Relationhips Flashcards

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What is the evolutionary explanation of relationships?

💡Definition + Strategies

📍tug it out x

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  • This approach states that animals et motivated to selecta a “mate” with the best possible genes who will we able to esunre the offspring’s future health and survival = reproductive success
  • This leads to the adoption of different sexual section strategies
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Describe Anisogamy as apart of sexual selection

💡Definition
💡W+M+ Explanation
💡Optimum Strategy

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  • This refers to the sex differences between male sex cells and female sex cells
  • Women: finite number of eggs, approx 25 years of fertility after puberty. This ends that each child is significant . Therefore optimium strategy is quality over quantity
  • Men: Infinite sperm, continuous fertility. This means that there is little investment. Therefore optimal strategy is quantity over quality
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What does the differences in sex cells lead to?

💡Female+Male
💡Defintion

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  • It leads to different strategies when choosing partners
  • inter-sexual selection (female choice): prefer quality over quantity as a result of investments (carry child), more picky therefore more likely to choose genetically fit and willing to offer resource partner. This means offspring inherit positives.
  • Intra-sexual selection (male strategy): prefer quantity over quality as a result of little investment(multiple partners). Therefore must compete with other males to present themselves leading to successful characteristics passed on
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Describe Buss research as a support for the evolutionary model

💡Sample + Findings
💡Counter arguments

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  • Surveyed over 10,000 adults in 33 countries
  • Found that females value resource-based characteristics when choosing male while men valued younger and good looking women.
  • this supports the idea of strategy
  • However, research uses questionnaire which could lead to social desirability bias.
  • Also, 77% were from western cultures meaning effects of culture may have been measured rather than evolutionary- determined behaviors
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Describe Clark and hatfield’s study as a support for the evolutionary model

💡Sample + Task
💡Findings

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  • Femal psychology students asked to approach fellow students of opposites sex asking: go on a date, apapratemnt or go to bed
  • found that 75% of men agreed to go to bed
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Describe what the social exchange theory

💡Suggest + examples
💡CL + CLat
💡Explanation

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  • suggest that partners aim to maximize the rewards and minimize cost in a relationship
  • cost could include time, stress while rewards may include sex or praise
  • Comaprison level is a measure of profit in which judgements are made based in previous relationships and societal norms of reward levels
  • Comparison level of alternative (CLalt) where individual consider whether they might gain more reward abd endure fewer cost in a different relationship
  • CLat depends in the the current relationship: if the the cost of current one outweighs the reward, then alternative becomes attractive
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What are the four stages of a relationship as suggested by the social exchange theory?

💡Stages + Explanation

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  • Sampling stage: exploring rewards and cost by experimenting and observing relationships
  • Bargaining Stage: partners negotiate around costs and rewards
  • Commitment Stage: when relationship becomes more stable. Cost reduces and rewards increases
  • Institutionalization: partners becomes settled because norms are now established
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Describe self disclosure as a factor affecting attraction and the social penetration theory

💡Define
💡SD + SPT

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  • this term refers to revealing intimate information to another person such as thoughts, feelings
  • The social penetration theory claims that by gradually revealing emotions to a partner, followed by reciprocity, peoeplm gain a grater understanding of each other leading to development of trust in a romantic relationships.
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Describe the dimensions involved in self disclosure using the onion metaphor?

💡Dimensions + explanation
💡 Reis + shaver

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  • There are two dimensions according to the onion mentaphor:
  • Breadth: here partners share information about certain things as sharing too much information may be putting off
  • Depth: as trust is built, the depth of information revealed becomes deeper
  • Reis and shaver suggest that reciprocity is important for successful self disclosure as this leads to rgretaer intimacy and trust in a relationship
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How does the concept of self disclosure have real life applications

