Psychology-Relationships Flashcards
What are evolutional explanation?
They focus on the adaptive nature of behaviour, i.e. modern behaviours are believed to have evolved because they solved challenged faced by our distant ancestors and so became more widespread in the gene pool
What is the theory of sexual selection?
Developed by Charles Darwin. It explains the evaluation of characteristics that confer a reproductive advantage as opposed to a survival advantage. In sexual selection, an individual’s survival is not stake, but rather it is their ability to leave more descendants. Evolution is driven by competition for mates, and the development of characteristics that ensure reproductive success
What is the nature of sexual selection?
Intrasexual selection, intersexual selection, and sexual selection and long-term mate preferences
What is intrasexual selection?
In intrasexual selection, individuals of one sex (usually males) must outcompete other members of their sex in order to gain access to members of the other sex. Successful individuals are able to mate and so are able to pass on their genes. The losers are not able to mate and so are not able to pass on their genes. Whatever characteristic leads to success in these same-sex contests becomes more widespread in the gene pool by virtue of the reproductive advantage this gives to the winner
What is intersexual selection?
In intersexual selection, members of one sex evolve preferences for desirable qualities in potential mates. Members of the opposite sex who possess these characteristics will then gain a mating advantage over those who do not. The preferences of one sex, therefore, determine the areas in which the other sex must compete
Why does sexual selection affect long term mate preference?
Mechanisms for mate choice evolve because being choosy requires time and energy, and the costs of mate choice can even impair survival in some cases. The rationale behind sexual selection is that ransom mating is essentially stupid mating. It pays be choosy, as the genetic quality of a mate will determine half the genetic quality of any offspring. Low quality mates will be more likely to produce unattractive, unhealthy offspring. High quality mate=high quality offspring
How does sexual selection affect long-term mate preferences for females?
For females, the means being attracted to males who (i) are able to invest resources in her and her children, (ii) are able to physically protect her and her children, (iii) show promise are sufficiently compatible to ensure minimal costs to her and her children (Buss). However, males do not give away their resources indiscriminately
How does sexual selection affect long-term mate preferences for males?
Males would be most attracted to females who display signals of fertility, an indication of their reproductive value
What is the key study for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Buss’s research, which explored sex differences in long-term mate choice and found universal trends in male and female preferences
What was the procedure for Buss’ research?
The study involved 10,000 people from 37 different cultures. Participants were asked to rate each of 18 characteristics (eg physicals attractiveness, good financial prospect) on how important they would be in choosing a mate. A four point scale was used ranging from ‘3’ (indispensable) to ‘0’ (irrelevant)
What were the findings for Buss’ research?
The main results were that women more than men desired men desired mates who were ‘good financial prospects’. This translated into desire for men with resources or qualities such as ambition and industriousness. Men placed more importance on physical attractiveness. This provides cues to a woman’s health and hence her fertility and reproductive values. Men universally wanted mates who were younger than them-an indication that men valued increased fertility and potential mates. Both sexes wanted mates who were intelligent (linked to good parenting) and kind (linked to long-term relationships)
What are the evaluation points for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Cultural traditions may be just as important as evolutionary forces, female preferences for high-statues men may not be universal, mate choice in real life, mate choice and the menstrual cycle, and is there a human equivalent of the peacock’s tail
How is the point that ‘cultural traditions may be just as important as evolutionary forces’ an evaluation point for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Bernstein points out gender differences in mate preference patterns may stem from cultural traditions rather than being the result of evolved characteristics. For example, the fact that women have been denied economic and political powers in many cultures might account for their tendency to rely on the security/economic resources provided by men. Women valued this more in cultures where women’s status and education were very limited
How is the point that ‘female preferences for high-status men may not be universal’ an evaluation point for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Buller claims that evolutionary psychologists are mistaken in their claims of a universal female preference for high status men as mates. He argues that the majority of studies attempting to determine female mate preferences have been carried out on female undergraduate students. These expect to achieve high educational status so have expectations of high income levels. The fact that these prefer high-status men may be explained by general preference for high-status men or in terms of preference for men with similar interests/education/prospects
How does ‘mate choice in real life’ evaluate evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Studies such as Buss’s survey of mate choice might suffer from a serious problem of validity-i.e. they give us an indication of expressed preferences rather than being a reflection of what actually happens in real life. However, many real-life studies also support these mate-choice hypotheses. Eg a study of actual marriages in 29 cultures confirmed that men choose younger women. Some argue the questionnaires used in Buss’s study are more valid measures than real life marriage stats
How is ‘mate choice and the menstrual cycle’ an evaluation point for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Research by Penton-Voak et al suggests that, female mate choice varies across the menstrual cycle. Women chose a slightly feminised version of a male face as ‘most attractive’ for long term. But for short term, during high conception risk phase of cycle, the preferred face shape was more masculinised. Sexual selection may well have favoured females who pursue a mixed mating strategy under certain conditions. May choose a main partner whose feminised appearance suggests kindness/cooperation in parental care, but male with masculine appearance when conception is most likely as they likely have more testosterone, but a healthy male despite this may have a highly efficient immune system, which is valuable to pass down
How is the question, ‘is there a human equivalent of the peacock’s tail?’ an evaluation point for evolutionary explanations for partner preferences?
