early adulthood Flashcards
erikson stage
intimacy vs isolation
success= strong relationships
failure= loneliness and isolation
secure adult attachment
50-60%
realistic and coherent description of their childhood, understand how past experiences have influenced their lives
insecure-dismissing
25-30%
focus on the negative, do not want to discuss their relationship with their parents
insecure-preoccupied
15%
tend to be incoherent, disorganized. express ongoing anger or efforts to please parent
trend of cohabitation before marriage
increased sharply since 1970
average age of marriage
males- 29
females- 27
with overall increase in the average age at time of first marriage
things that contribute to increased divorce
- as woman’s income increases
- health: psych disorder, substance abuse, psychosomatic problems
when are physicians most likely to get divorced?
physician divorce rate?
ages 35-45, after med school/during residency
29% (lower than average, physicians tend to stay married)
what was the result of Kinsey’s study on human sexuality
there is a continuum between heterosexual and homosexual
what percentage of female physicians marry other physicians?
50-70%
affairs are the main cause for divorce
false
things that predict success in marriage
men- accept influence from their partners, do not escalate an argument
women- start discussions in a softer way to avoid triggering strong feelings in their partner
5 things that make marriage work
- solve things that are solvable
- create love maps
- nurture fondness and admiration
- turn toward each other for support
- allow your partner to influence you