💡Hass + Findings
💡Explanation

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  • Hass and Strafford: found that 57% of homosexual men and women reported they used pie and honest self disclosure as a relationship maintenance strategy
  • Couples who limit communication to “small talk” can be encouraged to increase self disclosure to deepeodn relationship
  • This highlights the importance of self disclosure and suggest that the theory can be used to support people having rekatiship problems
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Describe a research supporting the concept of self disclosure

💡 Sprecher + Findings
💡Explanation

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  • Sprecher and Hendrick found strong correlation between several measures of satisfaction and self disclosure in heterosexual couples
  • Men and women who used self disclosure were more satisfied and committed to their relationships
  • This supports the validity of the view that reciprocated self disclosure is a key part of satisfying romantic relationship
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How is the social penetration theory a nomothetic approach?

💡Explanation + Alt

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  • The theory ignores all other factors that can influence relationships such as personality
  • by reducing relationship satisfaction to a single factor, it ignores many aspects of romantic relatioshi loke physical attractions.
  • This suggest that the theory could benefit from an idiographic approach rather than establishing genial laws
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How does the “boom and bust” phenomenon support the social penetration theory?

💡Cooper + Sportolari
💡Findings + Explanation

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  • Cooper and Sportolari found that the anonymity of onlinbe relationships gave users sense of secure making them able to disclose personal information much earlier (boom). However, becasue the necessary trust is not established, the intensity of the relationship becomes impossible to sustain. Eventually leading to the break up (bust)
  • This suggests that trust needs to be established by Sharing less important information first (breadth before proceeding to. Deeper level of self disclosure as the social penetration theory suggests
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How do psychologist suggest physical attractiveness affects attraction?

💡Arguements
💡Halo effect + explanation

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  • Psychologists argue that physical attractiveness plays a huge role and found that people with symmetric faces and baby features tend to be more attractive
  • The halo effect as suggested by palmer and Peterson describes how physical attractiveness is generalized
  • This is because we hold preconceived ides about the attributes of physically attractiveness plays a propel.
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Describe what the matching hypothesis suggest about attraction

💡Define
💡Explain

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  • it suggest that we choose partners who match us in attractiveness
  • A person’s choice of partner is a balconies between a desire to have the most attractive person at the fear of rejection
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Describe how the filter theory suggests explain attraction in romantic relationships

💡Define
💡List filters

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  • It suggest that we first consider the field of available (accessibles) and from this we select a field of desirables via three filters of varying importance at different stages of relationships
  • These fields are: Social demography, similarity in attitudes and Complementarity.
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Describe what happens in the three filter levels of the Filter Theory

💡Define filter
💡Explain

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1st: Social demography: these are factors that influence changes of meeting e.g age, education.
You are more likely to meet ad have meaningful encounters with people who are physically close and share the same features with yourself.
2nd: Similarity in attitudes: Sharing beliefs and values causes mutual attraction
In early stage relationships, agreeing on basic values promotes better communication and self - disclosure
3rd: Complementarity: this means that partners are able to meet each others needs
This is important in longer term/ later stages for relationship as partner complement for a lack in other

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Describe what the equity the Rory suggests about romantic relationships

💡Opposition + Define
💡Variation + Consequence

📍so close bbg x

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  • This is an opposing theory to the social exchange theory as us surges that equity is more importnat that maximizing profits
  • Equity is about balance of the ratio between profits and costs.
  • Changes in equity occur in relationships i.e perspectives develop
  • A sense of inequity can lead to dissatisfaction in a relationship
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Describe Rusbult’s investment model

💡Extension + Definition
💡Factors

📍keep it going x

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  • This is an extension of the social exchange theory as it suggest that a satisfying relationship is one where partnes get more pout of the relationship than they expect.
  • There are three factors contributing to committment in a relationship:
    Satisfaction, Comparing level with alternatives and investment
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Explain the three factors that contribute to commitment in a romantic relationship

💡Factors + Explanation
💡Investment types

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  • Satisfaction: this is the extent to which partners feel the reward if the romantic relationship exceed the cost
  • Comparison level of alternatives: this is a judgement about whether a relationship with a different partner would increase rewards and reduce costs.
  • Investment: these are the resources associated with a romantic relationship which would be lost if relationship is ended
    There are two types of investments:
  • Intrinsic: any resource put directly unit the relationship e.g money
  • Extrinsic: investments that did not previously t feature in the relationship which are now closely associated with it e.g children
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How does the duck phase model describe the process of a relationship breakdown?

