Intimacy Flashcards
caution:
some + behaviors could be interpreted - under different circumstances
nonverbal signals of love (2001 study)
- 60 dating couples
- discussions: first date, plan for tomorrow, area of conflict, etc.
- self reports of love correlated with:
- more affirmative head nods, Duchenne smiles, forward lean, and hand gestures
nonverbal behavior and relational states (1979) study
- 20 distressed and nondistressed married couples
- conflict resolution task
- then, half were instructed to act happy and content (fake good) and half to act unhappy and distressed (fake bad)
- verbal (e.g. compromise, problem description, agreement, approval, excuse, criticize) and nonverbal (e.g. attention, positive physical, no response, laugh) behaviors were recorded.
nonverbal behavior and relational states (1979) results
- both distressed and non altered behavior in response to the instructions to fake good and fake bad
- no differences in couples’ nonverbal behaviors (pos. or neg.) in the fake good or fake bad conditions
- couples can fake happiness or distress verbally, but their nonverbal behaviors reveal the true state of their relationship.
Gaze and intimacy
- couples who score high on romantic love scales exhibit a lot of mutual gaze (rubin)
- need for affiliation in positively correlated with mutual gaze (Exline)
- better adjusted married couples exhibit more mutual gaze than distressed couples (Noller)
Gaze and initial attractiveness (2008)
*d2l chart
-heterosexual participants look at photos of men and women
-remote eye tracking recording system
-all participants initially attracted to face of opposite sex models (especially women)
….then:
-women shift attention to legs, men to the chest
speech rate and intimacy
- fewer and shorter pauses
- faster speech rate
- matching partners vocal cues
pitch and romantic relationships (faney)
- method: place call to a close same sex friend or romantic partner
- pose two questions: how are you? what are you doing?
- men raised pitch when talking to romantic partner vs. friend
- women lowered pitch.
pitch and target attractiveness (2010)
- make phone calls to attractive and unattractive targets
- showed them photos in advance of making the calls
- no answer, so callers left a message on their voice mail
- male and female spoke in lower pitch when talking to attractive targets
- results on d2l
gesture and intimacy
- in positive, friendly interactions, people exhibit more object focused gestures and fewer body focused gestures (freedman)
- also use more illustrators when interacting with friendly others
posture and intimacy
- more forward lean
- direct shoulder/body orientation
- greater postural mimicry
smiles and intimacy
- not a very reliable sign of intimacy and involvement
- some people smile more in negative situations than in positive ones (e.g. phony smiles)
romantic display rules (2012)
- male subjects watched 3 videos
- horror film, infants, and a neutral film
- thought they were being observed by an attractive or unattractive female research assistant
- “attractive observer”=frowned less during horror film
- “attractive observer”=smiled more while watching infant film
- impression management via facial expression
space and intimacy
- intimate 0-18”
- coupled with body (direct) orientation
touch and intimacy
- more touch (esp. middle stages of close relationship)
- greater body accessibility