Grief Notes 1 Flashcards
the science study of human behavior.
PSYCHOLOGY
Psyche=Mind
Logy=Study
the study of human behavior as related to funeral service
FUNERAL SERVICE PSYCHOLOGY
(Experience/Event) – the experience of the emotion of grief. A state of being deprived of something valuable. The experience or the event of losing something or someone.
BEREAVEMENT
(Process) – an adjustment process which involves grief and or sorrow over a period of time and helps in the reorganization of the life of an individual following a loss or death of someone loved
MOURNING
(Emotion) – an emotion or set of emotions due to a loss
GRIEF
study of death.
THANATOLOGY
Thanos=Death
Logy=Study
an irrational exaggerated fear of death.
THANATOPHOPIA
Thanos=Death
Phobia=Fear
NEEDS OF THE BERIEVED:
- To confirm reality
- To establish stability and security
- To receive emotional support
- To express emotions
- To modify emotional ties to deceased
- To provide a basis for building new inter-personal relationship
Why have funerals?
A funeral helps confirm reality by providing a face-to-face encounter with the deceased. Viewing the deceased leaves a final and lasting impression with the survivor. The opportunity to receive and express love
Funerals provides:
- The opportunity to receive and express love
- To show respect for the family, friends and deceased
- To provide an opportunity to express grief
- Provides for a face to face confrontation with death, Confirm the reality that death has occurred
- Opportunity for sharing. “Joy expressed is joy increased, grief shared is grief diminished.”
Funerals provides:
- Theological, psychological and social needs of those who mourn are nourished
- Provide an opportunity for farewell thru ritual
- Provides a dramatic presentation of the fact life has been lived by reflecting upon memories of deceased.
- Helps establish emotional stability thru a social support network
- Establishes a socially accepted climate for mourning and expression of feelings
Theories of Grief and Mourning
Kubler-Ross - 5 Stages of Death And Dying Lindemann –Grief Syndrome Bowlby – Attachment Theory Freud - Mourning and Melancholia Worden – 4 Tasks of Mourning Parkes – 4 Phases of Mourning
A physician who worked with hospice patients and identified “five stages” a terminally ill person and the family experiences. Based on interviews with dying patients wrote Book “On death and Dying” circa 1966
ELISABETH KUBLER-ROSS
5 Stages of Death and Dying
Do the five stages of death occur in exact order listed? NO
Does one experience ALL stages? Not necessarily!
- Denial and isolation
- Anger
- Bargaining
- Depression
- Acceptance
- He was Chief of Psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital in 1944.
- Worked with families who lost loved ones in the Coconut Grove fire.
- First professional to describe “anticipatory grief”.
- Wrote “Symptomatology and Management of Acute Grief”.
- Formulated the “Grief Syndrome”.
Lindemann
- A British psychiatrist who devoted much of his professional career to understanding attachment –what it is and how it develops?
- Noted for the “Attachment Theory”.
Bowlby
GRIEF SYNDROME
- Somatic or bodily distress of some type
- Preoccupation with image of deceased
- Guilt relating to deceased or circumstances of death
- Hostile reactions
- Inability to function as before loss
- May develop traits of the behavior of the deceased
ATTACHMENT THEORY
- Attachments come from need for security and safety
- Situations that endanger bond of attachment give rise to emotional reactions
- The greater the potential for loss, the more intense the reaction
A psychiatrist who wrote “Grief Counseling and Grief Therapy”.
Participated in the “Harvard Bereavement Study” which indicated the mourning is necessary for all who have experienced loss through death.
Identified the four “Tasks of Mourning”.
Worden
4 TASKS OF MOURNING
- Accept the reality of loss
- Work through pain of grief
- To adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing
- To emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life
Wrote early paper “Mourning and Melancholia” 1917, which he pointed out that depression which he called melancholia was a pathological form of normal grief.
He also came up with concept of “grief work” which implies that the mourner needs to take action
Freud
4 Phases of Mourning
Parkes
4 Phases of Mourning
- Period of numbness
- Phase of yearning
- Phase of disorganized and despair
- Phase of reorganized behavior
described as uncomplicated grief.
Normal grief