Middle Childhood: Peers Flashcards
different criteria for choosing their friends:
0-7 years of age
common interests and getting along well
different criteria for choosing their friends:
8-11 years of age
desirable psychological characteristics
-trust, kindness, honesty
different criteria for choosing their friends:
11+ years of age
social attributes such as loyalty and intimacy
- conversations about personal issues
- common among adolescent girls
co-rumination
small group of friends similar in age, sex, and race
cliques (2-4 individuals)
a group of cliques that have similar attitudes and values
crowd
- largely based on having good social skills and being prosocial.
- being pleasant, friendly, not obnoxious, sharing, cooperation, and being non-disruptive
how to be popular
what else also play a major role in being popular
cultural expectations
- Children who are liked by many classmates
- Can be due to being actively prosocial or respected by others
popular
- Children who are disliked by many classmates
- Are generally overly aggressive, which others dislike, or overly shy and withdrawn
rejected
Children who are intensely liked or disliked by classmates
controversial
Children who are liked or disliked at a lower intensity than controversial children
average
Children who are ignored; not liked or disliked
neglected
watching new programs can teach children
new concepts and skills
Watching television can also teach children
violent behaviors and antisocial concepts
-if someone frustrates you, it is OK to hit them