Module 8 - Family and Peer Relationships Flashcards
One of the most important contexts in which children develop is
The relational context
Dr. Diana Baumrind’s original three distinct parenting styles:
authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive.
Maccoby and Martin (1983) expanded her work into the 4 parenting styles, adding in rejecting-neglecting
Authoritative parenting
High in both responsiveness and high in behavioural control.
-Parents typically set limits and enforce rules, but also explain their reasoning behind it. They both love and limit their children.
-Parents respect children and listen receptively to their requests and questions.
-Authoritative parents commonly balance behavioural control and responsiveness by allowing children to make choices within the parents’ standards. For example, do you want carrots or broccoli for the supper vegetable tonight?
Autoritarian Parenting
Authoritarian parents are high in behavioural control, but low in responsiveness.
Parents have absolute control over their children and value unquestioned obedience.
Parents try to control children’s behaviour and attitudes.
“Bad” behaviour is punished, while affection and praise are rarely given.
This type of parenting is very militarian, where parental word is law. For example, rather than explain their decision-making, parents might respond with “because I said so!”
Rejecting-Neglecting Parenting
Rejecting/neglecting parents are low in behavioural control and low in responsiveness.
-Parents are disengaged – they have very little involvement in the child’s life.
-Parents are usually more concerned about their own problems.
For example, parents rarely know what the child is up to or where they are, and give them little guidance.
Permissive Parenting
Permissive parents are high in responsiveness, but low in behavioural control.
Parents have lax discipline – there might be rules but they are rarely enforced and parents rarely give punishments or consequences.
There are few demands placed on children, and children are generally considered to be “the boss”. The relationship is very indulgent.
Parents generally have a “kids will be kids” attitude, and may view their role as more of a friend than a parent.
What are the effects of Permissive parenting on child development?
Children:
Impulsive, low self-control
Higher externalizing problems (e.g., aggression, rule breaking)
Adolescents:
More school misconduct
Higher rates of drug and alcohol use
What are the effects of Authoritative parenting on child development?
Children:
Higher adaptive skills
More competent, popular with peers
Less antisocial behaviour
Adolescents:
High social and academic competence
Self-reliant
Adaptive coping skills
What are the effects of Authoritarian parenting on child development?
Children:
Lower in social and academic competence
Less happy, lower self-confidence
Boys tend to be more impacted than girls
Adolescents:
More ineffective coping strategies
Higher rates of delinquency, depression, aggression, and alcohol use
the total fertility rate in Canada is ?
~1.6
This rate refers to the number of children that a woman is likely to have over the course of reproductive years
What are the effects of Rejecting-Neglecting parenting on child development?
Children:
-Disturbed attachment in relationships
-Difficulties with peer relationships
Adolescents:
-More antisocial behaviour, internalizing problems, substance abuse, risky sexual behaviour
-Lower academic achievement
What does replacement level of fertility mean?
each couple had approximately two children and could essentially replace themselves in terms of population growth. This means that Canada is increasingly reliant on immigration for population growth.
Risks associated with advanced maternal age include:
Genetic abnormalities
Risk of miscarriage
Birth complications:
What maternal age is “best” for child development?
Canadian research finds that women <19 years-old and those who are >30 years-old are at the greatest risk for childbirth complications, particularly those who are >44 years-old
What is considered advanced maternal age?
age 35 years or older, their pregnancy is riskier because their bodies are less physiologically capable of the rigours of pregnancy
Example of Age related pregnancy risk of birth complications
Birth complications like breech position, emergency Cesarean, and preterm also increase significantly with age (Jolly et al., 2000).
Example of Age related pregnancy risk of miscarriage
Risks of spontaneous miscarriage also increase with age. For example, miscarriage rates are estimated to be 9% among 22 year-olds, 18% among 30 year-olds, and 40% among 40 year-olds (Nybo Andersen et al., 2000).
Example of Age related pregnancy Genetic Abnormalities
The likelihood of having a baby with Down syndrome is :
1/1340 for a 25 year-old mother,
1/939 for a 30 year-old mother, and
1/35 for a 45 year-old mother
How is the frequency of family dinners correlated with mental health?
That it is negatively correlated with indicators of poor mental health, and also positive correlated with indicators of positive mental health. The researchers found that this pattern was consistent across age, gender, and socioeconomic status.
Family dinners benefit well-being because they serve to foster open family communication and connectedness
Which variable has been found to be an important factor in the adjustment of children of lesbian and gay parents?
The closeness of the parent‒child relationship
What can be considered limitations of the Family Dinners study ?
- It is correlational, so the reverse interpretation could be true (e.g., youth with more positive mental health are more likely to communicate with their families)
-Self-report data were obtained from children only
-Third-variable problem - there may be another variable that accounts for both family communication and child well-being (e.g., parenting style)
Lone parent families
Lone parent families have approximately doubled since 1961
4 out of 5 lone parent families are female
Divorce
Divorce is stressful for most children in the short-term.
In the long-term, longitudinal research indicates that children of divorce are less well-adjusted across social, emotional, and behavioural domains.
Divorce moderators
impact the strength of the relationship between divorce and negative outcomes for children, at both the child and parental levels.
For example, when parents avoid making children feel caught in the middle, maintain high-quality relationships with both parents (especially the non-custodial parent), and use positive, cooperative, and respectful parenting strategies, the negative impacts of divorce are reduced.
Divorce confounds
Marital conflict
This leads to the question of whether it is better to stay in a conflictual, married relationship, or a non-conflictual divorced relationship.
While this is challenging to study, the research suggests that the parental relationships with the least amount of conflict are best for children’s development.
