Reversing Flashcards
Negative reverse:
Feeling that no matter what, close minded
I get the feeling that no matter what I have, your close minded. Is that a fair statement?
Negative reverse:
Wouldn’t interest in?
You wouldn’t have any interest in building visitor trust on your website? Would you George?
Negative reverse:
Is it over?
Is it over? Now that it’s over, let me ask a few questions…
Softening statements:
Sense
Makes sense
Softening statements:
Question
Good question
Softening statements:
Understand
I understand
Softening statements:
Good question, why now?
Good question George, why did you ask me that one just now?
Softening statements:
Suppose I ?
Suppose I said… what would you say?
Softening statements:
Glad
I’m glad you asked me that
The reverse:
Of all the questions you could have asked
I’m glad you asked me that, {their question}. Of all the questions you could have asked me - tell me - why is that one important to you right now?
The negative reverse:
I don’t suppose you’d want to share
Good question {their question}. I don’t suppose you’d want share with me why that’s important to you at this moment, would you?
The start stop reverse:
we do… wait
Glad you asked me that. In actual fact we do {answer part of their question}… wait - hold on a second - tell me - why do you ask?
The strip line reverse:
Everyone seems to be asking me that
Everyone seems to be asking me that these days, {summarize their question}. What is it about (A to B) that everyone’s so excited about?
The presumptive question reverse:
We get asked that. Guessing you were asking me
We get asked that a lot: {their question}? I’m guessing that you were asking me specifically because {the natural implication}. Is that about right or am I missing something?
The most important reverse:
which is most important
That’s a super two part question {their 2 questions}. I imagine that both elements are pretty important, but let me ask you this, which is most important of the two and why?
The multiple choice reverse:
Usually get asked
That’s a great question {their question}? I usually get asked these types of questions when there’s maybe {3 challenges}?
The dummy up reverse:
Wasn’t expecting that question. Happy to check. Why?
{their question}. OK I wasn’t quite expecting that question. I’m not sure but I’d be happy to go check. Why do you ask? Is it really important to you that maybe we can?
The rule of 3 reverse:
One of 3 reasons. Either 1, 2, 3.
So great question {their question}. You know when I get asked something like that it’s usually for one of 3 reasons. 1) Either one {their top priority}. 2) You maybe had problems in the past {Challenge 2}. 3) Three you have to {Their priority 3}. Am I on the right track or have I completely missed the mark?
Let’s pretend reverse:
Let’s pretend we could
Nice question, {paraphrase their question}. OK let’s pretend for a second that we could do those things. I’m not saying we can but what might that mean to you if we could or couldn’t?
Off the record which of these concerns most
What an interesting question. Look off the record which of these 2 concerns you most right now {challenge or challenge}?
The competitive edge reverse:
Before I answer, these things key?
That’s such a great question. Before I answer it, tell me, are these things {objective and objective} key to your competitive edge at the moment? I’m guessing you asked for a reason - if so why?