Research supports the view that some human traits that serve no survival purpose have evolved purely as a result of sexual selection. Eg a preference for highly creative partners has been a characteristic of mate choice throughout evolutionary history. Nettle and Clegg compared a sample of contemporary British poets and artists and a control group of males in non-creative professions. They found males in creative professions tended to have significantly more sexual partners, and the amount of their creative output correlated positively with amount of sexual partners
How important is physical attractiveness in mate selection?
Buss’s research on partner preferences in different cultures demonstrated that men in particular place great importance on physical attractiveness when choosing a mate. Physical importance=important cue to woman’s health/fertility/reproductive value. More recent research suggests however physical attractiveness may be just as important to women when choosing partners but some research suggests this is only true for women that are looking for short term relationships (but men also rely on it for long term relationships)
What is the ‘matching hypothesis’?
It claims that, when initiating romantic relationships individuals seek out partners whose social desirability approximately equals their own. According to this view, when choosing a partner, individuals must first assess their own ‘value’ in the eyes of a potential romantic partner and then select the best available candidates who would be most likely to be attracted to them. Although both individuals would theoretically be attractive to the most socially desirable potential partners, by opting for partners of similar social desirability to themselves they can maximise their chances of a successful outcome
How does the matching hypothesis link with physical attractiveness?
Although the hypothesis initially proposed people would pair with someone as socially desirable as themselves in terms of wide range of ‘assets’, over time it has come to be associated specifically with matching on physical attractiveness alone. Walster et al referred to these mating choices as ‘realistic’ choices, because each individual is influenced by the chances of having their affection reciprocated. Realistic choices must consider a number of different factors, including desires, whether they are wanted in return, and the availability of other desirable alternatives
What is the key study into physical attractiveness?
Walster et al’s study
What was the procedure for Walster et al’s study?
In order to test the matching hypothesis they advertised a ‘computer dance’ for new students at University of Minnesota. From large number of students who purchased tickets, 177 males and 170 females were randomly selected to take part in the study. When collecting their tickets, four student accomplices surreptitiously rated them on physical attractiveness. Participants then completed questionnaire to asses personality, intelligence etc, and told data fathered would allocate their ideal partner, though it was actually random. During intermission of dance, participants completed questionnaire about their dates, and again six months later
What were the findings of Walster et al’s study?
The findings did not support the matching hypothesis. Once participants had met their dates, and regardless of their own physical attractiveness, they responded more positively to physically attractive dates and were more likely to subsequently try to arrange dates with them if they were physically attractive. Other factors such as personality/intelligence did not affect liking the fates or any subsequent attempts to date them
What are the evaluation points for physical attractiveness and partner preference?
Speed dating and the challenge to traditional views of attraction, complex matching, research support for sex differences in the importance of physical attractiveness, matching may not be that important in initial attraction, implications of sex differences in the importance of physical attractiveness
How is ‘speed dating and the challenge to traditional view of attraction’ an evaluation point for physical attractiveness and partner preference?
Eastwick and Finkel claim although men may value physical attractiveness more than women when stating ideal partner preferences, these differences may not predict real life partner choice. Evidence from speed dating backed this up with longitudinal follow up procedures 30 days later. Traditional sex differences in preference before speed dating, but almost no difference in actual romantic attraction, so the traditional sex differences could not predict the outcomes
How is ‘complex matching’ an evaluation point for physical attractiveness and partner preference?
