Test 3 Flashcards
anything that draws two or more people together
attraction
What are the 4 factors that differentiate attraction?
- frequency
- degree of impact
- diversity of activities
- duration
Forming relationships is a (want/need).
need
Our ancestors who engaged in long-term relationships with others acquired many benefits necessary for survival including _______, _________, and _________
food, protection, and mating
forming relationships with fictional characters
parasocial relationships
We have a ______ to end relationships
reluctance
What happens if the need to belong and form relationships isn’t fulfilled?
We suffer from psychological stress (anxiety, depression) and physical illness (heart disease, low immune system)
What are the 2 ingredients need to fulfill our need to belong?
- regular social contact
2. stable network of on-going relationships
About how many stable relationship partners does an individual typically have?
5-6
closer physical distance
proximity
encountering on a regular basis
propinquity
a partner’s annoying habits grow just that much more annoying over time
social allergy effect
Shared experiences can result in _______
strong relationships
4s go with 4s, 7s go with 7s
matching hypothesis
Married couples tend to be very (similar/different)
similar
Why are people attracted to similar others?
what is familiar is good (safe and predictable)
self-presentational strategy in which we mimic the behaviors of those around us
chameleon effect
you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours; when people get info that someone likes them, almost invariably there is a strong drive of affection for that person
reciprocity
We are attracted to those others who _____ us.
reward
people and animals will perform behaviors that have been rewarded
reinforcement theory
Rewards + cost > or < rewards - cost
rewards + cost is greater
We respect and admire _______ people.
attractive
tendency to judge people with attractive features to have other positive qualities (i.e. intelligence, social competence)
halo effect
The need to belong is a universal, powerful, motivation and _______ thwarts that need
rejection
Some people reject others to maintain the ________
status quo
Rejection occurs due to what 4 things?
- idiosyncratic preferences
- cultural beliefs
- desire to avoid certain outcomes
- reduce deviance
one person breaking the rules inspires others to do the same
bad apple effect
The bad apple effect is an example of _________
reducing deviance
Seeing someone else get rejected for poor behavior reduces the _____
bad apple effect
Rejection serves as _______
punishment
Perceptions of loneliness lead to an increase in _____ and _____.
physical and psychological illness
strong expectation that one will be rejected by others
rejection sensitivity
Emotions serve as a warning system to encourage self directed attention (_________) and to change behavior (________)
self-awareness
self-regulation
What are the 3 social emotions?
- guilt and shame
- jealousy
- embarrassment
Social emotions function to signal that ______ is looming
rejection
social anxiety results from a desire to ___________
avoid rejection
The threat of rejection leads to motivated behavior to avoid ___________
relationship dissolution
Studies on rejection rarely show changes in ________
emotion
MacDonald and Leary suggested that rejected, excluded animals lose _______
pain sensitivity
Panksepp suggested that the social emotion system piggybacks on the ___________ system
physical pain system
emotion that encourages pro-social behavior and inhibits aggression
empathy
A lack of empathy after rejection is found to be the primary cause for a _______ in pro-social behavior and a _______ in aggressive behavior
decrease
increase
Social exclusion impairs the ___________, thereby altering the manner in which it registers physical pain and empathy.
emotion system
Social exclusion can stimulate pro-social behavior, but the person must symbolize a source of __________
potential acceptance
People date others who like and reward them. What is this an example of?
reciprocity/reward
__________ is a much more dominating factor in romantic relationships than in friendships.
attractiveness
What do we find attractive?
symmetry (facial and body)
Why do we prefer symmetry?
asymmetry can result from illness during development; symmetrical features suggest stronger resistance to environmental pathogens
Why are we more attracted to people who look average?
mere exposure effect, diversity and health
What 4 things do men prefer in a woman?
- physical attractiveness
- signs of youth
- neotenous features
- body shape (36-24-36 WTH ratio)
What 2 things do women prefer in a man?
- physical dominance
2. status
What do women benefit from when looking for a partner?
a mate who is willing and able to provide
What do men benefit from when looking for a partner?
mating often; partners who can produce more offspring
the things that society values
social constructionist perspective
Exposure to highly desirable same-sex individuals _______ the estimates of proportions of attractive people around
increases
Exposure to highly desirable opposite-sex individuals increases estimates of attractive individuals available; this is one of the single strongest predictors of _________
relationship dissolution
For women, in a short-term partner _____ matters more. In a long-term partner ______ matters more
physical attractiveness
status and resources
For men, ______ is almost always important in a partner.
attractiveness