Loss and Grief Flashcards
actual loss
any loss of a person or object that can no longer be felt, heard, or experienced by the individual
5 types of losses
- loss of external objects
- loss of known environment
- loss of significant other
- loss of aspect of self
- loss of life
perceived loss
- loss that is defined uniquely by the grieving individual (ex. loss of confidence)
- easily overlooked and misunderstood
malnutrition loss
- developmental change that is normally expected
- part of normal life transitions
situational loss
- sudden, unpredictable event
- may involve several losses
Kubler-Ross stages of grief
Denial: not real
Anger: revisiting loss or striking out
Bargaining; dealing in a way the loss can be prevented
Depression: realizing the full impact of the loss
Acceptance: starting to look toward the future
Bowlby’s phases of mourning
Numbness; initial shock
Yearning and Searching: searching for objects of the loss
Disorganization: feeling of hopelessness of the future
Reorganization: grief is receding
Worden’s tasks of mourning
- to accept the reality of the loss
- to work through the pain and grief
- to adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing
- to find an enduring connection with the deceased whole embarking on a new life
types of grief
Normal: sad, anger, relief, denial, etc
Anticipatory: may be thinking about end of life care decisions, knowing what’s coming
Chronic: taking a long time
Delayed: may have hard time working through the pain
Exaggerated: may resort to self-destructive behaviours
Masked: may resort to behaviours not in their regular functioning
Disenfranchised: don’t feel able to open up and talk about their feelings or grief