Esp Flashcards
is a complex and multifaceted emotion, encompassing a wide range of experiences and expressions.
Love
is characterized by intense physical attraction and deep emotion connection. It’s the fiery, exhilarating ove we often associate with romance.
eros (passionate attraction)
while ___ thrives on chemistry and desire eds ____ to evolve into somethi lasting. Trust and understanding are crucial for its longevity.
Eros (nurturing growth)
____ is grounded in mutual respect, trust, and shared values. It’s the love that makes close friendships so meaningful.
Philia (mutual respect)
Unlike Eros, ____ is not romantic. It’s about being there for someone without expecting anything in return.
Philia (Unconditional Support)
___ is the love that grows from familiarity, often seen between parents and children or siblings. It’s rooted in shared experiences.
Familiarity and Belonging Storge
is typically unconditional, providing a safe foundation for emotional growth and a sense of belonging.
Unconditional Foundation
Storge
___ involves laughing, teasing, and feeling giddy around a person.
It’s very childlike, though it can evolve.
Giddy and Childlike
Ludus
___ is love built on practicality, commitment, and shared life goals. It grows over time, requiring effort and understanding.
Commitment and Goals
Pragma
involves working together to overcome challenges, plan a future, and stay together through ups and downs.
Overcoming Challenges
Pragma
means having a strong sense of self-worth and boundaries, enabling you to give and receive love freely.
Self-Worth and Boundaries
Healthy Philautia
Excessive self-love can lead to narcissism, a harmful form of _____ that prioritizes self-interest above all else.
Narcissism (Philautia)
is an overwhelming, possessive love that can lead to dependency and unhealthy dynamics. It’s characterized by intense jealousy, insecurity, and a need for constant reassurance.
Mania
___ , a Greek term, signifies selfless, unconditional, and sacrificial love. It is often associated with the divine love of God for humanity. It is “the highest and purest form of love of love, charity” and “the love of God for [human beings] and of [human beings] for God”.
Agape
is not based on actions or merit but given freely.
Unconditional
Agape
It prioritizes the well-being of others without expecting anything in return.
Selfless
transcends time anc circumstances, often described a unwavering and infinite.
Eternal
Agape
Giving your time and effort to a cause without expecting recognition.
Volunteering
Extending grace and mercy to someone who has wronged you.
Forgiveness
Performing acts of kindness without expecting anything in return.
kindness
Belief in God’s existence, wisdom, and guidance, and trusting in His plans.
Faith and Trust
Following God’s commandments and actively engaging in acts of worship or rituals that honor Him.
Obedience and Worship
Acknowledging God’s blessings and expressing heartfelt thanks and admiration.
Gratitude and Praise
Reflecting God’s love by showing kindness, mercy, and service to others.
Compassion and Service
People with the _____ love style feel special and valued when their partner takes an interest in their hobbies and interests and makes an effort to enjoy ____ together. The motivation here is togetherness, but it’s about more than just spending quality time with a partner.
Activity
People with the _____ love style feel special and valued when their partner gives them praise and compliments. Words are more important than deeds for this type but it is not just about pretty words. People who prefer this love style want to feel that their partner is paying attention to their personal qualities and the little triumphs of their lives, and is grateful and appreciative of them.
Appreciation
People with the ____ style feel loved when their partner is able to connect with them and support them through tough emotions. This type feels loved when they receive caring support during emotionally challenging or vulnerable times
Emotional love
People with the ___ style feel loved and valued when their partner shows generosity with finances in order to bring them joy. Treats and surprises are certainly part of this love style, but it is not limited to receiving gifts. Rather, it describes a larger desire for a partner who is willing to use their financial resources in a variety of ways to help and delight their significant other.
Financial love
People with the ____ style like to connect through the mind. They feel loved when their partner values their intelligence, respects their opinion, and takes part in thoughtful discussion of important issues.
Intellectual love
While the ___ style includes a desire to spend quality time together, it focuses more specifically on a meeting of minds and valuing each other’s intelligence.
Intellectual love
People with the ____ style feel cared for and supported when they are being touched and held by their partner; they love the sensate experience of physical intimacy. This is not just a code word for sex. Rather, it includes everything from erotic touch to hugs, hand-holding, foot rubs, snuggles and quick morning kisses
Physical love
People with the _____ feel special and valued when their partner takes care of the chores, pitches in with the household, and offers practical, everyday help to lighten the load. Rather than just helping out with the chores, the Practical love style is about going “above and beyond” with practical help, and doing things that are unexpected and specifically for the benefit of your partner
Practical love style
