Sexual techniques and behaviours and toys 5-7 Q Flashcards

1
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Define: abstinence

A

voluntarily going without, especially from indulgence in food, alcoholic beverages or sexual intercourse

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2
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Define: celibate or celibacy

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single life.. unmarried state.. bound or resolved not to marry

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3
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What was the belief about masturbating in the past?

A

onanism- biblical story onan spilled seed is against the reproductive concept
believed in limited semen in lifetime

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4
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What are the 2 opposing views on masturbating now?

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  1. normal sexual release, part of variety of eroticism, learn body
  2. dirty, selfish, unnecessary eroticism, non procreative, unhealthy
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5
Q

What is masturbation?

A

touching and stimulating own genitals

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6
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what is self pleasure?

A

pleasuring of body in sensual way- warm baths, shower, relaxation, movement, dancing, learn about/accept body, enhance relationships, heal

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7
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What is a sexual fantasy?

A

may occur alone or with a partner, may be shared or secret

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8
Q

What is a nocturnal orgasm?

What is the prevalence?

A

wet dream
83% of males
33.3% of females

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9
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What are erogenous zones?

A

parts of the body, including but not limited to sex organs that are especially sensitive to tactile sexual stimulation

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10
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What are the male erogenous zones?

A
  • penis (glans and corona)

- shaft of penis

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11
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What are the female erogenous zones?

A
  • labia
  • vaginal opening
  • breasts and nipples
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12
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What are the erogenous zones for both genders?

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  • clitoris / glans of penis
  • urinary opening
  • area around genitals
  • perineum
  • anus
  • inner thighs
  • mouth
  • ears
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13
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In which populations is oral-genital stimulation more common?

A
  • highly educated
  • caucasian
  • committed relationships
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14
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What is fellatio?

A

blow job

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15
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What is cunnilingus?

A

eating a girl out

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16
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What factors affect people’s willingness to do anal?

A

education level, ethnicity and religion

17
Q

What is anilingus?

A

eating out the butt hole

18
Q

Top 3 positions for a women to orgasm?

A
  1. spooning
  2. missionary
  3. reverse cowgirl
19
Q

Why use condoms on sex toys? (2)

A
  1. easier to clean

2. easier to share the toy

20
Q

which material can be sterilized?

A

silicone

21
Q

What type of condoms should you use on sex toys?

A

non flavoured and spermicide free

22
Q

What type of lube should you use with your toys?

A
  1. water based

2. silicone

23
Q

What are examples of water based lubes?

A
O'My
ID
KY
astroglide
wet natural
24
Q

What are examples of silicone based lubes?

A

wet platinum, eros, ID millenium, O’My infinity, pink

25
Q

What type of oil should you avoid when using sex toys and why?

A

Oil based

the oils break down condoms, are bad for toys (especially latex ones) and take a long time to leave your body

26
Q

Fill in the blanks: avoid using _____ toys with _____ lubricants

A

avoid using silicone toys with silicone lubes

27
Q

Try to avoid toys made of the following materials:

A
  • soft vinyls and jelly rubbers
  • cyberskin (futurotic and real feel)
  • soft plastic
  • any soft even if they are “phthalates free”
28
Q

Why should you avoid soft vinyls, jelly rubbers and soft plastic toys?

A

porous and hard to clean, contain phthalates that leach out

smelly and deformed

29
Q

Why should you avoid cyberskin toys?

A

porous, hard to clean

30
Q

Why should you never use talc in your toys?

A

carcinogenic

31
Q

What type of materials do you want your toys to be made out of?

A
  • hard plastic, pyrex glass, metal
  • elastomer and food grade vinyl
  • thermoplastic rubber or TPR
  • 100% or medical grade silicone
32
Q

How can you clean a silicone toy?

A

boil for 5 mins or run through the dishwasher

33
Q

What should you not use to clean your toys?

A

bleach