Family and Peer Relationships Flashcards
Family Dynamics Framework
common framework for the study of families and for family therapy
ALL members have effect on all other members
internal AND external things
affected by things like social support, employment
changes to 1 family member affect ALL
(positives and negative to this)
changes in structure due to births, deaths, divorce or remarriage can affect the whole fam
Parental Socialization - 3 ways through which this is done
Parents very important for socialization!
1) Direct instruction
2) Indirectly
3) Providers and controllers of opportunity
Direct instruction
e.g. teaching about religious practices
Indirectly
modeling attitudes & behaviors
perhaps even moreso than what you say
e.g. modelling saying “thank you” to waitress at restaurant
Providers and controllers of opportunity
Peers, schools, family gatherings, learning experiences, culture
e.g. choosing which school they go to, signing up for activities
Baumrind’s Typology - Main Dimensions of Parenting Styles (2)
1) Responsiveness
2) Demandingness
Responsiveness
showing love, respect, attention, time, warmth
Demandingness
how well you expect them to do in school, how much you expect them to do independently
Baumrind’s Typology - Types of Parenting Styles (4)
1) Authoritative
2) Authoritarian
3) Permissive
4) Rejecting/Neglectful
Which parenting style is associated with the BEST outcomes?
Authoritative
(think authoritatiVE = loVE)
Which parenting style is associated with the WORST outcomes?
Rejecting/Neglectful
Why is authoritative the best? (many answers)
children more likely to respond to punishment when is RARE
more likely to follow limits when reasonable, when they understands reasons behind it
when parents give children decisions, they’re more likely to comply when parents ask
control that is fair and reasonable is more likely to be internalized
disapproval works best when approval is the norm
autonomy granting fosters self-esteem and maturity
Authoritative Parenting
Demandingness: HIGH
Responsiveness: HIGH
high expectations, allow children to take on age-appropriate responsibilities, grant autonomy, negotiate, clear limits and communicate the “why”
warm, loving, responsive, supportive
Outcomes: do well in school, confident, lots of friends, good coping skills
Authoritarian Parenting
Demandingness: HIGH
Responsiveness: LOW
High demandingness that may not be age appropriate, control child with threats and punishment, don’t explain the “why”, kids have little control and independence
Outcomes (BAD): act out, higher internalizing (girls) and externalizing (boys), lower peer and academic skills
Where would a child with authoritarian parenting be most likely to act out?
a) home
b) school
b) school
Don’t tend to act out at home, comply at home and act out elsewhere
Permissive Parenting
Demandingness: LOW
Responsiveness: HIGH
“Hippie parents”
responsive but NO limits
child makes decisions before they are ready
don’t learn to regulate
Outcomes (BAD): poor at school, lots of externalizing and conduct problems, getting into trouble, acting out
Which parenting style is most likely to lead to a child with poor regulating skills?
Permissive parenting
Rejecting/Neglectful Parenting
Demandingness: LOW
Responsiveness HIGH
uninvolved
no rules, love, support, attention
parents who are focused on own needs
parents usually have own issues - e.g. mental health, extreme stress, low SES
Outcomes: WORST - poor relationships, promiscuity (teen pregnancy), high internalizing (girls) and externalizing (boys)
Biggest criticism of research findings regarding parenting styles
Done by WEIRD researchers, finding what they’re expecting to find
Study on 6th graders who rarely ate dinner with parents vs those that often did
Rarely ate with parents - more likely to have adjustment problems
-Anxiety and depression
-Delinquency and substance use
-Poor school grades
EVEN after controlled for other factors
–> parents important!
What is the worst type of punishment?
Intermittent reinforcement
behaviour is most resistant to extinction
e.g. kid crying for candy at grocery store, give in and let them have it
Characteristics of Effective Punishment (3)
1) immediate
2) consistent
3) explained
Child’s Effects on Parenting (many)
Difficult temperaments
Attractiveness
Unintentional rewarding of negative behaviour
Child’s perception of parents
Bidirectional effect*
What is the best way to reprimand child’s behaviour?
reprimand consistently OR ignore the behaviour
don’t give in