💡Explain
💡Stages + threshold

📍it really is in there x

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  • He proposed that there are four different phases of a relationship breakdown each with it’s own threshold:
  • intra-psychic phase: “I can’t stand this anymore”
  • Dyadic phase: ‘ I would be justified in withdrawing”
  • Social phase: “I mean it”
  • Grave dressing phase: “It’s now inevitable”
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Explain what happens on the four stages of the duck’s phase model

💡Stage + Explain

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  • Intra- psychic: the partner becomes dissatisfied but keeps this ti themselves but may share their thoughts with a trusted friend
  • Dyadic Phase: here, the dissatisfied partner discusses dissatisfaction with other and discuss about equity or commitment
  • Social phase: here the dissatisfied partner seek supports from joint friends and these friends may choose sides making the new public
  • Grave dressing phase: once the relationship becomes inevitable, a story is prepared for wider consumption. Most likely painting the story teller in the favourable light. This story is necessary to allow the partner to move on.
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What does reduced cues in virtual relationships refer to?

💡Define
💡 Lead to what + Expalantion

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  • This theory suggest that virtual relationships are less effective due to the lack of non verbal cues (physical appearance, emotional responses)
  • Lack of cues lead to deindividuation
  • People feel free from constraints of social norms and this leads to blunt and even aggressive communication and a reluctance to self disclosure.
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Describe the Hyper-personal model by Walther

💡Define
💡Reasons for development

📍there’s literally nothing you cannot do x

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  • This suggest that since self disclosure happens more quickly, relationships develop more quickly.
  • This is becasue the sender has control (selective self presentation and may be hyperhonest/ dishonest)
  • This is also as a result of receiver’s feedback that may reinforce sender’s selective self presentation and
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What does a “gate” in virtual relationships mean and how does it affect VR?

💡Define
💡Absence + Problems

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  • This refers to factors that may be obstacles to face to face relationships (physical disfigurement or a stammer)
    -The absence of gating can lead to self disclosure becoming deeper as individuals reveal their true self
  • However, individuals a can also create untrue identities to deceive people
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What are the levels of parasocial relationships?

💡Levels + Explain

📍tug this one out x

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  • 1st: Entertainment social: least intense where celebrities viewed as source of entertainment
  • 2nd: Intense personal: intermediate level where someone becomes more personally involved with a celebrity (obsessive thoughts)
  • 3rd: Borderline pathological: this is the strongest level of celebrity worship where fantasies are uncontrollable and behavior is mor extreme
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What does the absorption model suggest?

💡Define
💡Two models + Explain

📍it’s in there bbg

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  • This theory suggest that a parasocial relationships can make up for personal deficiencies as they can provide an escape from the real world
  • The model has two components: Absorptions: seeking fulfillment in celebrity worship motivates them to focus their attention on the celebrity, to become absorbed in the celebrity’s existence and identify with them
  • Addiction: individuals need to increase their ‘dose’ of involvement to gain satisfaction
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What does the attachment theory expalantion of parasocial relationships suggest?

💡Bowlby + Expalantion
💡Ainsworth + Expalantion

📍consistency, consistency, consistency x

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  • Bowlby’s attachment theroy suggest that early difficulty in attachment may lead to unsuccessful relationships later in life
  • These difficulty could lead to a preference for wanting parasocial relationships instead of theirs
  • Ainsworth identifies two attachment types
  • Insecure - resistant: are more Likely to form parasocial relationships because they anti to have their needs met without threat of rejection
  • Insecure avoidant: prefer to avoid the rejection/pain and avoid either social or parasocial