psych 315 - F Flashcards
Aspects of parenting
- [1] warmth: support, acceptance, responsiveness
- [2] control: managing and enforcing behaviour through rules
Types of Discipline
- learning based theories: reinforcement and punishment
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(+) inductive discipline: providing explanation to help shape behaviour
- other inductive discipline: “how would Sara feel”
- self inductive discipline: “how would you feel if Sara did that”
- (-) physical punishment
- (-) power assertion: using power as a parent (control, coercion, denial of privileges)
Parenting matters
- father involvement predicts grades and criminal records
- mother-teen relationships predicts adjustment in adulthood
- mother-teen closeness predicts own marital satisfaction in adulthood
- parent intervention reduces behavioural problems and delinquency
Parenting Styles
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uninvolved: low support, low control
- consistent disadvantage for children
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permissive: high support, low control
- falls in between for disadvantage/advantage
- no rules, indulgent
- child can do whatever they want
- more likely for fathers
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authoritarian: low support, high control
- falls in between for disadvantage/advantage
- gives rules, but does not give support about the rules
- rules have to be followed no matter what
- more common in non-White parents
- less consistent in research for positive outcomes (linked positively outside of North America)
- more likely for father
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authoritative: high support, high control
- consistent advantage for children
- high self reliance, social competence, GPA, academic competence
- low somatic symptoms of distress and school misconduct
- gives rules, but provides support with those rules
- more likely for mothers
- consistent advantage for children
Parent Conflict
- linked to poorer outcomes:
- psychological (depressive symptoms)
- cognitive (less good grades)
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but conflict is not as important as parenting
- supportive parenting is more crucial than conflict
- good parenting + poor marriage: children are still successful
- bad parenting + good marriage: children are less successful
Parent Divorce
- increases risk of problems by x2
- caused by
- parent conflict
- stress to child, to parent
- diminished parenting
- economic / social difficulties
- economic / social changes
- absence of parent / fear of absence of parent
- relocation
- divorce is a process
- negative impacts seen before divorce happens
- short term: most severe problems occur within 1-2 years
- long term: children more likely to drop out of school, get divorced in the future
Conflict v Divorce
- divorce has more benefits than staying together fighting
- children struggle a lot if there is not much conflict → divorce
- fewer psychological symptoms if conflict → divorce
- decline in psychological distress
- increase in overall happiness
How culture interacts with parenting
- across culture: similar goal of parenting to protect, nurture and help child be competent members of society
- parenting reflects the values and beliefs of the cultural context – “good” differs
- behavioural norms
- beliefs about parenting and child development
- role of extended family
- financial and physical resources
- cultural values (i.e. independent v interdependent)
- there is more variability within cultures than between cultures
- normativeness: not everyone in the culture is the same
- regardless of how parents act, a more important factor
- congruency: how close parent is to the norm
- congruency with others in cultural context is linked to positive outcomes
Similarities and Differences of parenting across culture
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[sim] every parent uses some amounts of warmth and control
- warmth and control is beneficial for development in every culture
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[diff] ideal amount of control
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Western: high warmth, high control
- sees authoritative parenting as advantageous
- control is necessary, but too much is not ideal
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Chinese: less warmth, more control
- less warmth: tend to withhold praise
- belief that praise leads to self-satisfied children (not good for growth)
- uses shame to motivate improvement
- debate: does less praise = less warmth, or is warmth expressed differently? (i.e. involved in school)
- more controlling: believes in deeply-involved parenting
- tied to cultural values on family and authority
- less warmth: tend to withhold praise
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Latin parents: more warmth, more control
- strong family values: importance of warmth, but also needs control to create this adherence
- familismo: family above all else
- respeto: fulfill obligations and maintain harmonious relationships in family
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Western: high warmth, high control
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mixed findings on the ideal level of control
- classic studies: no negative effects of higher control in Chinese parenting
- recent studies: negative effect for too much control in Chinese and North American parents
- possible explanation: maybe warmth and control are not fully descriptive of parenting
- may be due to differences
- across ages
- across regions
- across type of control
- across changes over time
Types of Sibling Relationships
- caregiver relationship: one serves as quasi-parent for the other
- buddy relationship: both siblings like each other, and try to be like one another
- casual/uninvolved relationship: have little to do with each other
- critical/conflictual/rival relationship: one tries to dominate the other (teasing, fighting)
Function of Sibling Relationships
- helps practice social skills (non-voluntary aspect: have to learn, cannot just leave)