LGBTQ+
Approx 1% of all Canadian couples are same-sex
1/3 of these couples are in married relationships.
Approx. 12% of Canadian same-sex couples have children, compared to approximately half of mixed-sex couples
Research consistently shows that children raised by LGBTQ+ parents have similar adjustment levels as children raised by opposite-sex parents
Total fertility rate in Canada
is ~1.6. This rate refers to the number of children that a woman is likely to have over the course of reproductive years, based on age-specific fertility rates.
replacement level of fertility
meaning each couple had approximately two children and could essentially replace themselves in terms of population growth
1971 was the last year that Canada reached this level
relationship quality
Research consistently indicates that it is relationship quality (not quantity or structure) that is the biggest predictor of children’s outcomes.
High quality family relationships have open communication, supportiveness, and trust.
Piaget function of relationships
Piaget posited that peers are crucial for learning because peers are typically close in age, they are more equal in status than a parent-child relationship and therefore more likely to have disagreements.
Piaget believed that disagreements within friendships fostered learning and cognitive development.
Vgotsky function of relationships
Vygotsky emphasized learning through collaboration within friendships.
Ex: friends can help each other learn through the zone of proximal development. Through collaboration, friends can accomplish a task larger than either could do on their own
Sullivan function of relationships
In peer relationships, Sullivan argued that we have a chance to practice intimacy that is used in relationships later in life.
Parten (1932) 6 stages of play
First three stages of play (unoccupied, solitary, and onlooker) do not involve others. Initially, children explore and play on their own.
Second three stages of play involve social play, which starts to develop around 12 months of age
Second three stages of play (Social play)
Parallel play (begins ~12m)
Associative play (begins ~15-18m)
Cooperative play (begins ~24m+)
Parallel play
Parallel play (begins ~12m): children tend to play next to each other, but not together.
For example, children may drive toy cars next to each other.
Associative play
Associative play (begins ~15-18m): children first start to interact and explore toys together.
For example, they may show each other blocks but do not engage in very much collaboration.
Cooperative play
Cooperative play (begins ~24m+): children begin to develop goals or rules for their play.
Play becomes much more complex and includes cooperation, conflict, taking turns, and negotiation. For example, children may play a board game with rules, or cooperate in pretend-playing a tea party.
What are the benefits of play?
children learn…
academic skills like math, science, reading, language, and literacy.
social skills like effective communication, conflict resolution, problem solving and cooperation.
about themselves – they get to know their personalities including their likes and dislikes, strengths and interests.
How do adults play a role in early peer interactions?
Parents might be in the role of playmate, social director, coach, or mediator
Developmental changes we see in peer relationships - Early childhood
(3-7 years old)
Primary Concerns: Play, entertainment
Main processes and purposes of communication: coordinating play, conflict resolution
Emotional development: Learning to manage emotional arousal
Developmental changes we see in peer relationships - Middle childhood
(8-12 years old)
Primary Concerns: Inclusion, present oneself positively to peers
Main processes and purposes of communication: coordinating activities, gossiping about others
Emotional development: acquiring rules for displaying emotions, managing rejection
Developmental changes we see in peer relationships - Adolescence
(13-17 years old)
Primary Concerns: self exploration, identity development, sexual development
Main processes and purposes of communication: shared values and interests, self disclosures, problem solving
Emotional development: implications of emotions for relationships
3 main factors that contribute to friendship formation
1) homophily
2) social-emotional skills
3) role of adults
homophily
is the tendency to form relationships with similar others.
Homophily consists of both selection and socialization effects. That is, we select friends who are similar to us in some way, and over time, we become more similar to our friends.
social-emotional skills (ESP)
Include things like emotional expression, mutual support, and conflict resolution.
Boys and girls tend to rely on different social-emotional skills in their friendships, and tend to communicate differently with their friends
role of adults
Parents socialize their children, instill values, norms, skills, and cultural practices that help children to develop friendships. Parents do this through:
Direct instruction
Indirectly modelling attitudes and behaviours
Provide and control social opportunities
Role of attachment and internal working model
Teachers and other socializing adults (e.g., coaches) also support the development of children’s peer relationships through:
Seating charts and group learning
Teaching SEL skills
Indirect modelling
Social emotional skills - girls
Social-emotional skills generally play a stronger role
Build intimacy through self-disclosure
More “supportive”
Spend more time together using electronic communication
Social emotional skills - boys
Build intimacy through shared activities and healthy competition
Use more humour in their communication
Spend more time together in-person
Friendships are unique because they typically involve
equal status.
This equality provides many developmental opportunities, including:
Companionship, figuring out likes and dislikes
Social scaffolding, learning from one another
Positive emotional experiences, emotional support
Self-exploration, trying new ideas without authority
Benefits of friendships
Research consistently demonstrates that high-quality friendships have many benefits for children’s development, including social, emotional, and physical health into adulthood
HEALTHY ROMANTIC RELATIONSHIPS - Youth with high-quality friendships develop better relationship skills in general, and in turn go on to develop healthier romantic relationships.
LESS LONELY - having a high-quality friendship helps buffer the effects of feeling lonely, which is associated with future mental and physical health problems.
Risks of friendships (CCD)
CONFLICT is more common within friendships, simply because you interact more with your friends than with non-friends. Conflict is a particularly common component of friendships for younger children.
CO-RUMINATION occurs when friends talk about their problems over and over together and focus on negative feelings and one way that feelings of depression and anxiety can spread among friends.
DEVIANCY TRAINING is a social learning process by which youth learn and reinforce deviant behaviours within their friendships