psych 315 - F Flashcards
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Aspects of parenting
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- [1] warmth: support, acceptance, responsiveness
- [2] control: managing and enforcing behaviour through rules
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Types of Discipline
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- learning based theories: reinforcement and punishment
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(+) inductive discipline: providing explanation to help shape behaviour
- other inductive discipline: “how would Sara feel”
- self inductive discipline: “how would you feel if Sara did that”
- (-) physical punishment
- (-) power assertion: using power as a parent (control, coercion, denial of privileges)
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Parenting matters
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- father involvement predicts grades and criminal records
- mother-teen relationships predicts adjustment in adulthood
- mother-teen closeness predicts own marital satisfaction in adulthood
- parent intervention reduces behavioural problems and delinquency
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Parenting Styles
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uninvolved: low support, low control
- consistent disadvantage for children
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permissive: high support, low control
- falls in between for disadvantage/advantage
- no rules, indulgent
- child can do whatever they want
- more likely for fathers
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authoritarian: low support, high control
- falls in between for disadvantage/advantage
- gives rules, but does not give support about the rules
- rules have to be followed no matter what
- more common in non-White parents
- less consistent in research for positive outcomes (linked positively outside of North America)
- more likely for father
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authoritative: high support, high control
- consistent advantage for children
- high self reliance, social competence, GPA, academic competence
- low somatic symptoms of distress and school misconduct
- gives rules, but provides support with those rules
- more likely for mothers
- consistent advantage for children
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Parent Conflict
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- linked to poorer outcomes:
- psychological (depressive symptoms)
- cognitive (less good grades)
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but conflict is not as important as parenting
- supportive parenting is more crucial than conflict
- good parenting + poor marriage: children are still successful
- bad parenting + good marriage: children are less successful
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Parent Divorce
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- increases risk of problems by x2
- caused by
- parent conflict
- stress to child, to parent
- diminished parenting
- economic / social difficulties
- economic / social changes
- absence of parent / fear of absence of parent
- relocation
- divorce is a process
- negative impacts seen before divorce happens
- short term: most severe problems occur within 1-2 years
- long term: children more likely to drop out of school, get divorced in the future
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Conflict v Divorce
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- divorce has more benefits than staying together fighting
- children struggle a lot if there is not much conflict → divorce
- fewer psychological symptoms if conflict → divorce
- decline in psychological distress
- increase in overall happiness
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How culture interacts with parenting
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- across culture: similar goal of parenting to protect, nurture and help child be competent members of society
- parenting reflects the values and beliefs of the cultural context – “good” differs
- behavioural norms
- beliefs about parenting and child development
- role of extended family
- financial and physical resources
- cultural values (i.e. independent v interdependent)
- there is more variability within cultures than between cultures
- normativeness: not everyone in the culture is the same
- regardless of how parents act, a more important factor
- congruency: how close parent is to the norm
- congruency with others in cultural context is linked to positive outcomes
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Similarities and Differences of parenting across culture
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[sim] every parent uses some amounts of warmth and control
- warmth and control is beneficial for development in every culture
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[diff] ideal amount of control
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Western: high warmth, high control
- sees authoritative parenting as advantageous
- control is necessary, but too much is not ideal
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Chinese: less warmth, more control
- less warmth: tend to withhold praise
- belief that praise leads to self-satisfied children (not good for growth)
- uses shame to motivate improvement
- debate: does less praise = less warmth, or is warmth expressed differently? (i.e. involved in school)
- more controlling: believes in deeply-involved parenting
- tied to cultural values on family and authority
- less warmth: tend to withhold praise
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Latin parents: more warmth, more control
- strong family values: importance of warmth, but also needs control to create this adherence
- familismo: family above all else
- respeto: fulfill obligations and maintain harmonious relationships in family
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Western: high warmth, high control
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mixed findings on the ideal level of control
- classic studies: no negative effects of higher control in Chinese parenting
- recent studies: negative effect for too much control in Chinese and North American parents
- possible explanation: maybe warmth and control are not fully descriptive of parenting
- may be due to differences
- across ages
- across regions
- across type of control
- across changes over time
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Types of Sibling Relationships
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- caregiver relationship: one serves as quasi-parent for the other
- buddy relationship: both siblings like each other, and try to be like one another
- casual/uninvolved relationship: have little to do with each other
- critical/conflictual/rival relationship: one tries to dominate the other (teasing, fighting)
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Function of Sibling Relationships
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- helps practice social skills (non-voluntary aspect: have to learn, cannot just leave)
- buffer for peer rejection, parent conflict and stressful experiences
- chance to try out new behaviours (non-voluntary aspect: built-in automatic audience)
- opportunity to learn about another gender
- promote individuality
- often want to distinguish yourself from siblings
- help you find your own identity
- learn about conflict
- teach you to fight, negotiate and resolve conflict
- but too much / too highly-emotional conflict is linked to negative outcomes (negative emotions, aggression)
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Influence of grandparents
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- evolutionary useful for survival: linked to child survival
- boosts emotional well-being
- buffer against negative outcomes: the closer you are to your grandparent, the greater reduction of risk of depressive symptoms
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Types of Grandparent Roles
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- influential grandparent: involved/intimate, an authority figure
- supportive grandparent: involved/intimate, but not an authority figure
- passive / detached grandparent: not particularly involved/intimate
- authority-oriented grandparent: not involved/intimate, has large authority
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Friendship across development
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- definition: a close, mutual, reciprocal and voluntary relationship
- [infancy, 1-2] will have children they prefer to play with
- [pre-school, 3-4]
- can consistently name who they are friends with
- defines friends in concrete way: who they spend time and play with
- [middle childhood]
- based on shared interests
- has emotional component (take care and support each other)
- has mutuality component
- [adolescence]
- based on shared interest and values (more complex and deep)
- focused on intimacy
- girls emphasize more on emotional intimacy (i.e. self-disclosure)
- boys emphasize more on physical intimacy (doing things together)
- shift in friendship caused by
- time spent with peers: increases with age → gets deeper and more complex
- cognitive development (ie. perspective-taking allows for deeper friendship)
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Cliques v Crowds
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- definition
- [cl] smaller, voluntary, friendship-based group
- [cr] reputation-based group, less voluntary
- basis
- [cl] shared interest and attitudes
- initially same gender → mixed gender
- initially mixed race → same race
- [cr] reputation-based - not always accurate with behaviour
- [cl] shared interest and attitudes
- membership
- [cl] unstable (common to move between cliques)
- [cr] stable