- buffer for peer rejection, parent conflict and stressful experiences
- chance to try out new behaviours (non-voluntary aspect: built-in automatic audience)
- opportunity to learn about another gender
- promote individuality
- often want to distinguish yourself from siblings
- help you find your own identity
- learn about conflict
- teach you to fight, negotiate and resolve conflict
- but too much / too highly-emotional conflict is linked to negative outcomes (negative emotions, aggression)
Influence of grandparents
- evolutionary useful for survival: linked to child survival
- boosts emotional well-being
- buffer against negative outcomes: the closer you are to your grandparent, the greater reduction of risk of depressive symptoms
Types of Grandparent Roles
- influential grandparent: involved/intimate, an authority figure
- supportive grandparent: involved/intimate, but not an authority figure
- passive / detached grandparent: not particularly involved/intimate
- authority-oriented grandparent: not involved/intimate, has large authority
Friendship across development
- definition: a close, mutual, reciprocal and voluntary relationship
- [infancy, 1-2] will have children they prefer to play with
- [pre-school, 3-4]
- can consistently name who they are friends with
- defines friends in concrete way: who they spend time and play with
- [middle childhood]
- based on shared interests
- has emotional component (take care and support each other)
- has mutuality component
- [adolescence]
- based on shared interest and values (more complex and deep)
- focused on intimacy
- girls emphasize more on emotional intimacy (i.e. self-disclosure)
- boys emphasize more on physical intimacy (doing things together)
- shift in friendship caused by
- time spent with peers: increases with age → gets deeper and more complex
- cognitive development (ie. perspective-taking allows for deeper friendship)
Cliques v Crowds
- definition
- [cl] smaller, voluntary, friendship-based group
- [cr] reputation-based group, less voluntary
- basis
- [cl] shared interest and attitudes
- initially same gender → mixed gender
- initially mixed race → same race
- [cr] reputation-based - not always accurate with behaviour
- [cl] shared interest and attitudes
- membership
- [cl] unstable (common to move between cliques)
- [cr] stable
Functions of Friendships
- highly beneficial in development
- emotional support: sounding board, self-disclosure
- physical support: resources (i.e. notes, money)
- buffer during stressful times (similar to siblings / grandparents)
- no cortisol increase when best friend is present in a negative event
- development of social and cognitive skills
- social comparison
- stimulation
- conflict and resolution
- model and reinforcement of behaviour (– deviancy training)
Functions of Cliques
- context of friendship
- having a social group
- sense of belongingness
- guide interest in romantic relationships for straight teens
(most date within their clique)
Function of Crowds
- locate individuals within a social environment (how you are seen)
- establish social norms (how to act)
- contribute to sense of identity and self-concept (not true if it doesn’t match)
Sociometric Peer Statuses
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popular: many likes, few dislikes (12-20%)
- skilled at initiating and maintaining positive interactions
- good at recognizing and regulating emotions
- good at perspective taking
- rated by teachers as cooperative, friendly, helpful, leaders
- assertive, but not pushy
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rejected: few likes, many dislikes (12-20%)
- leads to problems
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external problems: violence, delinquency
(more common for rejected-aggressive) -
internal problems: depression, anxiety
(more common for rejected-withdrawn) - academic problems
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external problems: violence, delinquency
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rejected-aggressive (40-50%)
- instrumental aggressive → directed towards something (i.e. lunch money)
- relational aggression → directed towards someone’s social relationship (i.e. spreading rumors)
- physical aggression
- bullying
- aggression causes rejection [not other way around]
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rejected-withdrawn (40-50%)
- poor social skills
- socially anxious
- difficulty with social goals
- rejected-aggressive withdrawn: mixed of both (less common)
- leads to problems
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controversial: many likes, many dislikes (6-20%)
- share characteristics of popular and rejected children
- i.e. nice and cool, but snobby
- i.e. helpful but aggressive
- share characteristics of popular and rejected children
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neglected: few likes, few dislikes (= don’t show up on the lists) (6-20%)
- timid, shy, lack of social skills
- often not bothered by this classification — similar to rejected, but don’t experience the anxiety of being in it
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average: (30-60%)
- moderately sociable
- average cognitive skills
Perceived Popularity
- mixed of positive and negative traits
- positive traits of sociometric popular children
- negative traits, particularly aggression (high in instrumental and relational)
- physically attractive
- more variable: based on changing norms, malleable to context
(a child may not be equally popular in different contexts)
Culture and Peer Status
- Zhang et al (2019): different cultural values impact peer status through what values are prioritized
- across culture: prosocial behaviour and academic achievement are linked to likability and perceived popularity
- but, more linked in Chinese children (especially perceived popularity)
- reflect’s China’s collectivistic values that place heavier emphasis on prosocial behaviour and academic achievement
Technology on peer relationships
- defining “friend” can be challenging (is following someone = being friends?)
