How to Benefit from Cheerfulness Flashcards
What is cheerfulness?
Cheerfulness is a bright, pleasant quality that makes you feel positive and happy.
What is overhearing?
Overhearing means to hear what other people are saying without intending to and without their knowledge.
What does it mean to be compassionate?
Compassionate is a feeling or showing sympathy and sadness for the suffering or bad luck of others, and wanting to help them.
What does it mean to be overindulgent?
Overindulgent is allowing to have more of something enjoyable than is not good for them.
The work should create value that what? (verb)
The actual value should benefit people. Even so, the service may be unobvious. However, in some challenging frames, such as studying ancient history, there is a service, such as improving and extending the culture.
Emotions create the readiness to act. For example, fear calls for escaping, and anger calls for teaching a lesson. Joy is a readiness to give what?
Joy is a readiness to give the best of yourself. Having the sense to give yourself cheerfully to other people produces the energy to actually make love.
Which ideal prioritises people over projects?
It is caring. Bringing benefits all around motivates us to become better. Shaping the personality according to caring will benefit everyone around all the time. Such a person is more disposed to value other people in themselves rather than just using them as instruments. It appears as a willingness to make small sacrifices.
People tend to be reciprocal. What does it mean?
The emotional state is often reflected. The emotions we give to other people are usually mirrored to us. Being a cheerful giver pays off quickly. Moreover, being cheerful is contagious.
There are outer and inner cheerfulness. What does it mean?
Cheerfulness is an ordinary setting for love and being loved. It is also true on the inside. We suppose to love others as we love ourselves. Being good to others but bad for yourself is unsustainable in the long run. However, some people are cheerful on the outer side, but they are sincerely, deeply unhappy inside, lead by the “Fake it till you make it” principle.
What is the origin of inner unhappiness?
The origin of inner unhappiness is critique. There is no reason for sorrow about our failures: strategies fail, but people do not. We know ourselves much more than other people. The past is understandable, and the future is shapable!
What are the benefits of the “Life is a game!” point of view?
The playful and engaged approach gives the most practice. The more we have an imaginative, playful and flexible way of responding to what shows up, the easier it is to experience it and move on. We can learn better and better with practice.
Is loving ourself and being compassionate toward ourselves is overindulgent?
No! Everyone should love and care about themselves. People tend to fear about overindulgence tho. Some people very critique themselves; however, it does not benefit them. Moreover, threatening anyone as the double down does not work at all. On the contrary, everyone should build a rapport with the inner child, and treat and understand him. Loving breath greeting, total attention, warm caring.
