Sexual Behaviors Flashcards
What is sex?
More than one answer…
- Consensual
- Usually between 2 people regardless of gender
- Genital touching
- Anal play
- Penetration
What are the top 3 behaviours that mean to “have sex”?
- P-V Intercourse
- P-A Intercourse
- Oral contact - others genitals
What are the top 2 answers that make someone a sexual partner?
Any oral/penetrative intercourse OR any sexual behaviours
What can count as cheating? What is another type of cheating?
Anything with sexual intentions o Hand holding o Kissing o Sometimes dancing or flirting - Another type: Emotional Cheating
Sex is an important rite…
of passage
Later age of intercourse is linked to…(3)
o Parental disapproval of early sex
o Greater parental control
o Academic achievement
Earlier age of intercourse is linked to…(3)
o Peer pressure to have sex
o Substance use with friends
o Having an older partner
Canadian study of university students found that 72% of men and 61% of women rated their first sexual experience as either…
“perfect”, “very good”, “good”
Men report more pleasure and more orgasms…
their first time
What are 3 way virginity can be perceived as?
- Virginity as a gift
- Virginity as a social stigma – scripts that you create together with another person
- Virginity as a step in a process – your idea of how sex should progress
What is sexual script theory?
says that human sexual behaviors follow a type of social script. For example, a common script is that women are coy or hesitant when it comes to sex, while men are aggressive and go after what they want.
What levels can sexual script theory exist at?
o Cultural
o Interpersonal
o Intrapsychic/individual
What did William Walling say about masturbation?
Said: “Masturbation will be the death of you…”
What is the Anti-Onanism Device? Where did it come from?
Things that prevented people from masturbation. This usually came from the church because masturbation was seen as so harmful and sinful.
What does a sexual fantasy allow people to do?
explore anything you are interested in
What are 3 ways sexual fantasies can happen?
solo, w/ a partner, via computer (sexting)
What are 5 benefits to sexual fantasies?
o Safe sexual outlet o Enhances arousal o Relieves boredom o Treats sexual problems o Relieves sexual anxiety, guilt, and doubt
It is not uncommon for fantasies to be…
taboo (most are, which is what makes them exciting)
Fantasies can be of…
rape and violence
What does Dan Savage say about fears?
They can turn into kins and fantasies
What should we try to do about our sexual fantasies?
embrace them and not feel guilty about them