Sexual techniques and behaviours and toys 5-7 Q Flashcards
Define: abstinence
voluntarily going without, especially from indulgence in food, alcoholic beverages or sexual intercourse
Define: celibate or celibacy
single life.. unmarried state.. bound or resolved not to marry
What was the belief about masturbating in the past?
onanism- biblical story onan spilled seed is against the reproductive concept
believed in limited semen in lifetime
What are the 2 opposing views on masturbating now?
- normal sexual release, part of variety of eroticism, learn body
- dirty, selfish, unnecessary eroticism, non procreative, unhealthy
What is masturbation?
touching and stimulating own genitals
what is self pleasure?
pleasuring of body in sensual way- warm baths, shower, relaxation, movement, dancing, learn about/accept body, enhance relationships, heal
What is a sexual fantasy?
may occur alone or with a partner, may be shared or secret
What is a nocturnal orgasm?
What is the prevalence?
wet dream
83% of males
33.3% of females
What are erogenous zones?
parts of the body, including but not limited to sex organs that are especially sensitive to tactile sexual stimulation
What are the male erogenous zones?
- penis (glans and corona)
- shaft of penis
What are the female erogenous zones?
- labia
- vaginal opening
- breasts and nipples
What are the erogenous zones for both genders?
- clitoris / glans of penis
- urinary opening
- area around genitals
- perineum
- anus
- inner thighs
- mouth
- ears
In which populations is oral-genital stimulation more common?
- highly educated
- caucasian
- committed relationships
What is fellatio?
blow job
What is cunnilingus?
eating a girl out
What factors affect people’s willingness to do anal?
education level, ethnicity and religion
What is anilingus?
eating out the butt hole
Top 3 positions for a women to orgasm?
- spooning
- missionary
- reverse cowgirl
Why use condoms on sex toys? (2)
- easier to clean
2. easier to share the toy
which material can be sterilized?
silicone
What type of condoms should you use on sex toys?
non flavoured and spermicide free
What type of lube should you use with your toys?
- water based
2. silicone
What are examples of water based lubes?
O'My ID KY astroglide wet natural
What are examples of silicone based lubes?
wet platinum, eros, ID millenium, O’My infinity, pink
What type of oil should you avoid when using sex toys and why?
Oil based
the oils break down condoms, are bad for toys (especially latex ones) and take a long time to leave your body
Fill in the blanks: avoid using _____ toys with _____ lubricants
avoid using silicone toys with silicone lubes
Try to avoid toys made of the following materials:
- soft vinyls and jelly rubbers
- cyberskin (futurotic and real feel)
- soft plastic
- any soft even if they are “phthalates free”
Why should you avoid soft vinyls, jelly rubbers and soft plastic toys?
porous and hard to clean, contain phthalates that leach out
smelly and deformed
Why should you avoid cyberskin toys?
porous, hard to clean
Why should you never use talc in your toys?
carcinogenic
What type of materials do you want your toys to be made out of?
- hard plastic, pyrex glass, metal
- elastomer and food grade vinyl
- thermoplastic rubber or TPR
- 100% or medical grade silicone
How can you clean a silicone toy?
boil for 5 mins or run through the dishwasher
What should you not use to clean your toys?
bleach
