Personal Factors Influencing the Communicating Individual Flashcards
self-concept
stable set of perception of self
self-identity
the social positions you occupy; who you are in relation to other people; roles and positions in life
i.e. - daughter, student, friend, white, etc.
self-image
refers to one’s sense of one’s qualities, skills, attributions, and chacteristics
self-esteem
emotionally how you feel about yourself, how you rank yourself, positive and negative
Looking Glass Self Theory
through interactions with people we get our self concept; people act as those people are looking at us through glass
3 stages: (1) we imagine how actions appear to other people, (2) imagine how other people are judging these actions, (3) we make a self judgment based on the presumed judgment of others
-impact during early life (how your parents see you, ect) but is still open to modification as you grow
-our perceptions can be wrong, what you believe other people believe is more important that what they are actually thinking in defining ourself
-as we grow it takes a good deal of contradictory evidence to change our self concept
Interpersonal Imperative
foundation need of humans to socialize and communicate with other human beings; greatly seen when social interaction is cut off
3 basic needs
common among all members of the human race - need for inclusion, control, and affection
inclusion
healthy range - over-social = too mch need to be included, join everything; under-social = don’t want to belong to anything
control
over situations, over people
autocrats = too much need for control
abdicrats = too little of a control need, need someone to tell them what to do
affection
love , tenderness, kindness; give and get
too much = over-personal
too little = under-persona
belief
one’s personal position as to whether something is true or not; the more central or important a belief is for us, the greater the effect on us will be if that belief is changed
primitive, 100% consensus belief
derives from one’s own personal experience; everyone believes in it
primitive, 0% consensus belief
there are many difference of opinion in regard to this belief but you believe it regardless of what others believe
-political, religious, and philosophical beliefs fall into this category
authority beliefs
we believe because an authority tells us
derived authority beliefs
you believe something becuase of what an authority says, even thougoh the individual is not an expert or authority in the matter at hand, but i some other realm