goals/ obstacles Flashcards
developing meaningful goals
- motivation is most important. enhance desire, provide confidence, and will over minor setbacks.
- link day-to-day behaviors to goals
- identify common obstacles
> work, home, support, time
> develop strategy to overcome
goal categories
- be all you used to be (past) (resume old activities)
- be better now (present)- medical, vacation
- be all you can be (future)- event (marathon) longer timeline
-present- what aspects of life made better if medical attained-live longer- grandkids, activities, meds
> new goals will emerge
motivation (pt 1)
instrinsic/extrinsic
-in- personal fulfillment. (joy, well-being, interest)- ensure goals realistic
> support? - time away from spouse/kids, new meals- overload leads to relapse
-ex- environment. (inadequate to sustain motivation)
>caregiver, doctor, maintain attractiveness to spouse
> seek deeper/ personal goals
combined in/ extrinsic (pt 2)
- common for goals to initially be intrin or extrin
> more opportunities to reinforce goals
> majority of motivation should become intrinsic - need to get in shape = return to enjoyed activities
transform large goals to small
- general or unrealistic goals demotivate people
- small direct goals direct energy
- creates clearer picture/ roadmap for success
-what would like be like if goal reached?
> firs thing they would do it more fit? activities? with whom? free time?
small goals
real goals/ real obstacles
- must be meaningful
- within immediate reach
-discover obstacles/develop plan beforehand
internal/ external
internal obstacles
all or nothing vs growth mindset
- I have tried everything and nothing works
> health and fitness determined by genes, avoid challenges, give up easy
-growth mindset- desire to learn and grow
>embrace challenges, persist in face of setbacks, find inspiratory/ lessons in others
internal obstacles
-ask- how could you have overcome obstacle? what next time?
-client finds way on own
(‘how will you ensure to drink more water?’ vs ‘make sure to drink 64 oz a day!’
external obstacles
-coach needs gain realistic understanding of time available to client + motivation level
-90min/d 5d/wk
> if no: school events, traffic, work project, travel time
long term goal time
short term
- 6mos+
- 1-2 mos (4-8 weeks)
HAES (Healthy at every Size)
Shifting health paradigm
- action instead of numbers
lose 20 lbs = action change/ behavior reprogram
-SMART, health focused goals, SELF, SE
Self Rewards
Key:
- make intrinsic not extrinsic (massage, new outfit, time w/ fav hobby)
- positive self talk- immediate reward
- change negative statements to positive
> I will never stop eating icecream, I will occasionally eat fruit instead