Self-Regulation and Social Support Flashcards
Meg
what is social support
- actions that communicate caring to partner and validate others’ thoughts, feelings or actions
- ## facilitate coping with problems by providng info, assistance, or tangible resources
individuals with strong social support networks usually…
- adhere better to medial regimens
- engage in more physical activity
- keep regualr sleep hours
- eat more fruits and veggies
- more likely to quit smoking
what is self regulation
- the ability to energize one’s thoughts, feelings and actions ina goal-directed fashion
how do romantic partners help with our goals
Romantic partners - help us reach our goals
Drawing closer to instrumental others - study
- asked to think about the goal of achieving in university and nominate:
- one friend who is instrumental (helps you make progress towards your goals)
- one friend who is successful, but not instrumental
- one friend who is not instrumental
- returned 4-5 weeks later and comleted one of two tasks
- 1) goal prime condition - manipulated by scrambled sentence task
- 2) control condition
Particpants asked to indicate how close they felt to friends
FINDINGS - we feel closer to others who help us with our goals
- control group: felt qually close to all 3 friends
- prime: feelings towards instrumental friends change, they feel closer
Drawing closer to instrumental others (follow up study)
what happens when we make progress or complete the goal
- nominte one friend who is instrumental and one who was not
- manipulated to feel like they were making high progress towards goals or low progress
- completed measures of closeness
FINDINGS
- people feel closer to instrumental friends, people who will help them
- people who feel ike they are making
- for low progress and control group, instrumental friends were rated closer
- people who feel they are making progress on their goals show no significant closeness differences to instrumental/non-instrumental friends
THe Michelangelo Phenomenon
- close others help us pursue our goals
- help us become our ideal selves
- reach our dreams and inspirations
Partners sculpt us by: - seeing us in ideal ways
- behaving in ways that bring out our ideal selves
- self-fulfilling propehcy
the Michelangelo Phenomenon study
- longitudinal studies of dating/married couples
- ps completed measures of their ideal selves by listing four traits most important to them
- partners rated: how much of these traits they perceived in the p, and how much they helped their partner reach their goals
- both people rated the relationship quality
RESULTS - our partners help us become the people we want to he - benefits in terms of relationship quality
- people whose partners saw more of their ideal sevles reported making progress towards tese ideals
- peoples whose partners helped them made more progress towards these ideals
- receiving support for the ideal self led to improved relationship quality in both partners
sharing good news
- when partners respnd in an active and constructive manner, can actually enhance the importance of the effect
- can also affect relationship quality
Capitalization study (Gable)- 4 types
- couples in the lab took turns and discussed a recent positive event with one another
- capitalization effects fell into 4 major categories
capitalization categories - active-destructive
- partner finds a problem with it
- partner reinds discloser that good things have bad aspects as well
- partner points out potential down sides of good event
capitalization categories - passive-destructive
- partner seems like they don’t care
- parnter doesn’t pay attention
- partner seems uninterested in disclosures news
capitalization categories - active-constructive
- partners react enthusiastically to news
- partner is as exicted than discloser
- partner asks questions and shows concern
capitalization categories - passive-constructive
- partners try not to make a big deal of it, but are happy for discloser
- parnter is silently supportive
- partner is happy, but says very little
people whose parnters respond in a active-constructive manner…
INTRAPERSONAL
- experience more positive emotions
Interpersonal benefits of capitalization - study - Reis
- ps interacted with a confederate
- 3 conditions
- capitalization condition: recall most positive events and confederate responds enthusiastically
- neutral condition: same as above but the confederate acted neutraly
- fun condition: give ps pics from Dr. Seuss book and asked to describe to confederate and confederate re draw them
- measured liking and closeness
FINDINGS
- 1 week after study, capitalization and fun conditions felt closer to stranger
FOLLOW UP STUDY - interpersonal benefits of capitalization REIS
- ps promised 1 dollar
- recalling positive events and the confederate responded in 1 of 3 ways
- active-constructive: thats really great
- disparaging: whats so positive about that? thats your best event?
- neutral: no verbal or nonverbal expressions
- ps then given 2$ instead of the 1$ they were promised
- do ps return extra money based on confederate response
FINDINGS - most likely to give back $ when receiving active constructive feedback, rarely giving back with disparaging feedback
- moderate money return with neutral feedback
stress buffering hypothesis
- we often experience stressors (acute or chronic) and we are unable to address them alone
- ## social support helps us cope with these stressors and “buffers” us against the negative outcomes of stress
people who receive a lot of social support from theirpartners for stressful events:
- more satisfied in relationships
- experience more positive moods
- increases self esteem
- experience better health outcomes t
factsabout social support - random lol
- wives are more likely to lose weight when husbands are instructed to be as uninvolved as possible (pearce)
- individuals suffering from heart attacks recover more slowly when their partners aren’t supportive
- people who perceive that suport is available to them often expeirence better outcomes than people who actually receive support