Psych Unit 9 Flashcards
Difficulty of Studying Sexuality
- Infants can’t be interviewed about their sex lives
- Older children’s understanding of sex is limited - they can be interviewed but they don’t fully understand their sexuality
- The interviewer may influence their replies - data not always reliable
Adults:
- they may have limited memories of their childhood and no recollection at all of their infancy
- retrospective method is hard
Parents and Society:
- hard to get parents to tell a researcher about their child’s sexual behavior – may ask teacher
- this is usually bc people don’t consider children to be sexual beings
- there’s ethical and legal problems
- it’s hard to do direct observational data bc children’s sexual behaviors are infrequent
Cross-Cultural Attitudes about Sexuality
- the US is very conservative compared to other countries
ex: in I Love Lucy Show – first to show a pregnant woman and they said she was “expecting” - Before the 19th century, it was common for families to live in a one-bedroom house (kids would witness their parents having sex)
- Kids now are exposed a lot less to sexual behaviors
**we view children as innocent beings not exposed to sex
**Children exposed to sexual behaviors early on in life, tend to be okay later in life
UCLA Longitudinal Study
Young children who happened to see their parents having sex or naked turned out fine – they were no more likely to experience psychological problems later in childhood than children who did not
- there was a tendency for them to have fewer problems – a finding that is in with another retrospective study
Data Sources
We don’t have many sources or data
- we use surveys, questionaires, and interviews
- no researcher has done direct observation of childhood sexuality
Early Infancy – General
Infants have a physiological capacity to have genital response present from birth (even in utero)
- some male babies are born with erections
- Female infants are found sometimes with vaginal lubrication after birth – also have been observed touching their vulva in utero
- a lot of physical contact between mom and baby (diaper changing, breastfeeding)
Infant Attachment
bond forms in the following hours after birth and continues throughout the period of infancy
- bond forms thru cuddling and other physical contact
- the quality of the attachment influences the child’s ability to form emotional connections w ppl later in life (stable, security, insecurity…)
Genital Touching in Infants
6-12 months
- they may touch their genitals unintentionally
- increases at 15-19 months
Masturbation in Infants
2.5-3 years
- This tends to be oberveded equally between girls and boys at this stage
- These behaviors don’t indicate pathology
- Orgasms from self-stimulation are possible at this age (boys can’t ejaculate before puberty)
Importance of Parent’s Reactions
This behavior is normative at this age, and if parents treat it that way, it can encourage more positive attitudes towards the body and sex
- Kids learn from their parent’s behaviors
ex: if parents see kid masturbate and have a positive reaction, kid won’t feel ashamed to do it in the future
Infancy to 4 years: Learning Gender Concepts
- kids can understand sex at 3-4 months of age
- at 2-3 yrs old kids understand gender identity
- bc they have this now, they start to imitate their peers and want to become part of their gender’s group (if they’re a girl, they wear pink)
- a lot of this is bc of reward and punishment (kids look to see how their parents respond to them)
4-6 age:
- kids have a rigid understanding of gender but it becomes more fluid as they get older
- more social and sexual play happens
- kids want to look at genitals
- girls might try to pee like boys
Trans Children’s Development
- kids at a young age may start to question their gender
- they question the rigid gender rules (maybe if they’re a girl they will cut their hair very short)
1% of kids don’t identify with the gender they were born with
- they show cross-gender behavior
- they may be reffered to a doctor and diagnosed with gender dysphoria
Childhood 5-11
Freud was wrong about latency – it’s not a sexually dormant period
- lots of sexual behaviors exhibited at this stage
Adrenarche Stage:
Adrenarche = (the maturation of the adrenal glands) occurs around 8-10 years old
- leads to increased levels of androgens in both girls and boys
- In a study, the average age of having a sexual attraction to each other was 10 (probably linked to adrenarche and the rise in androgens)
Childhood: Masturbation
40% of college kids said they masturbated before puberty
- boys do it before girls
- Around 40% of boys and 20% of girls report masturbation by age 12
- Boys and girls learn about masturbation in different ways (boys = male peers, seeing male peers doing it, reading about it) ; (girls = accidental self-discovery)
Gender segregated social organization
Only played with people of your gender (girls play with girls)
Sexual exploration is likely to be with kids from the same gender
Kids learn more about heterosexual activity (from media, friends, and older kids)
*children who engage in sexual play are just as well-adjusted as kids who didn’t
Heteronormativity
Learn a lot about sex in terms of heteronormativity
heteronormativity = belief that heterosexualiuty is the only pattern that is normal and natural
ex: They think that boys and girls are different and that boys should be attracted to girls (vice versa)
Gender Essentialism
Gender essentialism: the belief that boys and girls are very different from one another (girls should be attracted to boys)
Same Gender Sexual Behavior in Children
Gender-segregated social organization = boys play separately from girls, and so children spend most of their time with members of their own gender
- Sexual exploration is likley to be down with the same gender
ex: boys do a circle jerk
ex: girls may kiss each other’s necks
Study of lesbian, gay, and bisexual kids found that on average they reported their first same-gender sexual attraction at age 10 or 11
Goldman Study 1982
interviewed kids from 4 diff countries (5-15)
results:
- American children no nothing about sexuality
- 50% of Australian kids knew the correct terms for genitals and only 20% of American kids did
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How Are Babies Made? Study
Compared the US to 3 European countries
- They asked 6-year-olds to make drawings of how babies are made and then told them to explain it
results:
The kids in the US knew much less than the kids from the European countries (a lot less)
- The kids also filled out the sexual awareness scale, and many of the US kids scored a 0
Are Today’s Children Being Sexualized?
sexualization = occurs when a person is valued only by their sexual appeal or behavior, when a person is held to a standard that equates physical attractiveness with being sexy, a person is sexually objectified, and when sexuality is inappropriately imposed on a child
ex: beauty pageants
- they think media is making this worse
- sexualization is also when girls are being treated like objects
being of this, many do self-sexualization and get cosmetic surgery later
How the Sexualization of Teen Girls on Social Media is Affecting their Self-Esteem:
This gets talked about a lot on the news
- public panic about this
- They think it is about the way girls dress today, filters on social media, and how the influencers pose and act (young girls want to mimic this behavior)
- The sexualization of girls has an impact on their mood, school performance, and self-esteem (could lead to depression and anxiety)
Adolescence: Surge of Sexual Interest
12-18
Happens because of bodily changes and awareness of them and rises in levels of sex hormones
- See this data in masturbation
Not all adolescent sex is good sex – sometimes they’re too young, it’s unprotected, or the sex is coerced
- Lots of processes being developed (sexual identity, gender identity)
- More than 50% of US teens report being in a romantic relationship in the past 18 months
***a lot of the data on this is negative bc they talk abt how sex is risky for adolescents
– kinsey increased our knowledge about it especially in women
In high school students, 15-19 – 41% of girls did this and 40% of boys had heterosexual sex
Puberty
Marked by biological changes that affect the entire body
- Development of secondary sex characteristics (facial and body hair)
- latin word (puescere) = to grow hair
- Girls develop breasts and mensturate
- Boys get enlargement of testes, scortum, penis, voice deepening and their first ejaculation
- Boys can have erections before puberty but can’t ejaculate before puberty
- All experience growth spurts
- All can experience acne
- Changes in the brain
**a lot of western cultures have an earlier onset of puberty for girls and boys
- This happens because we have changed our diets (we eat more kinds of foods and eat a lot of nutrient-dense foods, which makes kids grow faster and makes them grow more fat
- Also happens because of industrial pollutants
- girls of color usually get their periods before white girls