Grief Notes 2 Flashcards
Any grief extending over a long period of time without resolution is known as
- Abnormal
- Complicated
- Unresolved
Types of complicated or abnormal or unresolved grief:
- Complicated (Chronic, Unresolved) grief
- Delayed grief
- Exaggerated grief
- Masked grief
Those suffering from chronic grief exhibit reactions that are excessive and extended in duration. The grief appears to never be resolved or come to a satisfactory conclusion.
Complicated (Chronic, Unresolved) grief
Suppressed and inhibited and postponed responses to a loss are characteristics of delayed grief.
Delayed Grief:
Person appears to be “overacting” to the death when they are suffering from exaggerated grief.
Exaggerated Grief
Someone suffering from masked grief experiences difficulty from symptoms and/or behaviors and make no connections to the loss of the loved one. Once discovered and discussed, improvement usually follows.
Masked Grief
Differences between Masked and Exaggerated Grief
- Exaggerated grief: the patient KNOWS the symptoms began around time of the death and are the results of the death experiences.
Differences between Masked and Exaggerated Grief
- Masked grief: the patient DOES NOT associate the symptoms they are experiencing with a death. Once the connection is made, usually there is improvement.
FACTORS THAT MAY COMPLICATE GRIEF
- Relational
- Circumstantial
- Historical
- Personality
- Social
- Concurrent Stresses
- Communication
Nature of the attachment: strength and security of the attachment, ambivalence in the relationship, conflicts with the deceased, dependent relationships
Relational
Mode of death: Natural (long or short duration), accidental, suicide, homicide
Circumstantial
Were there previous complicated grief reactions?
This is especially important when there were incidents of earlier death events.
Historical
Personality variables: age and gender of the survivor, person’s coping style, attachment style, cognitive style, self-esteem and person’s beliefs and values
Personality
Lacking a social support network contributes to complicated grief, especially if the death occurs as a result of a “socially unspeakable” cause.
Social variables: support availability, support satisfaction, social role involvements, religious resources and ethnic expectations
Social
What else is going on in the life of the person experiencing complicated grief?
Divorce?
Loss of job?
Problems with children?
Concurrent Stresses
Lack of communication certainly complicates grief. Families are stressed when communication is poor or non-existent with and/or about the deceased.
Communication
What does the funeral director do?
- The funeral director needs to be aware of these factors and how they may affect the grieving person.
- The funeral director must recognize these grief reactions may require a referral and the intervention of a certified grief counselor/therapist.
- Aftercare resource information can provide information about locally available certified personnel.
SPECIAL TYPES OF LOSSES:
SUICIDE
SUICIDAL GESTURE
SUICIDAL IDEATION
– a deliberate act of self destruction
SUICIDE
– unsuccessful suicide attempt
SUICIDAL GESTURE
- thoughts about committing suicide
SUICIDAL IDEATION