Relatioinship- SET Flashcards
What is the basic assumption of SET
Individuals must feel they are getting more out of the relationship then they are putting in.
What does SET involve and exchange of
Resources
Who proposed SET
Thibault and Kelly
How is SET a cognitive theory
As it deals with the perceptions of the costs/benefits. The costs/benefits may not actually exist but it is the individual’s perception of them that is important.
What is a minimax strategy
Individuals attempt to maximise their benefits/rewards and minimise the costs.
What are some examples of rewards in a relationship
Financial support Companionship Children Attention
According to SET when will a relationship be likely to break down
When it is costing more than it benefits
What 2 comparisons do individuals use to asses their r/ship benefits
Comparison level Comparison level for alternative r/shisps
What is comparison level
This is the comparison on the current relationship. Often use past r/ships as a guide and also early stages of relationships
What is comparison level for alt r/ships
Other potential relationships are looked at e.g. if you were seeing somebody else OR considering others R/ships. If they are judged to offer more benefits, the current relationship is likely to break up
According to SET how many stages does the r/ship develop through
4
What are the 4 stages the r/ship develops through according to SET
Sampling
Bargaining
Commitment
Institutionalisation
Evaluating SET -evidence (Rusbult)
P- There is evidence that supports some elements of Social Exchange Theory
E- Rusbult & Zembrodt (1983) longitudinal study with 30 students in heterosexual R/ships completed Q’aires every 17 days for 7 months!Students had weighed up the costs and benefits. Those who stayed in a R/ship had an increase in rewards which led to better satisfaction - but costs had little impact
L- This shows support for aspects of the model i.e. the significance of rewards
Evaluating SET -Evidence (Hatfield)
P-Found that partners who underbenfitted in a relationship were angry and felt deprived,
E-whereas those who overbenefitted felt guilty and uncomfortable.
L- This suggests that an equilibrium is required for relationships to be especially effective.
Evaluating SET- Evidence (Rusbult and Martz)
P- Applied the SET to women who were in abusive relationships.
E- They established that women would tend to go back into abusive relationships that they had briefly left because there was no better alternative.
L- They suggested that the women would prefer to be with an abusive partner than be by themselves and had found the abusive relationship to offer benefits in some form.