Ishut Chapters 10-11 Flashcards
What’s the din for someone who is “ba al arusato be’beyt chamav”?
Mardut
Ishut 10:1
How does Rambam define kenisah le’chuppa?
3 parts
- Brings her into his house
- Yichud
- Yafrishena lo (i.e. from now on they will live together as man and wife)
Ishut 10:1
What’s an alternative way of doing nissuin (apart from “chuppa”)?
Biah leshem nissuin
Ishut 10:1
What’s her status after chupa but before biah?
Nesuah
Ishut 10:2
What’s her status if she is not re’uyah le’be’ilah at the chuppa (e.g. niddah)?
Arusah
Ishut 10:2
When is birchat chatanim said, according to the Rambam?
In the house of the chatan, before the nissuin
Ishut 10:3
What are the 6 brachot?
- She’hakol bara lichvodo
- Yotzer ha’adam
- Asher yatzar et ha’adam
- Soss tassis
- Sameach tesamach
- Asher bara
Ishut 10:3
How does the 6 brachot become 7?
He arranges it all over a cup of wine
Ishut 10:4
How does 7 become 8 brachot?
Some places have the minhag to make a bracha on a hadass (after the wine)
Ishut 10:4
Is the chatan included in the 10 people for birchat chatanim?
Yes
Ishut 10:5
If an arusah has had the birchat chatanim (but no yichud) what’s her status?
Arusah
Ishut 10:6
If a woman has had the chupa but no birchat chatanim, what’s her status?
Nesuah
Ishut 10:6
Can one say the birchat chatanim after the wedding?
Yes, even after many days
Ishut 10:6
Can one do nissuin and birchat chatanim for a niddah?
Should wait until she’s purified
Ishut 10:6
When should the ketubah be written?
Before the chuppa
Ishut 10:7
Who pays the scribe for the ketubah?
The chatan
Ishut 10:7
What’s the reason for the ketubah?
Takanat chachamim, so that she should not be easy in his eyes to remove
Ishut 10:7
How much is the ketubah?
3 parts
- Betulah: no less than 200 dinnar
- Be’ulah: no less than 100 dinnar
- He can add even a kikar zahav
Ishut 10:7
Define the dinnar coin (for the ketubah)
7/8 copper and 1/8 silver
Ishut 10:8
What’s another name for a dinnar?
Zuz
Ishut 10:8
How many barleycorns in a dinnar?
96 barleycorns
Ishut 10:8
If he did not write a ketubah for his wife it is ____ _____
Be’ilat znut
Ishut 10:9
What workarounds are possible if he did not write for her the ketubah?
Mention two ideas
- Eidim + kinyan
- Gives her metaltelin with value of ketutbah
Ishut 10:9
What happens if he didn’t write a ketubah, or if she lost it? Does he need to write a new one?
He must write the ikkar ketubah again; cannot keep his wife even “sha’ah achat” without it
Ishut 10:10
If she sells her ketubah to someone else, is the husband allowed to keep her?
Yes! B/c he still has to pay her the ketubah if he divorces her
Ishut 10:10
If he wrote the ketubah, but no chuppa yet, what’s her status?
Arusah
Ishut 10:11
In case of divorce or he dies during eirusin, does she get the ketubah?
- If he wrote it - she gets ikkar, no tosefet
- If he didn’t write - she gets nothing
Ishut 10:11