Final Flashcards
When to challenge
1) self-misinformation
2) mistaken ideas and beliefs
3) misinterpreting others actions
4) blaming others vs. self
5) inconsistent thoughts, feelings, behaviors, values
6) not working on goals
Pretend like you are trying to understand even if you already know the answer (blindspot)
Only challenge when you have an established relationship
Easiest is not working on goals or inconsistent thoughts, feelings, behaviors, and values
Discrepancies
1) verbal and nonverbals
2) beliefs and experiences
3) values and behavior
4) verbal expressions
On one hand_____ on the other hand_____
Can be a question, immediacy, paraphrase, encourager, rof, roc, rom
Silence
to let the client process through and self reflect
Goal Setting
what does this mean to you, what do we want to do differently, our plan for this week in the final summary.