Foundations of Effective Counseling Flashcards
List the qualities of effective counselors (6: CCEEFOO)
Competence/Knowledge Concentration Emotional Stability Empathy Flexibility Objective Openness/Honesty
Discuss objectivity
Focus on client’s feelings, not our own
We don’t allow our own emotions to inappropriately influence the situation
Discuss competence and knowledge
We continuously grow ourselves
Read, attend workshops and conventions
Re: competence and knowledge - how do parents with disabilities often approach meetings? What is Karen Fittinger’s recommendation?
Parents have TONS of info from the Internet and will bring info to meetings
Karen Fittinger: keep up! Don’t let parents school you
**What does Sheehan (Child Neurology workshop) recommend re: competence and knowledge?
Be proactive– head parents off at the pass
“If you go to the Internet, you will see…”
We can appear knowledgeable by doing what 7 things in our office?
In what situation are these suggestions especially useful?
Referring people to books, articles, websites
Appearing organized and prepared ahead of time
Having professional books and journals within view
Writing excellent reports
Having our diplomas displayed
Having a nameplate with M.S. CCC-SLP on it
Giving people a great business card
If the SLP is young and the patient is old
Discuss flexibility (look at what kinds of things? (to change materials/approach, etc))
Vary our approach with different clients
We look at age, gender, culture, religion, educational level
Discuss openness and honesty
Hear and understand people without imposing our value system on them
Acceptance vs. condoning: Listening and understanding vs. approving
Discuss emotional stability
Security with ourselves; being stable emotionally
How can we maintain emotional stability if our lives are difficult?
Discuss empathy
Enter into, share the feelings of others
Don’t ever say “I know just how you feel”
Better: “I can’t even imagine what you must be going through right now. How hard!”
What are the two kinds of empathy discussed in class? Compare/contrast.
Primary empathy- communication of our accurate perception of the client’s message
Advanced empathy- includes self-disclosure
**What does Shames say about advanced empathy?
It should not result in a prolonged or specific focus on the counselor by either the counselor or client.
What are 4 ways to show concentration? (APVW)
Avoid distractions
Plan enough time for the meeting
Visualize what the speaker is saying
Write things down
Define respect in the clinical setting. What are some ways to achieve it?
Having regard for and showing appropriate courtesy to others.
Address people by appropriate titles (esp. elderly)
Ask for their input “What do you think?”
Thank them for taking time out of their schedule
T/F: The next time you see the person, you should never bring up something specific they said last time
False: you want to do this: “I remember when you said last time that we should decide on therapy goals.”