Parenting Flashcards
TEAM parenting - its four main elements? togetherness, encouragement, autonomy and minimal interference.
togetherness
encouragement
autonomy
minimal interference.
What is the meaning of problem in kids interactions?
It means that kids don’t have skills to handle current level of stress
The parent has to be able to handle it, though.
Ms to finish with “I forgive you” with gesture of friendship.
How many words can kids absorb ~ on their age?
One per year of age
You can prep your sentence with general introduction that they can’t fight yet
Collaborative way of solving family problems:
Empathy: sit down with your child and gather information to find out what is getting in his or her way of meeting an expectation.
Define adult concerns: Next, you will explain — calmly and kindly — your concern about the unmet expectation.
Invitation: Finally, you invite your child to collaborate on a solution that is realistic and satisfactory to everyone. That means both of you can do what you’re agreeing to do, and the solution has addressed the concerns identified in steps 1 and 2.