 feet to limit of sight that is appropriate for public speaking situations.

A

Public Distance

129
Q

The fourth stage in the listening process, in which we take action as a result of the message.

A

Responding

130
Q

Ineffective listeners who hear remarks only of obvious interest to them and filter out those messages that are not of instant relevance.

A

Selective Listeners

131
Q

The process of seeing what we want to see and hearing what we want to hear.

A

Selective Perception

132
Q

The first stage in the listening process, which occurs when sound waves reach our ears and we become aware that someone is trying to communicate with us.

A

Sensing

133
Q

A speaker-to-receiver zone of 4 to 12 feet that is usually used for impersonal message exchange.

A

Social Distance

134
Q

Occurs when we end our sentences in a higher pitch, as if we are asking a question.

A

Uptalking

135
Q

Human responses expressed in words.

A

Verbal Communication

136
Q

Words or phrases tacked on to the end of statements that disrupt the flow from one thought to the next.

A

Verbal Disrupter

137
Q

Occurs when you fill the natural pauses in your speech patterns with sound.

A

Verbalized Pause