Attraction, love, relationships, communication 5-7 Q Flashcards

1
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On the heterosexuality and homosexuality continuum name the labels of each number

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0- exclusively hetero
1- hetero with 1-2 homo experiences
2- predominanetly hetero with occasional homo experiences
3- bisexual
4- predominanetly homo with occasional hetero experiences
5- homo with 1-2 hetero experiences
6- exclusively homo

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What are the 3 things on KINSEY’s orientation scale?

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behaviour
feelings
fantasy

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On KINSEY’s orientation scale what # is hetero? homo?

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hetero = 0
homo = 6
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What is the attraction-similarity hypothesis?

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we are attracted to other who are similar to ourselves in physical attractiveness and other traits

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5
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What is propinquity?

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we develop relationships within our life bubble

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6
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What is reciprocity?

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we like people who like us

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7
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Do opposites attract?

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no

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What are the 3 parts of the social-influence theory?

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  1. attractiveness
  2. trustworthiness
  3. competence
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9
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Explain attractiveness as it related to the social influence theory?

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appearance, character and profession

behaviours and perceived similarities

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Explain trustworthiness as it relates to social-influence theory?

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confidentiality, credibility and profession

use of power and understanding

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Explain competence as it relates to the social influence theory?

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related to role, reputation, behaviour and accomplishment

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What are the 4 concepts related to the modern meanings of love created by the greeks?

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storge, agape, philia and eros

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13
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What is storge?

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loving attachment, deep friendship or nonsexual affection

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14
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What is agape?

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similar to generosity or charity

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15
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What is philia?

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closest in meaning to friendship

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16
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What is eros?

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closest in meaning to our concept of passion

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17
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What are the 6 styles of love described by CLYDE and SUSAN HENDRICK?
1986

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  1. romantic love (eros)
  2. game playing love (ludus)
  3. friendship love (storge, philia)
  4. logical love (pragma)
  5. possessive, excited love (mania)
  6. selfless love (agape)
18
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What are the common bonds of friends and lovers?

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  • nurturance
  • security
  • mutual good
  • enhancement of well being
  • trust
19
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What are the 6 parts of a love relationship?

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  1. fascination
  2. exclusiveness
  3. sexual desire
  4. giving utmost
  5. being champion
  6. being advocate
20
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What are the 8 parts of a friendship?

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  1. enjoyment
  2. confiding
  3. acceptance
  4. understanding
  5. trust
  6. spontaneity
  7. respect
  8. mutual assistance
21
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What are the 3 parts of STERNBERG’s triangular love theory?

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  1. intimacy
  2. passion
  3. decision/commitment
22
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What is the definition of intimacy in STERNBERG’s triangular love theory?

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the experience of warmth toward another person that arises from feelings of closeness, bondedness and connectedness

23
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What is the definition of passion in STERNBERG’s triangular love theory?

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an intense romantic or sexual desire for another person, which is accompanied by physiological arousal

24
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What is the definition of decision/commitment in STERNBERG’s triangular love theory?

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a component of love that involves both short and long term issues

25
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What are the 8 types of love relationships?

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  1. non love
  2. liking and intimacy
  3. infatuation and passion
  4. empty love and commitment
  5. intimacy and romantic love and passion
  6. commitment and fatous love and passion
  7. commitment and intimacy and companion love
  8. commitment, consumate love and passion and intimacy
26
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What are the ABCs of romantic love?

A
Attraction
Building
Continuation
Deterioration
Ending
27
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What are the 6 components of passionate love?

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  1. emotionally and intense
  2. focus on one’s life
  3. highly sexualized feelings
  4. sexual activity may be present
  5. fear of rejection
  6. relationship feels unstable
28
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What are the 6 components of compassionate love?

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  1. emotionally less intense
  2. a focus of one’s life
  3. less highly sexualized feelings
  4. sexual activity may be present
  5. emotional trust
  6. relationship feels strong and stable
29
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What are the 5 stages of a couple’s journey?

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  1. romance
  2. power struggle
  3. stability
  4. commitment
  5. co-creation
30
Q

Describe the romance stage of a couple’s journey?

A

sense possibilities and create a shared vision

31
Q

Describe the power struggle stage of a couple’s journey?

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learn to recognize and validate differing needs and perception
learn to say who we are and ask for what we want

32
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Describe the stability stage of a couple’s journey?

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learn to take responsibility and expand sense of identity through dialogue with each other

33
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Describe the commitment stage of a couple’s journey?

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experience ourselves as interdependent

learn to live with paradoxes and insoluble dilemmas

34
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Describe the co-creation stage of a couple’s journey?

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learn to create our own universe and work toward a better world
interdependent with all of life

35
Q

Fill in the blanks: most problems in relationships can be viewed as resistances to getting _____ or more ______

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most problems in relationships can be viewed as resistances to getting closer or more independent

36
Q

What are the 4 types of communication fears?

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  1. speaking out
  2. fighting
  3. intimacy
  4. commitment
37
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What is the fear of speaking out?

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fear of sounding silly or being rejected

38
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What is the fear of fighting?

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belief that fighting means the relationship cannot work

39
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What is the fear of intimacy?

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unable to reveal inner self, afraid of ridicule or rejection

40
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what is the fear of commitment?

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afraid of failure, difficulty saying no, lack of confidence

41
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What are the 5 steps to procedure setting?

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  1. establish agreement on what you want to talk about
  2. clarify whose issue it is
  3. determine who is involved
  4. pick a suitable time, include length of time and termination method
  5. select an appropriate time