peers and friendships Flashcards
how does peer sociability develop
in first 6m babies babble and smile
1-2yrs have mutual imitation, shared games but with minimum verbal interaction
2+yrs language initiates reciprocal play and show positive engagement with other individual
describe Parten 1932 the role of play
begin play as non social activity
begin parallel play - play seperately but mimic eachother
leads to -
associative play - uncoord activity but play directly with others
or
coop play - orient towards common goal and interested/sychronise with other person
define solitary play
most frequent in 3-4 year olds
less social and more on own
what is solitary play thought to be linked to
social anxiousness and immaturity
more common in young children and appears to decline with age
BUT
can be constructive and often only concerning if involves wondering or repetition
define wandering and repetition
hovering around peers
not interaction
often related to high social anxiety/fear
describe the importance of school in peer sociability
important for peer interaction
develop emotional and social skills
diverseness of peers allows for the development of multiple viewpoints and better interpretation of emotions/intention via dialogue
desscribe dodge coie and lynam 2006 and middle childhood peer sociability
boys more physical play and aggression
generally more rough and tumble play - thought to be assessing the strength of another to determine dominance via a safe context
How can school friendships influence children’s behaviours
when made in school they seem to be more salient to the child
will take more perspectives and be kinder/more helpful
ie offer to help rather than help no matter what
define direct parental factors on the influence of peer sociability
in childhod, parents help to establish peer relations by arraging play activities, encouraging good hosting skills, and encouraging children to think of others
in adolescence, parents are more focused on fixing peer relations than helping form
define indirect parental factors on the influence of peer sociability
via child rearing practiced ie inductive discipline (pos rienforcement, explaining rules), act as foundation for competence of others
physical punishment tends to lead to poor social skills
attachment to parents are important - secure more likely to have responsive harmonious attachments when older
how can mixing with children of the same age be beneficial
challenge eachother
promote cog, social and moral development
how can mixing with older children be beneficial
older peers model and encourage advanced skills
modify behaviour to fit less advanced child
why might mixing with older children not be as good
older child isnt challenged - gets bored, prefer same age
may be too advanced for child
how does indias culture influence peer relations
roopnarine et al 1994
play in large groups
imitative behaviours and physical contact
ie bhatto bhatto involves what you buy on the trip to market
how does china’s culture influence peer relations
chen et al 2006
moor likely to include quieter and reserved children in play
shyness seen as positive and reflects this attitude
how does korea’s culture influence peer relations
forver kim and lee 1995
korean-american parents value task persistence
encourage parallel unoccupied play
caucasian american parents value make believe and involving sociodramatic play
what are friendships
children form specific reciprocal relationships with certain children over others - prefer play with them
haves 2009 - selective familiar peers have more complex interactions and express more positive emotions
describe asher and parker 1996 importance of friendships
have faster development for social competence ego support emotional security in novel situations intimate and affectionate guiding and assisting reliable alliance companionship