- (+) facilitate more disclosure and intimacy
- (+) linked with more support
- (-) more challenging to resolve conflict
- easier to avoid things
- more long-lasting
- (-) lacks social cues
Online v Face-to-Face
- [sim]
- we tend to interact with the same people face-to-face v online
- online friendships serves many of the same functions as face-to-face friendship
- [diff for online]
- increased anonymity (depending on platform)
- (+) helps with disclosure
- (-) allows for more aggression
- different social cues
- different emphasis in physical appearance (depending on platform)
- more public and long lasting
- easier to find similar others — not confined to location
- all-day access to friends
- more quantifiable
- increased anonymity (depending on platform)
Romantic Relationships - Developmental Changes
- [11-13] interest in romantic partners
- very little actual context
- only within yourself / peers
- [14-15] casual, group-based dating
- common to date within your friend group (for straight teens)
- casual, but relatively long lasting (~6 months)
- [17-18] stable relationships
- more intimate, 1-on-1 time
- romantic relationships would replace time spent with friends
Influences on Romantic Relationships
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peer relationship:
better quality friendships → predicts better romantic relationship- skills learnt to express your intimacy transfers over
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family relationships:
better quality relationship → predicts better romantic relationship- attachment theory — early life experiences set up how we think about relationships broadly
- media: shapes what we believe (→ can lead to lower satisfaction in the relationship)
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culture: differences in timing of ages
(most research done in North America) -
sexual orientation:
- 5-10% report same-sex relationships
- overall the same, but is more complicated due to stigma
- more likely to pursue a relationship outside the friend group
Unique Functions of Romantic Relationships
- establishes autonomy — independence from parents and friends
- develop intimacy — learn to disclose and develop closeness
- sense of belonging
- boosts feelings of self-worth
- status (especially in early adolescence)
- furthering development of gender and sexual identity
Research on Romantic Relationships
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early starters [10-12] have atypical trajectory
- start immediately at serious
- linked to negative outcomes (not causal - maybe certain individuals are more likely to seek early relationship)
- more externalizing behaviours: acting out, alcohol, delinquency
- low social maturity, low self-esteem, high depression
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late bloomers follow the typical trajectory
- mixed findings: some studies report negative consequences, some don’t
- may be linked to cultural norms — will only lead to negative outcomes if you feel delayed
- breaking up: most common trigger for a depressive episode
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dating violence:
- many youth see it as acceptable in a relationship
- associated with depression, suicide ideation, drug use, teen pregnancy, dropping out of school
Piaget’s Stages of Moral Development
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[< 4] premoral reasoning
- not yet thinking about the world in moral terms (right-wrong, good-bad)
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[4-7] heteronomous morality
- right v wrong is based on rules — no deeper connotations
- get rules from authority figures (i.e. parents)
- focus on consequences
[breaking 10 cups accidentally > breaking 1 cup on purpose] -
imminent justice:
- belief that punishment is automatic
- justice emanate from one’s actions
(falling through a bridge after stealing apples → would not fall if did not steal)
- moral realism: the idea that good, bad and consequences are real
- right v wrong is based on rules — no deeper connotations
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[11-12] autonomous morality (= morality of cooperation)
- rules come from social agreement
- sensitive to fairness and equality
- focuses on motives and intensions — purposefulness
- moral relativism: rules are set by society (not real things), and can chance according to context
Piaget’s Theory of Moral Development
- moral development is underlied by:
- cognitive development (perspective thinking and abstract thinking)
- time spent with peers (drives moral development through lived experience — learn to negotiate and interact)
Kohlberg’s Theory of Moral Development
- focus on reasoning, not on yes/no answer
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level 1: preconventional moral reasoning
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stage 1: punishment and obedience orientation
- right = obeying authority + avoiding punishment
- should steal: can do it in the dark to avoid getting caught
- should not steal: will get caught
- right = obeying authority + avoiding punishment
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stage 2: instrumental and exchange orientation
- right = what satisfies own interest, and occasionally others’
- should steal: help wife
- should not steal: don’t want to go to jail
- “tit for tat” reciprocity
- right = what satisfies own interest, and occasionally others’
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stage 1: punishment and obedience orientation
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level 2: conventional moral reasoning (shared conventions between people of right v wrong)
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stage 3: mutual interpersonal expectations, relationships and conformity orientation