Sprecher and Hatfield suggest a reason why research often fails to find evidence of matching in terms of physical attractiveness. People come to a relationship offering many desirable characteristics, physical attractiveness is only one. A person may compensate for lack of physical attractiveness with other desirable characteristics such as good personality, kindness, money etc. This compensation is ‘complex matching’ which is how individuals are able to attract partners far more physically attractive than themselves
How is ‘research support for sex-differences in the importance of physical attractiveness’ evaluation for physical attractiveness and partner preferences?
If physical attractiveness in long term partners is more important for males, research should show males with physically attractive partners are more satisfied with their relationship. Meltzer et al provided support for this claim. Found objective ratings of wives’ attractiveness were positively related to levels of husbands’ satisfaction at beginning of marriage and remained that way over at least first four years of marriage. In contrast, lower importance females attach to physical attractiveness not related to wives’ marital satisfaction either at beginning or over time
How is ‘matching may not be that important in initial attraction’
Taylor et al cast doubt on value of matching hypothesis in attraction. Study of online dating patterns found no evidence that daters’ decisions were driven by similarity between their own and potential partners’ physical attractiveness. Instead found evidence of overall preference for attractive partners, suggesting they don’t take into account own physical attractiveness in initial stages of attraction, and aim for someone more desirable than themselves. Although matching hypothesis didn’t predict who was initially attracted to whim, researchers did find those individuals who specifically targeting similarly attractive others were more likely to receive responses to messages
How is ‘implications of sex-differences in the importance of physical attractiveness’ an evaluation point for physical attractiveness and partner preference?
Meltzer et al claim if physical attractiveness plays stronger role in men’s long term relationship satisfaction than in women’s, then women may experience increased pressure to maintain physical attractiveness in order to successfully maintain long term relationship. However, physical attractiveness is not only predictor of marital satisfaction for a man. Both men and women desire partners who are supportive/trustworthy/warm, and those with partners with these qualities tend to be more satisfied with their relationship. Accordingly, less physically attractive women who possess these qualities don’t tend to have less satisfied partners
What is self-disclosure?
It was first used by clinical psychologist, Jourard, and is when a person reveals intimate personal information about themselves to another person. It is an important process in the development of romantic relationships, with greater disclosure leading to greater feelings of intimacy. People tend to prefer those who disclose intimate details to whose who disclose themselves to a lesser extent. People reveal more intimate information to those they like and also tent to like those to whom they have revealed intimate information (Collins and Miller)
What does research on self-disclosure show?
It makes a distinction between self-disclosure given and self-disclosure received. Typically the level of self-disclosure received in a romantic relationship was a better predictor of liking and loving than the level of self disclosure that is given(Sprecher et al). Self disclosure is positively linked to relationship stability (Sprecher et al)
What is the key study into self disclosure?
Sprecher et al. They were interested in whether reciprocal self disclosure was more influential in determining attraction than one-sided self disclosure and listening
What was the procedure for Sprecher et al’s study into self disclosure?
156 participants (undergrad US students) paired into two-person dyads. Two-thirds of the dyads were female-female and one third was male-female. Each dyad of unacquainted individuals engaged in a self disclosure task over Skype. In the reciprocal condition, dyad members immediately took turns asking questions and disclosing. In the non-reciprocal condition, one person asked questions in the first interaction while the other person disclosed. Then the two switched roles for the second interaction. After each interaction, the researchers assessed liking, closeness, perceived similarity, and enjoyment of the interaction
What were the findings for Sprecher et al’s study into seld disclosure?
Individuals in the reciprocal condition dyads reported more liking, closeness, perceived similarity and enjoyment of the interaction than did those in the non-reciprocal dyads after the first interaction. This difference remained after participants in non-reciprocal dyads switched disclosure roles during the second interaction. This showed that turn-taking self-disclosure reciprocity is more likely to lead to positive interpersonal outcomes than is extended reciprocity
Why is the relationship between self-disclosure and relationship satisfaction not straightforward?
Because self-disclosure takes many different forms
What are different forms of self-disclosure?
Eg disclosing one’s taste in music and disclosing one’s inner fears and fantasies are quite different. Researchers have found that it is not self-disclosure per se that predicts relationship satisfaction, but the type of self-disclosure. Sprecher found that disclosure of, eg, experiences of personal disappointments and accomplishments, and information about precious sexual relationships, have a greater influence on relationship satisfaction than more ‘neutral’ types of self-disclosure
What are the norms of self-disclosure?
