Love Actually - Anthropological Perspective (Week 4) Flashcards
Anthropology
A social science that studies human culture and its development
Culture
-Broad term that encompasses social behavior norms, beliefs, and laws that are passed from generation to generation
-“The way of life, especially the general customs and beliefs, of a particular group of people at a particular time”- Cambridge Dictionary
Immaterial Culture
-Abstract, intangible elements of culture
-Politics, myths, literature etc
Material Culture
-Solid, tangible elements of culture
-Architecture, cuisine, art, etc
Cultural Norms
Expected behavior for individuals within a society
Cultural impacts
Human beings, cultural systems, social systems, physical systems, biological systems, psychological systems all impacts each other reciprocally
Kama Sutra
-Its original goal is to guide in terms of love and relationships
-Steps on how to flirt and acquire a lover, describes roles in marriages, and who to avoid
-Often misunderstood as a book about sex positions
Caritas Synthesis
-Emphasizes and reflects the relationship and love between humans and God
-A blend of passionate and universal love (eros and agape)
-Translates to “charity” or “lovingkindness”
Courtly Love
-Caritas synthesis and attributed to humans
-Sexual love between men and women is ideal
-Love is elevating for men and women
-Love involves courting rituals but doesn’t result in marriage
-People did not marry for love
-Love has ethical and aesthetic rules
-Establish a holy unity between men and women
Romantic Love
-Equality of the sexes
-starts to consider the lover’s qualities
-“God is love” transforms to “love is God”
-Considered a combination of lust and affection (sexual love)
-The idea of marrying for love
The Victorian Era
-Industrial revolution results in a money focus society
-Women were devalued
-Their sexual autonomy were removed and they’re forced into the role of sexual objects and motherhood
-Discussing about sexuality,especially female sexuality became taboo
Love Currently
-Birth control gave women more control of their sexual antonomy as they explore their sexuality
-Decline in sexual differences between men and women
-Acceptance of queer identiy and subcultures
-Proliferation of pornography, cohabitation, premarital and nonmarital sex
Arranged Marriages
-Spouses chosen by parents or matchmakers
-More than 53% of marriages
Forced Arranged Marriages
No control over marriage
Consensual Arranged Marriage
Individual can refuse to marry
Cons of Arranged Marriages
-High sexual and physical abuse rates
-Less financial independence for poor women
-Upper class women are married later
Benefits of Arranged Marriages
-Low divorce rates
-Prior approval of family and friends
-Less room for overthinking
-Lower expectations
Layla, Majnun, and the divine
-Original romeo and juliet
-Majnun and Layla, fall in love
-Majnun is rejected by Layla’s father
-Majnun wonders the desert and prays to Allah to make his love greater
-Layla is married off
-Layla preserve her chastity while Majnun rejects any physical contact with her all for the sake of a “perfect love”
Interpretations of Layla, Majnun, and the divine
-Eric Clapton made a song “Layla”
-Interpreted as a Sufi where lovers seek ultimate union and annihilation in the Truth
-Majnun’s harsh life in the desert has been compared to Muslim mystic who reject earthly pleasures and affinities
Love in Modern Japan
-Decrease in the desire for relationships and sex especially in young adults
-Dramatic decline of arranged marriages
-Idol industry and obsessive fans who fear real women projecting their fantasies on to young celebrities
Herbivore Men
Men who are shy, passive, and show no interest in sex and romance out of a fear of rejection
Hikikomori
Japanese psychopathological and sociological phenomenon where people seek extreme isolation and confinement
Love in Modern China
-Unmarried women over the age of thirty were referred to as “leftover” women
-Women’s rights are declining in China
-There are market places where women would list their qualities so that a man can choose them
Henry VIII
-Married to Catharine who couldn’t produce him a male successor
-Attracted to Anne Boleyn but couldn’t divorce Catherine because of the Roman Catholic Church
-Made himself the head of the church and married Anne Boleyn
-Established the Anglican Church