PSY 118 CH9

Question 1

attraction

Answer 1

the initial desire to form a relationship.

Question 2

initial encounters (familiarity)

Answer 2

-frequent exposure, increases positive feelings

Question 3

initial encounters; proximity

Answer 3

-same place, same time

Question 4

matching hypothesis;

Answer 4

do we marry people at the same attractiveness level?
-interest, attitudes, education, religion, social economic status, intelligence (qualities).

Question 5

MEN FIND ATTRACTIVE

Answer 5

-NEO-NATE FACE
-big eyes, small nose, cheek bones, full lips
-expressive (large smile, high set eyebrows)
-grooming / stylish
-emphasis on thin-ness

Question 6

what is the parental investment history?

Answer 6

-david buss (1988)
-mating depends on time, energy, and risk
-for men; phyiscal attratvinvess= ferity
-for women; supply resources

Question 7

women find attractive

Answer 7

-neo-nate, or mature manly features (square jaw, broad forehead)

Question 8

2 factors affect viability of relationship.
-Reciprocal liking

Answer 8

-refers to liking those who show that they like you.

Question 9

2 factors affect viability of relationship
Similarity

Answer 9

-we are drawn to those with similar qualities.

Question 10

attachment theory
-attachment styles; anxious - ambiratent

Answer 10

-20% (clingy, jealous, dependent)
children; Children with insecure-anxious attachment often cling to their caregiver and become extremely distressed upon separation.
adult; Adults with insecure-anxious attachment may have a heightened need for closeness and reassurance in relationships

Question 11

attachment theory
-attachment styles; avoidant 25%

Answer 11

-aloof, distant, isolated, independent)
–children; They may prioritize independence and self-reliance, often feeling uncomfortable with emotional intimacy and avoiding situations that involve vulnerability.
-adult; Children with insecure-avoidant attachment may avoid or ignore their caregiver, showing little distress upon separation.

Question 12

attachment theory
-attachment styles; secure 55%

Answer 12

-healthy, happy, interdepend
-; Children with secure attachment tend to feel confident in exploring their environment because they know they have a secure base (their caregiver) to return to if needed.
adult; They are generally able to form secure and satisfying relationships, experiencing mutual trust, respect, and support

Question 13

Romantic theory;

Answer 13

-sternbergs triangular theory of love
-imtimanly passion (sex), commitent

Question 14

Type of love; companionate love

Answer 14

-commitment, intimacy
-lacking passion

Question 15

types of love; consummate love

Answer 15

commitment, intimacy, passion

Question 16

Types of love; empty love

Answer 16

-just commitment
-lacking intimancy and passion
-you dont like each other, more like disvorced home

Question 17

Types of love; Fatous love

Answer 17

-commitment
-passion
-lacking intimancy
-couples that get married only been dating for 3wks.

Question 18

Types of love; infatuation

Answer 18

-just passion
-lacking commitment, intimacy
-just sex, dont know each other

Question 19

Types of love; liking

Answer 19

-intimacy
-friendzone

Question 20

Types of love; romantic love

Answer 20

-intimacy
-passion
-lacking commitment
-“young relationships, high school relationships”

Question 21

what causes loneliness

Answer 21

-early experiences (getting rejected, parenting style)
-genetics
-low self esteem
-social trends? idk

Question 22

sexual orienaton

Answer 22

-a persons preference for emotional and sexual relationships with individuals of same gender (homosexual), other gender (heterosexual) , or ethier gender (bi-sexual).

Question 23

physical traits

Answer 23

• individuals tend to pair up with partners who are similar in physical appearance.
  -For example, someone who is considered highly attractive may be more likely to pair with another person who is also considered highly attractive

Question 24

kinsey continuum

Answer 24

-The Kinsey Continuum is a way of understanding sexuality that says it’s not just about being straight or gay, but it’s more like a scale with many different levels.

Question 25

heterosexium

Answer 25

the assumption that all individuals and relationships are heterosexual.

Question 26

gender differences; women

Answer 26

-women emotionally based (face to face)
-ex; going out to get a cup of coffee for 3 hours and just talking

Question 27

gender differences; males

Answer 27

-men-activity based (side to side)
-going to a basketball game and only talking about the basket ball game instead of the emotional problem

Question 28

5 friendship standards; symmetrical reciproacity;

Answer 28

-mutual loyality and trust.
ex; friend gives you a $1 FOR A DRINK AND YOU PAY THEM BACK…U SCRATCH MY BACK I SCRATCH URS

Question 29

5 friendship standards; similarties

Answer 29

-shared activites
-you both like going to the gym

Question 30

5 friendship standards; instrumental aid

Answer 30

-info, advice, car ride
-ex; if they see this job offering they will tell you about it
-help you move in future

Question 31

5 friendship standards; enjoyment

Answer 31

-friends are sources of fun

Question 32

5 friendship standards; communication

Answer 32

-can self dis-close
revealing personal information, thoughts, feelings, or experiences to another person. It involves voluntarily sharing aspects of oneself that may not be readily apparent to others.

Question 33

3 steps of repairment after conflict; 3

Answer 33

-acknowledgement; offended peron accepts the apolog

Question 34

3 steps of repairment after conflict; 2

Answer 34

-remedy; the offender takes responsibility
and offers an apology

Question 35

3 steps of repairment after conflict; 1

Answer 35

-1. reporoach; offended party conforts the offender and asks for explaination.

Question 36

kinsey continum

Answer 36

-alot of people are heterosexual (0,1)
-alot of (6) are homosexual
-some of (2,3,4) ambisexua/ bisexual..between in the middle
-very few women are (0,1).