Test 3 Flashcards
anything that draws two or more people together
attraction
What are the 4 factors that differentiate attraction?
- frequency
- degree of impact
- diversity of activities
- duration
Forming relationships is a (want/need).
need
Our ancestors who engaged in long-term relationships with others acquired many benefits necessary for survival including _______, _________, and _________
food, protection, and mating
forming relationships with fictional characters
parasocial relationships
We have a ______ to end relationships
reluctance
What happens if the need to belong and form relationships isn’t fulfilled?
We suffer from psychological stress (anxiety, depression) and physical illness (heart disease, low immune system)
What are the 2 ingredients need to fulfill our need to belong?
- regular social contact
2. stable network of on-going relationships
About how many stable relationship partners does an individual typically have?
5-6
closer physical distance
proximity
encountering on a regular basis
propinquity
a partner’s annoying habits grow just that much more annoying over time
social allergy effect
Shared experiences can result in _______
strong relationships
4s go with 4s, 7s go with 7s
matching hypothesis
Married couples tend to be very (similar/different)
similar
Why are people attracted to similar others?
what is familiar is good (safe and predictable)
self-presentational strategy in which we mimic the behaviors of those around us
chameleon effect
you scratch my back, I’ll scratch yours; when people get info that someone likes them, almost invariably there is a strong drive of affection for that person
reciprocity
We are attracted to those others who _____ us.
reward
people and animals will perform behaviors that have been rewarded
reinforcement theory
Rewards + cost > or < rewards - cost
rewards + cost is greater
We respect and admire _______ people.
attractive
tendency to judge people with attractive features to have other positive qualities (i.e. intelligence, social competence)
halo effect
The need to belong is a universal, powerful, motivation and _______ thwarts that need
rejection