- right = what is expected by people / society
- importance placed on being ‘good’
- should steal: being a good husband
- should not steal: being a good citizen
- “good boy” stage
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stage 4: social system and conscience orientation
- right = doing one’s duty, adhering to authority, upholding social order
- focus on social systems of ‘law and order’
- answers might be similar to stage 1, but reason based on law (v being punished)
- should steal: duty as social order of marriage
- should not steal: illegal as decided by society
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stage 3: mutual interpersonal expectations, relationships and conformity orientation
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level 3: postconventional moral reasoning
(see as one stage grouped together)-
stage 5: social contract of individual orientation
- right = universal values of life and liberty
- follow rules because we agreed on those deeper values
- uphold rules in the best interest of the group / rules agreed upon by the group
- emphasis on the law, but willing to change with rational considerations
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stage 6: universal ethical principles
- right = self-chosen ethical principles that reflect universal principles of justice
- civil disobedience: refusal to obey demands of government without resorting to violence / active opposition (i.e. hunger strike)
- willing to go against own benefit to advocate for others
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stage 5: social contract of individual orientation
Criticisms on Piaget’s Moral Development Theory
- (+) moral reasoning correlated with cognitive development test performance
- (+) children do increasingly consider intentions and motives
- (-) underestimated children
- < 4 children do think about morality
- young children considers intentions, but Piaget’s tests were too verbal and couldn’t reflect the child’s ability
Criticisms on Kohlberg’s Moral Development Theory
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gender: original study had all male participants
- women may have a larger principle of care: responsibility towards caring for each other
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assessment of moral reasoning
- was very hypothetical
- may see less cultural differences with more concrete stories
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culture
- [sim] sequence of stages is the same across culture
- [diff] different rates and end stages of where adults end up
- rural communities: adults end stage is stage 1-2
- [diff] different moral principles in different cultures
- ethics of autonomy: rights, equality, freedom
- ethics of community: duty, status
- ethics of divinity: purity, sanctity
Prosocial
- prosocial behaviour: actions that go to help 1+ people, other than yourself
- helping, sharing, cooperating, donating, fundraising
Antisocial Behaviour
- antisocial behaviour: actions that intentionally hurt people, or is harmful towards society / social order
- instrumental aggression: motivated by a desire to obtain goal
- reactive aggression: in response to others’ behaviour
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physical aggression: intent to physical harm
- high in early childhood → decreases in later childhood)
- verbal aggression: threat, name-calling, yelling
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relational aggression: directed towards damaging reputation / relationships
- increases across childhood, more for girls)
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cheating: very common (80-90% in high school)
- lower in childhood → rapidly increases in adolescence
- due to pressure for performance, social comparison, not enough time to study, lack of interest, teacher perceived as unfair or uncaring
- Zhou et al (2018): children (age 5) are more likely to cheat after overhearing a classmate is smart
Why do children engage in prosocial behaviour
- modelling / social learning
- family values (that model and value prosocial behaviour)
- parenting style / discipline (authoritative, supportive)
- opportunities to help (not forcing, but giving opportunity)
- life circumstances (trauma increases prosocialness)
Influences on prosocial and antisocial behaviour
- [1] developmental
- age: increases with development
- individual continuity: more prosocial as a child → more prosocial as an adult
- Rochat et al: dictator game in 3 and 5 year olds
- developmental trend: 5 year olds share more than 3 year olds
- [2] individual
- nature: has some genetic component
- probably linked to personality traits
- identical twins are more similar in prosocialness
- [3] culture
- Rochat et al: [diff] collectivist cultures put more emphasis on maintaining social connections → leads to more sharing in children
Parent Gender and Parenting
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fathers:
- more likely to engage in physical play
- more likely to be permissive / authoritarian
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mothers:
- more likely to spend time with child, engage in caretaking activities
- more likely to be authoritative
- but regardless of gender, parenting quality relates to outcomes (gender differences don’t matter that much)
Siblings
- the most long-lasting relationship you will have
- very unique relationship
- marked by both warmth and conflict
- non-voluntary
- neither vertical or horizontal power structure
- variety in relationships
- same v mixed sex:
- same: increase in closeness throughout early adolescence
- mixed: dip in closeness in early adolescence
- difference in age gaps:
- increase in conflict in late childhood
- declines throughout adolescence
- when the decline occurs varies for first v second borns
- same v mixed sex: