quiz 8 Flashcards

1
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research shows as much as _____ of our communication time is spent listening

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2/3

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2
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phrase the speakers meaning

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state in your own words, be objective, confirm

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3
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understanding the speakers feelings

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echo feelings engage in perception checking, empathy

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4
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ask questions

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support the speaker, dont stray from topic

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5
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leveling

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detail reduced, things omitted, loss of complexity

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6
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sharpening

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items heightened or emphasized

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7
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assimilation

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interpret something based on your biases, expectations, and needs; the message is reconstructed to reflect your views

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8
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attending

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2nd step, devoting attention to the information to the information you have received

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9
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salience

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what was most noticeable/significant

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10
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mental bracketing

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put irrelevant thoughts aside

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11
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receiving

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1st step, when seeing and hearing are experienced together

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12
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noise pollution

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sound in the surrounding environment that obscures or distracts our attention from auditory input

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13
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multitasking

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using multiple forms of tech at once, try to limit this to elevate attention to improve attending

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14
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understanding

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3rd step, of interpreting the meaning of another person’s communication by comparing new information with past knowledge

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15
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short term memory

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temporarily houses information

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16
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long term memory

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devoted to permanent information storage

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17
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responding

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4th step, communicating their attention and understanding to you

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18
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feedback

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positive/negative, timing

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19
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back channel cues

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verbal/nonverbal cues

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20
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paraphrasing

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summarizing others comments

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21
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recalling

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5th stage, remembering information is a crucial part of the listening process

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22
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mneemonics

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devices to aid memory

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23
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eavesdropping

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intentionally listening to private convorsations

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24
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pseudo listening

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behaving as if you are paying attention though you are really not

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25
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aggressive listening

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ambushing, only listening to someone to attack what they see

26
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narcissistic listening

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self-absorbed listening: the perpetrators ignore what others have to say and redirect the consequences to themselves or their own interests

27
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listening to comprehend

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accurately interpreting and store the information you recieve

28
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listening to dicern

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distinguishing one sound from another, listening to vocal tone

29
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listening to analyze

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carefully evaluate the message you are receiving and you judge it

30
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listening to appreciate

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simply enjoying the sounds and sights you are experiencing

31
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listening to support

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suspend judgment and openly express empathy

32
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task oriented listeners

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seeing listening as a transaction, prefer brief, to the point and accurate messages from others

33
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relational listeners

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view listening as an opportunity to build and maintain relationships with others

34
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critical listeners

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focus on the accuracy and consistency of what another person says; critically consider and evaluate

35
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analytical listeners

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withhold judgment until they have considered all the facts and issues

36
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nonverbal communication

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uses multiple sensory channels, more ambiguous, has fewer rules, has more meaning (mixed meaning)

37
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_____ nonverbal communication, _____ verbal

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93%, 7%

38
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_____ body language, _____ voice, _____ words

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55%, 38%, 7%

39
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vocalists

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how you say something, vocal and nonverbal - loudness, pitch, tone, and speech rate

40
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haptics

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social polite - most common handshake
functional - professional
friendship - warmth
love - intimacy
sexual - arousal
aggressive - hostile

41
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masking

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project emotions you don’t feel

42
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intensifying

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exaggerating a feeling

43
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deintensifying

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underplaying a feeling

44
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neutralizing

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no emotion

45
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eye messages

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express emotions, monitor feedback, regulate and control, hostility - prolonged staring

46
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civil inattention

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things normally done in private - see in public avert your gaze

47
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emblems

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translate into words

48
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illitrators

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enhance messages

49
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regulators

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control conversations

50
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adaptors

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self - itch, move hair out of eyes
alter - do onto someone else
object - playing with a pen

51
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immediacy

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find someone interesting or attractive

52
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power

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influence or control other people

53
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passive

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gestures below your waist. lack of eye contact, poor body posture

54
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assertive

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gestures between your waist and chest, elbows are moving, strong eye contact

55
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aggressive

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gestures above the chest, loud and. demanding voice, intense eye contact

56
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passive aggressive

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communicate with a variety of body language movements, muttering, and facial expressions that don’t match words

57
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territorially

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the tendency to claim physical spaces as your own and to define certain locations as areas we don’t want others to invade without permission

58
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public territory

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have temporary occupancy

59
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primary territory

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exclusive to the owner

60
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secondary territory

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not exclusive to the you

61
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central marker

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reserves your place

62
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boundary marker

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divides territories with others