There are norms about self-disclosure eg there is the norm that people should engage in only a moderately personal level of self-disclosure in the early stages of a relationship. Derlega and Grzelak suggest these should be neither so personal that the discloser appears indiscriminate for disclosing them to a relative stranger, nor so impersonal that the listener is unable to know the disclosure better as a result
What is the norm of reciprocity (in terms of self-disclosure)?
The norm of reciprocity governs much of our social behaviour-people expect others to return the services they provide eg money, favours, self disclosure. Berg and Archer produced evidence showing people possess a norm of reciprocity concerning self disclosure. The more one person discloses to another, the more is expected in return
What are the evaluation points for self-disclosure?
Research support for the importance of self-disclosure, self-disclosure on the internet: the ‘boom and bust’ phenomenon, the norms of self-disclosure run deep, self-disclosure may be greater in face-to-face than online relationships, and, cultural differences in patterns of self-disclosure
How does ‘research support for the importance of self-disclosure’ evaluate self-disclosure?
Meta analysis by Collins and Miller supports central role that self-disclosure plays in development and maintenance of romantic relationships. Found that people who engage in intimate disclosures tend to be liked more than people who disclose at lower levels, and people like others as a result of having disclosed to them. Collins and Miller also found that the relationship between disclosure and liking was stronger if the recipient believed that the disclosure was shared only with them rather than being shared indiscriminately with others
How does ‘self-disclosure on the internet: the ‘boom and bust’ phenomenon’ evaluate self-disclosure?
Some researchers suggested relationships formed over internet involve higher levels of self-disclosure and attraction than in face-to-face relationships. Due to anonymity online, the greater psychological comfort that comes with tat may lead them to reveal more about themselves. Cooper and Sportolari refer to this as ‘boom and bust’ phenomenon. When people reveal more about themselves earlier than they would in face-to-face then relationships intensify quickly (boom) but due to underlying trust and true knowledge of other person are not there to support the relationship, it is difficult to sustain (bust)
How does ‘the norms of self-disclosure run deep’ evaluate self-disclosure?
Tal-Or and Hershman-Shirit showed relationship between gradual self-disclosure and attraction applies not only to real-life romantic relationships but also to liking reality TV contestants. Shows such as Big Brother tend to be characterised by the very intimate self-disclosure of contestants early on in the shows. This rapid self-disclosure appears to conflict with what happens in everyday interactions, where such intimate self-disclosure is only welcomed when it evolves gradually. They found although viewers liked characters who make early intimate disclosures, they still preferred this disclosure to evolve gradually and become more intimate, as in real relationships
How does ‘self-disclosure may be greater in face-to-face than online relationships’ evaluate self-disclosure?
Research by Knop et al challenges assumption that people self-disclose more in offline relationships than face-to-face. Their study reveled members of a social group disclose personal information more often in face-to-face than online interactions, and disclose more intimate information. Appears that individuals don’t seize opportunity to reveal personal information online as much as expected, contrary to the original belief. They suggest it may be due to relative lack of intimacy of the internet as a context for personal self-disclosure. A person disclosing appreciates non-verbal cues such as eye contact and attentive silence of someone disclosing to, both absent in the online environment
How does ‘cultural differences in patterns of self-disclosure’ evaluate self-disclosure?
Cultures differ in extent to which various topics are considered appropriate for conversation. In the West people typically generally engage in more intimate self-disclosure than non-Westerners. Americans eg disclose more than Chinese or Japanese. Cultural norms also shape how comfortable men/women are disclosing/ Eg Nakanishi found Japanese women prefer lower level of personal conversations than Japanese men, which is opposite to the self-disclosure patterns typically found in the West
What is filter theory?
Kerckhoff and Davis’ ‘filter theory’ of attraction suggests we choose a romantic partners by using a series of filters that narrow down the ‘field of availables’ from which we might eventually make out choice. Different filters are prominent at different stages of partner selection
What are the three stages of filter theory?
Social demography, similarity in attitudes, and complementarity of needs
What is social demography?
It refers to variables such as age, social background and geographical location, which determines likelihood of individuals meeting in the first place. This already restricts our range of potential partners as we are more likely to meet people with similar backgrounds or who live closer. We feel more similar to these people so more at ease, and therefore we find them more attractive simply due to having more in common with them. In this first stage, attraction is more to do with social, rather than individual, characteristics
What is similarity in attitudes?
Second filter involves individual’s psychological characteristics, specifically agreement on attitudes and basic values. Kerckhoff and Davis found similarity in attitudes and values was of central importance at the start of a relationship and was the best predictor of the relationship becoming stable. Disclosure allows the individuals to weight up their decisions with continuing or terminating the relationship. People who have very different views are not considered suitable and so are ‘filtered out’
What is complementarity of needs?
People who have different needs like each other as they provide each other with mutual satisfaction of these opposed needs. This is important as finding someone who complements them ensures that their own needs are likely to be met. Eg young women who lack economic resources may feel attracted to older men who are a good financial prospect so may be good providers
What is research into complementarity of needs?
Winch’s investigation of 25 married couples in the US suggested that ‘social needs’ should be complementary rather than similar if marriages are to work. If one parter was low in a particular attribute then the other should be high. This is not the same as ‘opposites attract’, but for long term relationships people are attracted to those whose needs are ‘harmonious’ with their own rather than conflicting with their own
What is the key study for filter theory?
Kerckhoff and Davis
What was the procedure of Kerckhoff and Davis’ study?
Longitudinal study of 94 dating couples at a US university. Each partner completed two questionnaires assessing the degree to which they shared attitudes and values, and the degree of need complementarity. Seven months after initial testing, they completed a further questionnaire assessing how close they felt to their partner compared to the beginning of the study. The researchers believed this would indicate ‘progress toward permanence’ in the relationship
What were the findings of Kerckhoff and Davis’ study?
In the initial analysis of the results, only similarity appeared to be related to partner closeness. However, when the researchers divided the couples into short term (less than 18 months) and long term (more than 18 months), a difference emerged. For short term couples, similarity of attitudes and values was the most significant predictor of how close they felt to their partner. For long term couples, only complementarity of needs was predictive of how close each individual felt to their partner
What are the evaluation points for filter theory?
Lack of research support for filter theory, the real value of the filtering process, perceived similarity may be more important than actual similarity, complementarity of needs may not be that important, a problem for filter theory
How does ‘lack of research support for filter theory’ evaluate filter theory?
Levinger et al failed to replicate the Kerckhoff and Davis’ study. They studied 330 couples who were ‘steadily attached’ through the same procedures as the original study but found no evidence that either similarity of attitudes/values or complementarity of needs influenced progress toward permanence in relationships. Also found no significant relationship between length of relationship and influence of the different variables. Levinger et al suggest the questionnaire in the original study would not have been appropriate given changes in social values and courtship patterns that occurred in the intervening years between the studies
How does ‘the real value of the filtering process’ evaluate filter theory?
Duck suggests the real value of the filtering process is it allows people to make predictions about their future interactions so avoid investing in a relationship that ‘won’t work’. Each person conducts series of explorations, disclosing bits of information about themselves, and making enquiries about the other person. Duck claims people use variety of different strategies to gather information about each other including encouraging self-disclosure etc. Based on this, partners decide whether to continue the relationship and so filtering stops people making the wrong choice and getting stuck with the consequences
How does ‘perceived similarity may be more important than actual similarity’ evaluate filter theory ?
Research generally supports importance of attitudinal similarity in attraction. Consistent with assumptions of Kerckhoff and Davis’s second stage of the filtering process, some researchers found perceived similarity predicts attraction more strongly than actual similarity. Tidwell et al tested this claim in the context of a speed-dating event, where decisions about attraction must be made over a much shorter time span. After measuring actual and perceived similarity with a questionnaire, the researcher found perceived but not actual similarity predicted romantic liking for these couples
How does ‘complementarity of needs may not be that important’ evaluate filter theory?
Although studies consistently find support for ‘similarity-attraction’ aspect of the theory, support for the importance of complementarity of needs is much scarcer. Eg Dijkstra and Barelds studied 760 college-educated singles on a dating site looking for a long term mate. Participant’s own personalities were measured and asked to rate personality characteristics they desired in an ideal mate. Researchers found that although initially indicating desired complementary partner rather than similar, there were strong correlations between own personality and ideal personality-supports similarity-attraction hypothesis instead
How does ‘a problem for filter theory’ evaluate filter theory?
Filter theory assumes that relationships progress when partners discover shared attitudes and values with their partner and the possession of needs that complement their own. However, most problematic for this assumption is these are constantly changing over time and in many instances, people are not aware of their partners’ values, needs or role preferences. Eg Thornton and Young-DeMarco found evidence of changed attitudes towards relationships with a now more relaxed attitude towards cohabitation, and more egalitarian attitudes toward gender roles in marriage