Grief Glossary Flashcards
- grief extending over a long period of time without resolution.
Abnormal (complicated, unresolved) grief
- the intense physical and emotional expression of grief occurring as the awareness increases of a loss of someone or something significant.
Acute grief
- the individual’s ability to adjust to the psychological and emotional changes brought on by a stressful event such as the death of a significant other.
Adaptation
- is the feelings and their expression.
Affect
- those appropriate and helpful acts of counseling that come after the funeral.
Aftercare (post-funeral counseling)
- the intentional infliction of physical or psychological harm on another
Aggression
- Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome
A.I.D.S.
- the state of estrangement an individual feels in social settings that are viewed as foreign, unpredictable or unacceptable.
Alienation
- providing a choice of services and merchandise available as families make a selection and complete funeral arrangements, formulating different actions in adjusting to a crisis.
Alternatives
- is blame directed towards another person.
Anger
is a term to describe the experience of grief, especially in young bereaved parents, where mourning
customs are unclear due to an inappropriate death and the absence of prior bereavement experience; typical
in a society that has attempted to minimize the impact of death through medical control of disease and social control of those who deal with the dying and the dead.
Anomic grief
- syndrome characterized by the presence of grief in anticipation of death or loss; the actual
death comes as a confirmation of knowledge of a life-limiting condition.
Anticipatory grief
- a state of tension, typically characterized by rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath and other similar
ramifications of arousal of the automatic nervous system; an emotion characterized by a vague fear or
premonition that something undesirable is going to happen.
Anxiety
- a death has occurred and the funeral director is advising the family from the time the death
occurs until the final disposition including selection of the services and merchandise during the arrangements conference.
At-need counseling
- it is the tendency in human being to make strong affectional bonds with others coming from the need for security and safety.
Attachment (Blowlby)
- giving undivided attention by means of verbal and non-verbal behavior.
Attending (listening)
- a learned tendency to respond to people, objects, or institutions in a positive or negative way.
Attitude
- the act or event of separation or loss that results in the experience of grief.
Bereavement
- excessive in duration and never comes to a satisfactory conclusion.
Chronic grief
- see person centered counseling
Client centered (person centered) counseling
- from the Latin, “to know;” the study of the origins and consequences of thoughts,
memories, beliefs, perceptions, explanations, and other mental processes.
Cognitive psychology
- the rite of finality in a funeral service preceding cremation, earth burial, entombment, or burial at sea.
Committal service
- a general term for the exchange of information, feelings, thoughts and acts between two or more
people, including both verbal and non-verbal aspects of this interchange.
Communication
- see abnormal grief.
Complicated (abnormal, unresolved, grief)
- according to client-centered counseling, the necessary quality of a counselor being in touch with reality and other’s perception of oneself.
Congruence
- characteristic ways of responding to stress.
Coping
- the individual seeking assistance or guidance.
Counselee
- advice, especially that given as a result of consultation
Counseling (Webster)
- any time someone helps someone else with a problem.
Counseling (Jackson)
- good communication within and between men; or, good (free) communication within or
between men is always therapeutic.
Counseling (Rogers)
- a therapeutic experience for reasonable health persons. Do no confuse this with psychotherapy which is treatment for emotionally disturbed persons, who seek, or are referred for assistance with pathological problems. A counselor’s clients are encouraged to seek assistance before they develop serious neurotic, psychotic, or characterological disorders.
Counseling (Ohlsen)
- the individual providing assistance and guidance.
Counselor
- a highly emotional temporary state in which an individual’s feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain impair his or her ability to act.
Crisis
interventions for a highly emotional, temporary state in which individuals, overcome by feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain are unable to act in a realistic, normal manner. Intentional responses
which help individuals in a crisis situation.
Crisis counseling
- a learned emotional response to death-related phenomenon which is characterized by extreme apprehension.
Death anxiety
- an unconscious, irrational means used by the ego to defend against anxiety.
Defense mechanisms
- inhibited, suppressed or postponed response to a loss.
Delayed grief (Worden)
- the defense mechanism by which a person is unable or refuses to see things as they are because such facts are threatening to the self.
Denial
- counselor takes a live speaking role, asking questions, suggesting courses of action, etcl.
Directive counseling
- treating members of various social groups differently in circumstances where their rights or treatment should be identical.
Discrimination
- redirecting anger toward a person or object other than one who caused the anger originally.
Displaced aggression
- feelings such as happiness, anger or grief, created by brain patterns accompanies by bodily changes.
Emotion(s)
- the outward expression or display of mood or feeling states.
Emotional expression
- the ability to perceive another’s experience and communicate that perception back to the person.
Empathy (Wolfelt)