quiz 5

Question 1

agape love

Answer 1

consists of selflessness, compassion, forgiveness, and giving. Shows high regard for your partner’s welfare and happiness, would endure anything for the person

Question 2

storage love

Answer 2

consists of a deep feeling of friendship with an emphasis on companionship, trust, and similarity in attitudes and values–start as friends

Question 3

pragma love

Answer 3

consists of a focus on the partners assets with a lack of sentimental feeling, is practical, similar beliefs, and focuses on finding a relationship that works. Love is a useful relationship, logical, similar background, future goals

Question 4

ludus love

Answer 4

consists of game playing and fun, but avoids any commitment (exciting), not to be taken seriously

Question 5

eros love

Answer 5

consists of intense emotions, sentiments, and the idealization of your partner, focus on beauty and physical attractiveness, chemistry

Question 6

mania love

Answer 6

consists of violent changes in emotion, intense dependency, jealousy (love/hate) elation and depression extreme highs and lows, loving intensely while at the same time worrying about the loss of love, can be obsessive

Question 7

1st - regret (effective apology)

Answer 7

realize you hurt someone, show empathy

Question 8

2nd - responsibility (effective apology)

Answer 8

own up to what you did, no excuses, or blaming

Question 9

3rd - remedy (effective apology)

Answer 9

promise not to repeat; the action you will take to make sure it doesn’t happen again

Question 10

positivity

Answer 10

cheerful and optimistic, the most important tactic for ensuring happiness

Question 11

assurances

Answer 11

emphasizes how much a partner means to you, loves you, prioritizes your partner

Question 12

sharing tasks

Answer 12

mutual responsibility for chores and labor, most frequently practiced

Question 13

acceptance

Answer 13

accept us for who we are, forgive flaws

Question 14

self discloser

Answer 14

creates security and trust

Question 15

relationship talks

Answer 15

discuss status, goals, future

Question 16

social networks

Answer 16

important members approve

Question 17

relational dialectics

Answer 17

openness vs protection, autonomy vs connection, novelty vs prediction

Question 18

mere exposure effect

Answer 18

more you see = more attractive

Question 19

beautiful is good effect

Answer 19

matching level of attractiveness

Question 20

birds of a feather effect

Answer 20

attracted to those that we perceive as similar

Question 21

reciprocal liking

Answer 21

mutual attraction to each other

Question 22

social exchange theory

Answer 22

profits = rewards - costs

Question 23

equity

Answer 23

balance of rewards and costs are equal over time

Question 24

______ adults say they have used a dating app, and ______stated online dating has made dating easier for them

Answer 24

3/10, 40%

Question 25

initiating

Answer 25

size up a person, within 4 min. have an impression of the person, greeting in person or online

Question 26

experimenting

Answer 26

small talk, demographic info, most involvements never progress beyond this stage

Question 27

intensifying

Answer 27

revel previously withheld info, share secrets, terms of endearment, use of “we”

Question 28

integrating

Answer 28

you and your partners personalities seem to become one, use of “our”, treated as a couple

Question 29

bonding

Answer 29

public ritual, sharing a commitment

Question 30

the estimated median age to marry for the first time was _____ for men and _____ for women 2022, up from ages _____ for men and _____ for women in 1947

Answer 30

30.1, 28.2
23.7, 20.5

Question 31

relationship challenges

Answer 31

romantic betrayal, infidelity, deception, jealousy, wedging

Question 32

_____ of women and _____ of men experience contact with sexual violence, physical violence, and or stalking by an intimate partner

Answer 32

41%, 26%

Question 33

Differentiating

Answer 33

beliefs, attitudes, and values that distinguish you from your partner dominate–“we are so different”

Question 34

circumscribing

Answer 34

restrict the quantity and quality of info, create “safe zones”

Question 35

stagnating

Answer 35

communication at a standstill, stuck, trapped

Question 36

avoiding

Answer 36

distancing yourself, communicate this directly or indirectly

Question 37

terminating

Answer 37

couples discuss the past, present, and future of the relationship, and discuss “being friends”, which can be painful or awkward